
yuvdon
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Letâs clear something up:
You donât need abs, money, or a 12-step skincare routine to make friends.

- Be chill.
- Be kind.
- Be funny (naturally, not try-hard).
- Be real.

You could be 5â6â, wear anime hoodies, and still have a loyal squad if youâre a solid human. People respect real ones.

Girls
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Itâs a different game. Hereâs the truth based on what Iâve lived:
In my old school, I had no girlfriend. I wasnât seen.
When I switched to a new school, I changed my approach:
- Started doing sports.
- Wore better clothes (even expensive ones).
- Played the funny/clown role sometimes.
Did it help?
Yes, a lot. I started getting more attention.

If youâre trying to level up, hereâs the toolkit:

Even a basic routine helps. It wonât turn you into a model, but after 1â2 months, it makes a difference.

- Fix posture
- Get a good haircut
- Dress better (fit matters more than price)
- Build a bit of muscle
- Improve hygiene

If youâre active on Snap or IG, get your angles, lighting, and vibe right. Image isnât everything, but in todayâs world, it plays a roleâespecially in the first impression.
Real Talk for âSub5â Guys
If you feel like youâre below average in looks (âsub5â), hereâs the truth:
- You can still get friendsâthatâs guaranteed if youâre a decent, genuine person.
But yeah, a lot of them might be nerds, misfits, or people who arenât considered âcool.â That doesnât mean theyâre worthlessâit just means your circle wonât be Instagram models and hypebeasts. Be real about that. - Forget about getting a girlfriend.
If you donât have looks, status, or charisma, girls wonât really look your wayâespecially in high school. Thatâs just how it is.