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💬 Real Talk: You Don’t Need to Be a Chad to Make Friends


Let’s clear something up:


You don’t need abs, money, or a 12-step skincare routine to make friends.


✅ What Actually Matters for Friendship:
  • Be chill.
  • Be kind.
  • Be funny (naturally, not try-hard).
  • Be real.
Nobody’s saying, “I won’t be your friend unless you’re a 6’2’’ Chad with good eye area .” That’s not how friendships work.


💡 Example:

You could be 5’6”, wear anime hoodies, and still have a loyal squad if you’re a solid human. People respect real ones.


😅 But When It Comes to

Girls

…

It’s a different game. Here’s the truth based on what I’ve lived:


In my old school, I had no girlfriend. I wasn’t seen.


When I switched to a new school, I changed my approach:

  • Started doing sports.
  • Wore better clothes (even expensive ones).
  • Played the funny/clown role sometimes.

Did it help?
Yes, a lot. I started getting more attention.


🔧 What You Can Do (If You’re a “normie”)

If you’re trying to level up, here’s the toolkit:

🧴 Skincare

Even a basic routine helps. It won’t turn you into a model, but after 1–2 months, it makes a difference.



💇‍♂️ Soft maxing Glow-up :
  • Fix posture
  • Get a good haircut
  • Dress better (fit matters more than price)
  • Build a bit of muscle
  • Improve hygiene

📸 Snapmaxing
If you’re active on Snap or IG, get your angles, lighting, and vibe right. Image isn’t everything, but in today’s world, it plays a role—especially in the first impression.

Real Talk for “Sub5” Guys

If you feel like you’re below average in looks (“sub5”), here’s the truth:
  • You can still get friends—that’s guaranteed if you’re a decent, genuine person.
    But yeah, a lot of them might be nerds, misfits, or people who aren’t considered “cool.” That doesn’t mean they’re worthless—it just means your circle won’t be Instagram models and hypebeasts. Be real about that.
  • Forget about getting a girlfriend.
    If you don’t have looks, status, or charisma, girls won’t really look your way—especially in high school. That’s just how it is.
 
  • JFL
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