
WellDevelopedIndian
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If you've perused the NoFap forums/boards, you will see people who believe that going weeks/months (or even years) without "beating the meat" can have life changing positive effects like better cognition, better energy levels, improved charisma and sexual magnetism(whatever that means), etc.
Obviously doing anything in excess can have negative impact on ones mental health. But I find these claims and promises about a life changing impact to be bs and such long term abstinence not only has fictitious benefits but can also be dangerous in the long run. Change my mind.
I never get it though? My BF loves to watch porn with me. Its a lot of fun. If were getting kinky porn is especially fun. It seems that whole equation is just out of the NoFap ideological box lol. Which is more or less a modern PC coated version of puritanical ideology around sex. Ironically that way of thinking is generally why younger men seem to end up single then blame porn. They'll blame everything except their world view. Generally when someone's willing to look for a problem everywhere except one place, the place they wont look is where the problem lies.
Obviously doing anything in excess can have negative impact on ones mental health. But I find these claims and promises about a life changing impact to be bs and such long term abstinence not only has fictitious benefits but can also be dangerous in the long run. Change my mind.
I never get it though? My BF loves to watch porn with me. Its a lot of fun. If were getting kinky porn is especially fun. It seems that whole equation is just out of the NoFap ideological box lol. Which is more or less a modern PC coated version of puritanical ideology around sex. Ironically that way of thinking is generally why younger men seem to end up single then blame porn. They'll blame everything except their world view. Generally when someone's willing to look for a problem everywhere except one place, the place they wont look is where the problem lies.
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