GolemRot
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I'm sick of that ridiculous stereotype that considers that just because I'm a young Latino, I have to be lively, cheerful, and "flirtatious." The reality is that I do not identify at all with that silly stereotype.
I'm quiet, cold, and I'm not really interested in anyone's life, unless I have a special relationship with someone, like a GIRLFRIEND or some relatives. But ironically, I can't have much luck with most females if I don't behave like an outgoing person.
Most women dislike the idea of dating an introverted man, and the few women who do like shy men are usually very hard to find. Not to mention the fact that some may already be busy with someone else.
I can't act like the life of the party, and I don't have to. I mean, I'm going to look very fake and unoriginal if I act in a way that doesn't correspond to my real personality.
Is this really the reason why I'm still chaste and don't have a girlfriend?
I guess there are more factors that come into play. And no, I'm not gay and I don't put women on a pedestal, quite the opposite. I just need to know what my real limitation is.
I'm quiet, cold, and I'm not really interested in anyone's life, unless I have a special relationship with someone, like a GIRLFRIEND or some relatives. But ironically, I can't have much luck with most females if I don't behave like an outgoing person.
Most women dislike the idea of dating an introverted man, and the few women who do like shy men are usually very hard to find. Not to mention the fact that some may already be busy with someone else.
I can't act like the life of the party, and I don't have to. I mean, I'm going to look very fake and unoriginal if I act in a way that doesn't correspond to my real personality.
Is this really the reason why I'm still chaste and don't have a girlfriend?
I guess there are more factors that come into play. And no, I'm not gay and I don't put women on a pedestal, quite the opposite. I just need to know what my real limitation is.