No likes or matches on Hinge for a week

[pprimus43]

Not even LTBs. This world was designed to torture me.

 

[pprimus43]

Bump

 

[Deleted member 114947]

LTB are arguably the hardest to get.

 

[pprimus43]

LTB are arguably the hardest to get.

I was getting 2-3 matches a week before, IDK what the fuck happened.

 

[Deleted member 114947]

I was getting 2-3 matches a week before, IDK what the fuck happened.

Algorithm. They want you to pay a subscription and sell you boosts.

 

[pprimus43]

Algorithm. They want you to pay a subscription and sell you boosts.

How the fuck else will I escape KHV at this point. Too ugly for apps. Too Autistic for IRL. Leanmaxxing is quite literally my only hope left. My life depends on it working.

 

[Deleted member 114947]

How the fuck else will I escape KHV at this point. Too ugly for apps.

You said you were getting matches though?

Too Autistic for IRL.

Learned skill

Leanmaxxing is quite literally my only hope left. My life depends on it working.

Leanmaxxing is mainstream. It’s the minimum along with nice cloths, car, your own place.

After you get all those things then the real competition starts.

 

[pprimus43]

You said you were getting matches though?

Learned skill

Leanmaxxing is mainstream. It’s the minimum along with nice cloths, car, your own place.

After you get all those things then the real competition starts.

I was getting maybe 1-2 dates a month off OLD but it seems to have dried up. I just deleted my Tinder account and gonna remake one. Hinge I can't crack. Bumble is the worst of the 3. During my dates I would act Autistic and too high inhib to make moves which led to me failing all 5 of my dates. I'm around 20-21 percent body fat rn at 151lb. Planning to resume my leanmaxxing after Christmas.

 

[HollyJolly]

One word, Prostitution.

 

[pprimus43]

One word, Prostitution.

I'm giving it one more year before I coom inside an escort. My mind cannot take much more of this psychological torture. If I fail to get a GF by 23 I'm locationmaxxing to SEA or betabuxxing I don't even fucking know at this point. I hate my life.

 

[Deleted member 114947]

I was getting maybe 1-2 dates a month off OLD but it seems to have dried up. I just deleted my Tinder account and gonna remake one. Hinge I can't crack. Bumble is the worst of the 3. During my dates I would act Autistic and too high inhib to make moves which led to me failing all 5 of my dates. I'm around 20-21 percent body fat rn at 151lb. Planning to resume my leanmaxxing after Christmas.

Best thing to do is not swipe after making your account and then after a week or two only swipe on the girls you think swiped right on you. This will boost your account in the algorithm. The trick is you have to get a lot of likes in the first place.

 

[pprimus43]

Best thing to do is not swipe after making your account and then after a week or two only swipe on the girls you think swiped right on you. This will boost your account in the algorithm. The trick is you have to get a lot of likes in the first place.

I'll have to take 2-3 more pics. I got one decent one I think and that's it.

 

[Deleted member 114947]

I'll have to take 2-3 more pics. I got one decent one I think and that's it.

That’s not good enough.

 

[pprimus43]

That’s not good enough.

I mean what else I can really do at this rate?

 

[Deleted member 114947]

I mean what else I can really do at this rate?

Get better photos. You said you have one good one.

 

[SamuraiCope]

I mean what else I can really do at this rate?

Legit good photos, with a tripod, with some variety (hobbys, restaurant, pets, etc), some editing (faceapp pro)

The matches drying up might be due to location, im asian and had good results in the US, maybe you gotta go to a bigger town (just not a touristic city full of moggers)

A decent bio helps

As for escalating on dates, I would just focus on having a good time and interact with her like you would friends, you gotta feel good or you'll chicken out

I know this isn't a great strategy, but it helped me when I was high inhib; kissing is the biggest hurdle, so just hug your date at a good time, and ask for a kiss

You got this bhai

 

[pprimus43]

Legit good photos, with a tripod, with some variety (hobbys, restaurant, pets, etc), some editing (faceapp pro)

The matches drying up might be due to location, im asian and had good results in the US, maybe you gotta go to a bigger town (just not a touristic city full of moggers)

A decent bio helps

As for escalating on dates, I would just focus on having a good time and interact with her like you would friends, you gotta feel good or you'll chicken out

I know this isn't a great strategy, but it helped me when I was high inhib; kissing is the biggest hurdle, so just hug your date at a good time, and ask for a kiss

You got this bhai

Thanks for the legit advice. Nice to meet a fellow East Asian around these parts.

 

[Whatever]

It’s a dying app, I went from about a 1/15 match rate (with prime MTB+) this summer to now about one per week. I’m doing a little bit better on Tinder but not enough to really slay and this isn’t how I wanna meet a girl anyways, I’m just gonna have to approach.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

I was getting maybe 1-2 dates a month off OLD but it seems to have dried up. I just deleted my Tinder account and gonna remake one. Hinge I can't crack. Bumble is the worst of the 3. During my dates I would act Autistic and too high inhib to make moves which led to me failing all 5 of my dates. I'm around 20-21 percent body fat rn at 151lb. Planning to resume my leanmaxxing after Christmas.

By your bmi I assume ur also a manlet too?

 

[pprimus43]

By your bmi I assume ur also a manlet too?

5 feet 8, so yes. Everyone thinks I'm 5 feet 9 though

 

[pprimus43]

Bump

 

[sub6manletnozygos]

im too scared to install tinder again (i only received 1-10 matches a day when i was 18). i said i would never install tinder until i got my surgeries bc im an ugly subhuman, however, its been nearly 10 years, and i still havent gotten my surgeries and i still havent installed tinder since then.