No one on this forum has done more cringe cold approaches than I have

[uksucks]

Forgot this even happened, only cuz I saw this girl again for first time in years that it reminded me...

There was a girl in one of my university classes never seen or interacted before.

Anyway she smiled at me like 3 or 4 times on separate occasions without any need to.

One day after a lecture finished, I followed her up some stairs ( I noticed she goes there after dunno why, she always walks fast).

literally followed her up 2 flights of stairs. She went into some locked room. I tried opening it and it was locked. she noticed me and opened it to let me in.

Super cringe conversation ensued. My voice was very shaky at first but stabilised shortly after. Turns out she is a phd student (idk why she was in my class), anyway I got her number and as she was putting it in, one of the lecturers starts having a chat with her almost cockblokcing me. He's looking at me like who the fuck are you, why are you here. Anyway I left quickly after.

I texted her, 1 word reply the ghosted bruh it's fucking over

Some guy fucks her but it ain't me

 

[Bug]

A lot of time girls will flirt with u just for ego boost even if a girl is looking at me and smiling I will never approach only time I approach is cold approach in unknown parts of my city where I don't have to see them again

 

[Bug]

Cold approaching contrary to popular belief is easier since women are more scared since ur a random stranger. If u know her in school she can do whatever she wants to u

 

[uksucks]

where I don't have to see them again

Yeh it's way easier if they're complete strangers

 

[Klasik616]

Forgot this even happened, only cuz I saw this girl again for first time in years that it reminded me...

There was a girl in one of my university classes never seen or interacted before.

Anyway she smiled at me like 3 or 4 times on separate occasions without any need to.

One day after a lecture finished, I followed her up some stairs ( I noticed she goes there after dunno why, she always walks fast).

literally followed her up 2 flights of stairs. She went into some locked room. I tried opening it and it was locked. she noticed me and opened it to let me in.

Super cringe conversation ensued. My voice was very shaky at first but stabilised shortly after. Turns out she is a phd student (idk why she was in my class), anyway I got her number and as she was putting it in, one of the lecturers starts having a chat with her almost cockblokcing me. He's looking at me like who the fuck are you, why are you here. Anyway I left quickly after.

I texted her, 1 word reply the ghosted bruh it's fucking over

Some guy fucks her but it ain't me

This is the worst cold approaching story I've ever read, cringiest aspiest shit ever. Congrats OP, control your emotions and don't act like a man with 0 options. Kys if you can pls

 

[ItsOver999]

r u autistic

 

[uksucks]

r u autistic

Ye

 

[uksucks]

This is the worst cold approaching story I've ever read, cringiest aspiest shit ever. Congrats OP, control your emotions and don't act like a man with 0 options.

I didn't really have any other way to approach her other than to sit next to her right at the front in front of the lecturer
If I was nt it wouldn't have been a problem and would have workes anyway

 

[Klasik616]

Ye

I've done something like this once, learned and never doing it again. Now women will have to search for me first, I'm not putting effort into a woman who doesn't give a shit about me and doesn't want to see me.

 

[Klasik616]

I didn't really have any other way to approach her other than to sit next to her right at the front in front of the lecturer
If I was nt it wouldn't have been a problem and would have workes anyway

Cold approaching never works, you can't force things to happen. Thread '𝗜𝘁𝘀 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻' https://looksmax.org/threads/its-imposible-to-force-things-to-happen.1230672/

 

[uksucks]

I've done something like this once, learned and never doing it again. Now women will have to search for me first, I'm not putting effort into a woman who doesn't give a shit about me and doesn't want to see me.

I mean people here say iois are cope but she definitely gave them or showed some interest at least

 

[uksucks]

Cold approaching never works, you can't force things to happen.

Yeh tbh in this country I agree. It's just not the norm
.in USA it's normalised though

 

[Klasik616]

I mean people here say iois are cope but she definitely gave them or showed some interest at least

Same happened to me, approached and she denied me her number.

 

[forevergymcelling]

I wanna try cold approach but I know they’ll spit in my face

 

[uksucks]

Same happened to me, approached and she denied me her number.

I should edit

It was awkward on my end because I kinda had no place being there and was shaky voice

But she was really friendly and didn't seem to mind chatting, honestly thought it went well

 

[uksucks]

I could post so many more examples but that's enough for today

 

[Shahnameh]

literally followed her up 2 flights of stairs. She went into some locked room. I tried opening it and it was locked. she noticed me and opened it to let me in.

U need to come to sydney, this would be pure gold to witness in person

 

[Klasik616]

I could post so many more examples but that's enough for today

All my cold approaches ended up badly. Last time a cold approach ended up OK was a year ago.

 

[uksucks]

U need to come to sydney, this would be pure gold to witness in person

Why Sydney

 

[uksucks]

All my cold approaches ended up badly. Last time a cold approach ended up OK was a year ago.

Which country

 

[Shahnameh]

Why Sydney

We have a cold approach squad here

 

[uksucks]

We have a cold approach squad here

I have family there, so yeh I'll try it one day ig

 

[Toad]

You're not really cold approaching if you're in college and the girl smiled at you a few times. Like she already knows you; at that point just strike up a conversation. Yeah, at first it feels awkward to talk to girls but the more you do it the better you get at it. A cute nerdy girl once smiled at me in line at the cafe and afterwards I went and sat next to her and asked her how the food was. We went from there and eventually became friends. I fucked it up though because I crashed out on her because she wasn't responding to my flirting

 

[uksucks]

You're not really cold approaching if you're in college and the girl smiled at you a few times. Like she already knows you; at that point just strike up a conversation. Yeah, at first it feels awkward to talk to girls but the more you do it the better you get at it. A cute nerdy girl once smiled at me in line at the cafe and afterwards I went and sat next to her and asked her how the food was. We went from there and eventually became friends. I fucked it up though because I crashed out on her because she wasn't responding to my flirting

I suppose but when non nt those long games will never work for me. I have to strike when the iron's hot, if ever

 

[Deleted member 105969]

I've done something like this once, learned and never doing it again. Now women will have to search for me first, I'm not putting effort into a woman who doesn't give a shit about me and doesn't want to see me.

Most girls are too high inhib to approach tho unless you’re like chadlite

 

[uksucks]

Most girls are too high inhib to approach tho unless you’re like chadlite

I think he means like philosophy of the universe.

Like it's his fate to be an incel

 

[Klasik616]

Most girls are too high inhib to approach tho unless you’re like chadlite

I have got approached once since then.

 

[ItsOver999]

Ye

Ok well u need to stop following girls like a stalker murderer rapist

And learn some game

 

[valentine]

i immediately consider you a retard if you cold approach, the lack of self awareness is comical. why would ANYONE be ok with this? just gives off serial killer vibes

 

[UnevenNeckshi]

bro just take it as a learning experience, every dude who gets girls has experiences where a girl was interested in them but they fumbled you'll get better one day.

 

[romanstock]

you stopped msging her cause she gave a 1 word reply to ur first msg? that's quitting too fast.

 

[Eblan]

Damn she didn't suck your cock immediately, over for you bro

 

[iblamericky]

never cold approaching which is why I’ll be single forever JFL

 

[RealNinja]

One day after a lecture finished, I followed her up some stairs ( I noticed she goes there after dunno why, she always walks fast).

literally followed her up 2 flights of stairs. She went into some locked room. I tried opening it and it was locked. she noticed me and opened it to let me in.

I did something similarly autistic. Had a crush on a girl in one of my classes. Talked to her once but was looking for another opportunity to speak outside of class. One night I was taking a walk on campus and ran into her walking to the gym. She was by herself, it was dark and there was no one else around. I didn’t even think about this, my retard ass was like “here’s your chance playboy” and I struck up a conversation. It was awkward because I was unprepared but I kept it going until she got to the gym. After that she started avoiding me. Makes me want to kill myself thinking about it

 

[uksucks]

you stopped msging her cause she gave a 1 word reply to ur first msg? that's quitting too fast.

Nah after that I asked her out and she said she was busy

 

[uksucks]

I did something similarly autistic. Had a crush on a girl in one of my classes. Talked to her once but was looking for another opportunity to speak outside of class. One night I was taking a walk on campus and ran into her walking to the gym. She was by herself, it was dark and there was no one else around. I didn’t even think about this, my retard ass was like “here’s your chance playboy” and I struck up a conversation. It was awkward because I was unprepared but I kept it going until she got to the gym. After that she started avoiding me. Makes me want to kill myself thinking about it

At least you did it
I never regretted any approaches and knew that if I never did, I'd be thinking to myself what if I did that..
constantly