No one wants to help someone they look down upon

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The reason why no one helps you is for the same reason mother animals will sometimes eat their weak offspring

You’re just not worth the investment case and point Jake future


Mentally disabled man used for views by streamers but they never even showed up to his birthday

Because the truth is no matter how much they pretended he never mattered to them

@cromagnon @ey88
 
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yes, only people that care about you are your parents and siblings, if they are, other than that you are just an object and you should not expect anything from anybody, always being able to walk away and not care to lose somebody is just norm, as long as something is useful you use it type shit
 
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yes, only people that care about you are your parents and siblings, if they are, other than that you are just an object and you should not expect anything from anybody, always being able to walk away and not care to lose somebody is just norm, as long as something is useful you use it type shit
My brother hates me
 
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what type of weakness, bro should understand and respect, wtf is wrong with him
I opened up to my family about how I was being bullied my brother saw me cry and after that he just lost respect for me

He even has made fun of my insecurities

It’s human nature when you tell people about your problems they use it against you
 
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I opened up to my family about how I was being bullied my brother saw me cry and after that he just lost respect for me

He even has made fun of my insecurities

It’s human nature when you tell people about your problems they use it against you
you should have fucking beat him, that motherfucker
 
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no one wants to help anyone period
 
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you should have fucking beat him, that motherfucker
The mistake was the idea that I thought anyone would care about my problems

If I were blackpilled then I wouldn’t have done that
 
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I opened up to my family about how I was being bullied my brother saw me cry and after that he just lost respect for me

He even has made fun of my insecurities

It’s human nature when you tell people about your problems they use it against you
Is he your older or younger brother ?
 
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It's not that. First, we need to start from the basis that not everyone is the same, and that there is a very considerable amount of people who fall into the sphere psychopathy and narcissism (It's not like you are 0% psycho or 100% psycho, there is a spectrum and the percentages of empathy vary, and there is a few falling into the 100%, it would be like a 1% of the population). We can discard by just those calculations perhaps 10-20% of the population from feeling anything significant towards someone they look down upon

With that being said, there remains the rest of the 80-85% of the population who feel empathy (In varying degrees also, but they also feel it). These people the vast majority of them would actually care about someone ""lesser"" (i.e in the general public view: poorer, more sick, hungry, etc) than them, and they would care to help him. What they would barely ever do is to be happy for him to have helped him enough so that he has the ability to surpass them and they are witnessing it everyday.

They would helped him enough so that they don't feel bad with themselves thinking "I'm such a bad person" because they feel empathy and they are not psychos or narcies, but at the same time, they have egoism and they don't want to be surpassed themselves. There is, a very selected few (1-3% probably) who wouldn't care about actually helping someone enough so that he becomes better than them, sort of like a paternalistic feeling but without the genetic and natural ties of such. These are probably the best people on earth, they are like the extreme contrary of psychos and narcies. My grandmother was like this with everyone, i can testify she didn’t have a particle of egoism and would NEVER betray you in any way, and not only with me but with everyone.
 
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It's not that. First, we need to start from the basis that not everyone is the same, and that there is a very considerable amount of people who fall into the sphere psychopathy and narcissism (It's not like you are 0% psycho or 100% psycho, there is a spectrum and the percentages of empathy vary, and there is a few falling into the 100%, it would be like a 1% of the population). We can discard by just those calculations perhaps 10-20% of the population from feeling anything significant towards someone they look down upon

With that being said, there remains the rest of the 80-85% of the population who feel empathy (In varying degrees also, but they also feel it). These people the vast majority of them would actually care about someone ""lesser"" (i.e in the general public view: poorer, more sick, hungry, etc) than them, and they would care to help him. What they would barely ever do is to be happy for him to have helped him enough so that he has the ability to surpass them and they are witnessing it everyday.

They would helped him enough so that they don't feel bad with themselves thinking "I'm such a bad person" because they feel empathy and they are not psychos or narcies, but at the same time, they have egoism and they don't want to be surpassed themselves. There is, a very selected few (1-3% probably) who wouldn't care about actually helping someone enough so that he becomes better than them, sort of like a paternalistic feeling but without the genetic and natural ties of such. These are probably the best people on earth, they are like the extreme contrary of psychos and narcies. My grandmother was like this with everyone, i can testify she didn’t have a particle of egoism and would NEVER betray you in any way, and not only with me but with everyone.
Small note: empaths are not necessarily good, and some people have sympathy rather than empathy
 
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Small note: empaths are not necessarily good, and some people have sympathy rather than empathy
If you ask me, majority of empaths are easy to get desensitized and disconnect.

Psychos are of several kinds (Although there is great lack of knowledge in this field), some are straight born psychos, others are made, and others are preconditioned since being born and are then established via events and experiences (I.e born and then made)

I'd say a lot of empaths can be enhanced to a high percentage of psychopathy, and i don't believe it's relatively that difficult because i have witnessed myself how they can speak about the saddest things in life as if they were trivial after some time, and even joke and mock them. However, i think if you are not born to be easily predisposed to it, you still will always have flashes of empathy unless you isolate completely yourself and start living in delusion.

One example that comes to my mind is Saddam. They say that when he was young in politics he was ruthless in torture and so on, like a psycho. However, when he visited a poor old lady, many people which were with him said that she would tell him her problems and he would cry and so on, so i'd bet he was made a psycho (His stepfather i think it was beat him a lot) and not born one, but perhaps he was easily more predisposed to becoming one.
 
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If you ask me, majority of empaths are easy to get desensitized and disconnect.

Psychos are of several kinds (Although there is great lack of knowledge in this field), some are straight born psychos, others are made, and others are preconditioned since being born and are then established via events and experiences (I.e born and then made)

I'd say a lot of empaths can be enhanced to a high percentage of psychopathy, and i don't believe it's relatively that difficult because i have witnessed myself how they can speak about the saddest things in life as if they were trivial after some time, and even joke and mock them. However, i think if you are not born to be easily predisposed to it, you still will always have flashes of empathy unless you isolate completely yourself and start living in delusion.

One example that comes to my mind is Saddam. They say that when he was young in politics he was ruthless in torture and so on, like a psycho. However, when he visited a poor old lady, many people which were with him said that she would tell him her problems and he would cry and so on, so i'd bet he was made a psycho (His stepfather i think it was beat him a lot) and not born one, but perhaps he was easily more predisposed to becoming one.
What you are referring to is the differentiation between primary and secondary psychopaths (to which narcissists belong).

On empaths: an empath can have psychopathic traits but only primary, secondary psychopaths are the opposite of empaths. I have some sociopathic traits, for example.
Faking psychopathic traits is productive, to some extent, for an empath. And yes, one can joke about sad things
 
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Sneako is using this situation to make views a true good person would have went to the birthday without mentioning that no one came and dodge this Subject when jakefuture talks about it it's not that deep that he didnt do this but the problem is he made a whole vid about it and this jake use the internet too and imagine how he felt watching this, all this to say that sneako isn't any better than them
 
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