no1 finds me actually attractive

[LeftistFeminist]

mtn, 6’0. appealmaxxed nt bla bla when i snap a foid i get left on opened. im not a virgin and got intimate ( not sex ) w 3 people (ones a htb) and had a lmtb girlfriend. After allat its actually so brutal getting rejected over and over again by foids. I dont know what to do, i try to cope with various activities but half of my day i still think about females and its eating my brain. Im writing this 3 minutes after another rejection by a looksmatch and even though it doesnt affect me long term shit destroys my confidence and makes me feel suicidal for a day

 

[LeftistFeminist]

Someone please fucking help i want to feel good

 

[kisuke]

mtn, 6’0. appealmaxxed nt bla bla when i snap a foid i get left on opened. im not a virgin and got intimate ( not sex ) w 3 people (ones a htb) and had a lmtb girlfriend. After allat its actually so brutal getting rejected over and over again by foids. I dont know what to do, i try to cope with various activities but half of my day i still think about females and its eating my brain. Im writing this 3 minutes after another rejection by a looksmatch and even though it doesnt affect me long term shit destroys my confidence and makes me feel suicidal for a day

if you had a girlfriend before and was intimate with multiple girls you're obviously attractive to some girls , you're just in your head and overthinking bra . and obviously you're getting rejected on snap bro you're competing with 10s of guys and the only thing you can get judged on is your face , and if you're mtn you just won't stand out . if your only concern is to get girls , flirt with girls IRL it's way easier , your height can actually come in play , and it's actually just you and the girl .

 

[Sonneillon]

Someone please fucking help i want to feel good

 

[NoaA99]

„im not a virgin and got intimate ( not sex ) w 3 people (ones a htb) and had a lmtb girlfriend.“ - stopped reading after that

 

[LeftistFeminist]

if you had a girlfriend before and was intimate with multiple girls you're obviously attractive to some girls , you're just in your head and overthinking bra . and obviously you're getting rejected on snap bro you're competing with 10s of guys and the only thing you can get judged on is your face , and if you're mtn you just won't stand out . if your only concern is to get girls , flirt with girls IRL it's way easier , your height can actually come in play , and it's actually just you and the girl .

You have a smart point and i agree but there is no girl left which i dont know and can flirt with (e.g didnt date with a friend) where i live. also being 16 there are so many conditions i need to get that oppurtunity like the girl having a mutual of mine and being in an appropriate environment like in a night club or a beach after sunset party. and there is LOTS of competition too.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

if you had a girlfriend before and was intimate with multiple girls you're obviously attractive to some girls , you're just in your head and overthinking bra . and obviously you're getting rejected on snap bro you're competing with 10s of guys and the only thing you can get judged on is your face , and if you're mtn you just won't stand out . if your only concern is to get girls , flirt with girls IRL it's way easier , your height can actually come in play , and it's actually just you and the girl .

I'm not trying to be a dick but if his girlfriend didn't have sex with him then she couldn't have found him all that attractive could she?

 

[LeftistFeminist]

I'm not trying to be a dick but if his girlfriend didn't have sex with him then she couldn't have found him all that attractive could she?

She prob didn’t. Just got my dick sucked 2 times. Also asked to hit too while in bed half drunk and said no (bROTAL)

 

[eternalcoper]

not sure

 

[kisuke]

I'm not trying to be a dick but if his girlfriend didn't have sex with him then she couldn't have found him all that attractive could she?

i pretty sure he didn't have sex with the 3 other people i assume he lost his virginity from his girlfriend

 

[kisuke]

You have a smart point and i agree but there is no girl left which i dont know and can flirt with (e.g didnt date with a friend) where i live. also being 16 there are so many conditions i need to get that oppurtunity like the girl having a mutual of mine and being in an appropriate environment like in a night club or a beach after sunset party. and there is LOTS of competition too.

if you're in a shit environnment wait till you're 18 and go to uni , you'll prolly move cities and getting girls is the easiest shit ever , but bro i used to be in my head a lot like you , got in uni started fucking a bunch of girls and shit didnt make me happier i promise you those activities that you think are cope will fullfil you way more than sex and validation from random girls

 

[LeftistFeminist]

i pretty sure he didn't have sex with the 3 other people i assume he lost his virginity from his girlfriend

kinda explained myself wrong, had sex while both me and her insanely drunk after clubbing. and it was not intimate at all and a shit experience. didnt hit the gf (she also has a date next week)

 

[LeftistFeminist]

if you're in a shit environnment wait till you're 18 and go to uni , you'll prolly move cities and getting girls is the easiest shit ever , but bro i used to be in my head a lot like you , got in uni started fucking a bunch of girls and shit didnt make me happier i promise you those activities that you think are cope will fullfil you way more than sex and validation from random girls

Yes but not being able to fullfill my lust is insanely hard to live with. I dont want fucking love anymore i used to but its gone for some weird shit ass reason. The only cope that would keep me alive would be drugs but im scared of random fucking hair follicle tests so it isnt viable. School and family problems are also really sticky so my brain defaults to wanting girls to be happy and live with those mentioned problems and nothing else

 

[kisuke]

kinda explained myself wrong, had sex while both me and her insanely drunk after clubbing. and it was not intimate at all and a shit experience. didnt hit the gf (she also has a date next week)

oh okay but if you got your dick sucked there's obviously levels of attraction . i think you're overthinking bro , you obviously have some level of appeal to some girls . you're probably envying htn's and chadlites who got it easy which is understandable , but not everyone is meant to constantly slay its just life. the fact you got attention from multiple girls puts you above the averave shmuck already , so just enjoy your life

 

[AgainstAllOdds]

Its rare for any man to be genuinely liked by women. The same way its rare for a woman to be genuinely liked by a man, most men just want to fuck her and thats it. Most women just want ur attention and thats it.

Finding someone that actually likes you is rare for everybody

 

[kisuke]

Yes but not being able to fullfill my lust is insanely hard to live with. I dont want fucking love anymore i used to but its gone for some weird shit ass reason. The only cope that would keep me alive would be drugs but im scared of random fucking hair follicle tests so it isnt viable. School and family problems are also really sticky so my brain defaults to wanting girls to be happy and live with those mentioned problems and nothing else

bro this is wild i literally used to be just like you so i understand how u feel , but from personal experience i promise you it won't change anything , sex makes you happy if you are already somewhat fullfiled in your life , sex in a purposeless life literally means nothing and i'm the perfect example for that . i think you should stop jerking off first , then look into things you are passionate about , you are not actually interested in talking to these girls , you're just lustful , spend more times in things you're actually interested in , and once your life is more balanced , your relationship with girls will be healthier , i'm still in the process of this and i promise you it's worth it

 

[Lefty Rankin]

i pretty sure he didn't have sex with the 3 other people i assume he lost his virginity from his girlfriend

He said ho only got his dick sucked. Still technically a virgin.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

i pretty sure he didn't have sex with the 3 other people i assume he lost his virginity from his girlfriend

He said ho only got his dick sucked. Still technically a virgin.

And you're a virgin too.