Nobody to go clubbing with

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I got plenty of friends but like 90% of them don't go out(clubs, party etc) and the remaining 10% are like boring(yk dont approach, more quiet etc and they don't go out that often). Like ofc I have many acquaintances in the clubs that I talk to, but like I'm not specifically in their friend group. Like I want to start trying getting hookups etc. I'm 19yo and I started going out quite recently, I was locked in grinding for like 2 years. I think I got the looks I'm 6' 4" ( I can fraud to 6 foot 7 with elevator shoes), I truly believe I got the face(girls also have approached me many many times and in daytime I get alot of looks) and body/frame(yesterday for example like 10 men praised my physique when I was out and also in gym).
Like where I can find some more fun friends that want to do fun stuff like this? Not only sit at club and dance a little. Like I actually talk quite a lot to strangers in the gym for example, add them in snapchat, but its quite hard to get into like "friend group" yk. Like I don't want to go to club alone and start approaching I think its weird, like I prefer few friends to be with and then like seperate. id really appreaciate help
 
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'Where can I find people to go to a bar and clubs with?'

I dont know, maybe a bar or clubs??
 
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I got plenty of friends but like 90% of them don't go out(clubs, party etc) and the remaining 10% are like boring(yk dont approach, more quiet etc and they don't go out that often). Like ofc I have many acquaintances in the clubs that I talk to, but like I'm not specifically in their friend group. Like I want to start trying getting hookups etc. I'm 19yo and I started going out quite recently, I was locked in grinding for like 2 years. I think I got the looks I'm 6' 4" ( I can fraud to 6 foot 7 with elevator shoes), I truly believe I got the face(girls also have approached me many many times and in daytime I get alot of looks) and body/frame(yesterday for example like 10 men praised my physique when I was out and also in gym).
Like where I can find some more fun friends that want to do fun stuff like this? Not only sit at club and dance a little. Like I actually talk quite a lot to strangers in the gym for example, add them in snapchat, but its quite hard to get into like "friend group" yk. Like I don't want to go to club alone and start approaching I think its weird, like I prefer few friends to be with and then like seperate. id really appreaciate help
having a good social circle is such an advantage
it also stops me ngl
 
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'Where can I find people to go to a bar and clubs with?'

I dont know, maybe a bar or clubs??
Ye I get it bro, like I mean to be more in a friend group not just talk to them for 5 mins. Like I go often times and talk to old acquaintances but then they will go with their group away like I dont want to press myself in there.
 
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'Where can I find people to go to a bar and clubs with?'

I dont know, maybe a bar or clubs??
It’s hard to approach though when they probably already have their own friend group
 
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Finds new group of friends, keep your old friends but find people to go out with
 
Finds new group of friends, keep your old friends but find people to go out with
yes but how. I often times like talk and then add then add each other in snap but thats where it ends. We are not like old friends just someone you talk a little if you see
 
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yes but how. I often times like talk and then add then add each other in snap but thats where it ends. We are not like old friends just someone you talk a little if you see
Through mutual friends, I have my group of friends that I am genuinely freinds but they don’t like to go out as much, I found 2 guys through other friends that I have gotten close with just by our desire to go out and have a good time.
 
Like if I see some dudes lets say complete strangers in a club, like what I will go talk to them randomly
Through mutual friends, I have my group of friends that I am genuinely freinds but they don’t like to go out as much, I found 2 guys through other friends that I have gotten close with just by our desire to go out and have a good time.
Thats actually what happened to me recently. Met old friend who was with hes friend and then I became their friend lol. But like majority of them are LTNs so I feel embarrased going out with them lol
 
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I got plenty of friends but like 90% of them don't go out(clubs, party etc) and the remaining 10% are like boring(yk dont approach, more quiet etc and they don't go out that often). Like ofc I have many acquaintances in the clubs that I talk to, but like I'm not specifically in their friend group. Like I want to start trying getting hookups etc. I'm 19yo and I started going out quite recently, I was locked in grinding for like 2 years. I think I got the looks I'm 6' 4" ( I can fraud to 6 foot 7 with elevator shoes), I truly believe I got the face(girls also have approached me many many times and in daytime I get alot of looks) and body/frame(yesterday for example like 10 men praised my physique when I was out and also in gym).
Like where I can find some more fun friends that want to do fun stuff like this? Not only sit at club and dance a little. Like I actually talk quite a lot to strangers in the gym for example, add them in snapchat, but its quite hard to get into like "friend group" yk. Like I don't want to go to club alone and start approaching I think its weird, like I prefer few friends to be with and then like seperate. id really appreaciate help
clubs are lame

and if u wanna go and find people who club maybe go to a club and make friends there
 
Like I want to find other attractive dudes to hang out with who have similar goals
 
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yea it is, my friends are boring asf
we go out in small group, we rarely go on bigger parties
but to be honest from what i heard having a big friend group isn't also that good
people are also fake and dont like themself
 
we go out in small group, we rarely go on bigger parties
but to be honest from what i heard having a big friend group isn't also that good
people are also fake and dont like themself
Yea bro I meant really like if I would find like 2 guys with same goals and good looks that would be enough. I dont want big group neither. Like I feel like my social circle has been expanding lately but its still small. I have many who are like really just acquaintances nothing else
 
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I preffer going solo to clubs
My friends just drag me down tbh
I went one time I felt embarrassed for some reason. If you go alone you just start approaching girls straight away? Like I cant imagine worse thing that going to dance floor completely alone
 
I got plenty of friends but like 90% of them don't go out(clubs, party etc) and the remaining 10% are like boring(yk dont approach, more quiet etc and they don't go out that often). Like ofc I have many acquaintances in the clubs that I talk to, but like I'm not specifically in their friend group. Like I want to start trying getting hookups etc. I'm 19yo and I started going out quite recently, I was locked in grinding for like 2 years. I think I got the looks I'm 6' 4" ( I can fraud to 6 foot 7 with elevator shoes), I truly believe I got the face(girls also have approached me many many times and in daytime I get alot of looks) and body/frame(yesterday for example like 10 men praised my physique when I was out and also in gym).
Like where I can find some more fun friends that want to do fun stuff like this? Not only sit at club and dance a little. Like I actually talk quite a lot to strangers in the gym for example, add them in snapchat, but its quite hard to get into like "friend group" yk. Like I don't want to go to club alone and start approaching I think its weird, like I prefer few friends to be with and then like seperate. id really appreaciate help
Why is this a looksmaxing should be in Offtopic
 
I went one time I felt embarrassed for some reason. If you go alone you just start approaching girls straight away? Like I cant imagine worse thing that going to dance floor completely alone
Needs time to get over it.
I start chatting with everybody
 
What the fuck a female can do other than reject you jfl why are you so afraid of them what a pussy
 
You said you feel embarrassed for some reason like wtf are you embarrassed of
I said im embarrassed of going club alone, it will be seen like I got no friends to be out with. Im not scared of talking to people lol
 
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I went out yesterday and talked to like 10 random dudes, I didnt got mood for bitches since I split up recently
I said im embarrassed of going club alone, it will be seen like I got no friends to be out with. Im not scared of talking to people lol
 
I am having the same problem, I am yet to find a solution, nowdays guys are all faggots locked in their computers

I am trying to even avoid clubing too cause modern women are too awfull there, they just want to farm aura on you, and get free stuff or just brag and reject you for sport...
I think that is why most guys don't wanna go
 

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