none of my friends want to hang out anymore

[ZyzzReincarnate]

man this sucks. i havent hung out with anyone in over 2 weeks and before that i was always the one making plans and my friends were flaking either to ldar or be with their GF's. we used to hang out all the time and be super close and now we dont.

i stopped trying to make plans to see if anyone else would step up and ask to hangout since i was always the one doing it, but literally nobody has. i didnt even do anything for them not to like me lol. it is over.

 

[SikKunt]

it is over.

mANY MEN MAN

 

[Vitruvian]

friendship is temporary but

 

[Brandon10]

Just hold frame bro

 

[SikKunt]

 

[Deleted member 1774]

i feel you bro

i never get asked , i always have to make plans as well, broke up many friendships because of it

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

i feel you bro

i never get asked , i always have to make plans as well, broke up many friendships because of it

these are my childhood friends too. it seems im not worth their time

 

[Deleted member 1958]

Friends will always ditch you if they have better options.

 

[Ruby]

man this sucks. i havent hung out with anyone in over 2 weeks and before that i was always the one making plans and my friends were flaking either to ldar or be with their GF's. we used to hang out all the time and be super close and now we dont.

i stopped trying to make plans to see if anyone else would step up and ask to hangout since i was always the one doing it, but literally nobody has. i didnt even do anything for them not to like me lol. it is over.

they became jelly those sadcunts are mirin your body brah

 

[SikKunt]

i never get asked

Friday was last day of school before this 1 week vacation I'm now in, and my "friends" just made plans right in front of me to go eat after school to some small restaurant, did not even get asked.

 

[Deleted member 1774]

these are my childhood friends too. it seems im not worth their time

my only friends are childhood friends, because i never wanted friends(lived in a very criminal ghetto, learned a lot) yet they treat each other like randoms

 

[Deleted member 3328]

Friday was last day of school before this 1 week vacation I'm now in, and my "friends" just made plans right in front of me to go eat after school to some small restaurant, did not even get asked.

i can relate so much tbh
last Friday night they went out without inviting me. Saw them on Instagram stories jfl.

 

[SikKunt]

Saw them on Instagram

jfl at having instachad.
fucking cancer social media

 

[turkproducer]

same thing happened to me after 16

 

[shibo]

Are they all moving away from you or from the friend group as a whole

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

Nothing positive is unconditional. Friendships are a trade. Relationships and marriage are trading.
It's all products and marketing with actual money being used as currency for them.

Getting a girl from Tinder: buy Tinder Gold with actual money. The girl you fuck sees your SMV from your frauded marketing pics and trades her SMV for it.

Relationship with a woman: both get sex, she gets validation from you and you get your sexual needs met. Shared resources and knowledge.
Both need to benefit one another. You give her part of your life, she gives hers.

Getting friends: helping them to get women and more friends, giving them benefits such as parties, free car rides, giving them knowledge, acting as their pillow to cry to. You get to do the same with them but it's never 100% even, somebody always gets more out of it.
To get friends you need to market your lifestyle to them and make them feel important. All buying and selling. Like customer service.
When one party doesn't get his benefits, the friendship goes down in a list much like women's internet dating list of potential males.

The parties and nights out are paid services, like your deep philosophical talks and talking about chasing girls are business meetings.

Family relations: genetic bond that forces you to benefit each other for survival and reproduction. You are them so you want to help them and vice versa.

 

[turkproducer]

Friday was last day of school before this 1 week vacation I'm now in, and my "friends" just made plans right in front of me to go eat after school to some small restaurant, did not even get asked.

they’re not your friends lol. Used to happen to me as a little kid

 

[SikKunt]

they’re not your friends lol.

Bro thx for telling me I would've never known

 

[BigBiceps]

Friday was last day of school before this 1 week vacation I'm now in, and my "friends" just made plans right in front of me to go eat after school to some small restaurant, did not even get asked.

Just move on. Even being alone is better than feeling constantly like shit. I suggest you find new friends.

 

[SikKunt]

I suggest you find new friends.

Not possible mate.
The other ones are even worse. I'll just stick with these guys for the time being I don't even care anymore.
Also sitting alone in class is the worst thing imaginable (I actually did in 3d grade), at least with them I talk a little throughout the day.

 

[Catawampus]

Damn op, Its sad knowing that no one misses you when you're gone because you meant nothing to them in the first place.

 

[pisslord]

positive

 

[BigBiceps]

Not possible mate.
The other ones are even worse. I'll just stick with these guys for the time being I don't even care anymore.
Also sitting alone in class is the worst thing imaginable (I actually did in 3d grade), at least with them I talk a little throughout the day.

I can't always have my friends in the same classes I choose to take, so I sometimes sit alone and just join people sitting next to me for groupwork. Not bad tbh, teaches you some independence.

 

[karbo]

man this sucks. i havent hung out with anyone in over 2 weeks and before that i was always the one making plans and my friends were flaking either to ldar or be with their GF's. we used to hang out all the time and be super close and now we dont.

i stopped trying to make plans to see if anyone else would step up and ask to hangout since i was always the one doing it, but literally nobody has. i didnt even do anything for them not to like me lol. it is over.

my friends are out at this very moment, ive legit seen them organizing the whole thing, getting the movie and train tickets and all that in our discord server. it was kind of weird how they didnt ask me if i wanted to come, cuz last time we went out we discussed where we'd meet and when, and now they just sent the pictures of the ticket reservation out of nowhere, meaning they've been planning on going for a while now.

one friend asked me though if i wanted to come but i told him i already saw the movie they were going to watch (joker), but tbh i didn't really want to go anyway, after seeing how it was all planned already without them telling me