Normies and the reverse causation fallacy when blaming you for not getting girls

[vanillaicecream]

"You can't get a gf because you lack confidence bro" or "you watch too much anime, how do you expect to get a girlfriend"

This is extremely common, don't fall for this shit

They're missing the fact that you lack confidence and watch anime exactly because you have already failed to get girls over and over. Lack of success with girls causes these things, not the other way around

 

[mrdouchebag]

"You can't get a gf because you lack confidence bro" or "you watch too much anime, how do you expect to get a girlfriend"

This is extremely common, don't fall for this shit

They're missing the fact that you lack confidence and watch anime exactly because you have already failed to get girls over and over. Lack of success with girls causes these things, not the other way around

The chicken or the egg situation. Same argument applies to porn.

Do most men get addicted to porn and don't bother to find a girlfriend?
OR
Do most men try to get a girlfriend, fail repeatedly, and then turn to porn?