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Bewusst
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[Not looking for compassion/pity - just curious if you experience(d) the same]
Can anyone relate? Especially when I compare how "friends" (when I had any) treated others vs me. They'd listen more to them, be more open in general and initiate conversations/meetups etc. with them more often even if they knew them for not nearly as long as me. They'd be more respectful and treat others like a higher-value person than me.
When I'd tell sth or even answer a question, I'd get monosyllabic answers, "mhm's" or they'd stop listening/paying attention. And I'm usually not a loquacious person at all. "I was just kinda there for them but not really important. They just didn't have anything better to do atm" - that's the vibe I've been getting all my life. Almost like how females behave around Chad vs an incel.
Lookism is everywhere, regardless of age, gender and type of relationship (e.g. friendship).![Blackpill :blackpill: :blackpill:](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Can anyone relate? Especially when I compare how "friends" (when I had any) treated others vs me. They'd listen more to them, be more open in general and initiate conversations/meetups etc. with them more often even if they knew them for not nearly as long as me. They'd be more respectful and treat others like a higher-value person than me.
When I'd tell sth or even answer a question, I'd get monosyllabic answers, "mhm's" or they'd stop listening/paying attention. And I'm usually not a loquacious person at all. "I was just kinda there for them but not really important. They just didn't have anything better to do atm" - that's the vibe I've been getting all my life. Almost like how females behave around Chad vs an incel.
Lookism is everywhere, regardless of age, gender and type of relationship (e.g. friendship).