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All people my age are now in a frenzy to settle down both guys and girls....they want to get into a LTR with a quality person that will lead to marriage and kids in a couple of years.
They don't party much anymore, they care about their careers and traveling. They had all the fun in high school, college and graduate school and now they have moved on. They are all so focused on their jobs, getting promoted and making money. There is no time to enjoy life anymore and all they want is to find a good guy/girl to settle down with and spend their evenings watching tv on the sofa.
I don't live in a small provincial city. I'm from a top 5 biggest city in Europe. One of the richest.
And then there is me. Who never enjoyed life in high school, college or graduate school. My depression kept me unable to focus or being productive and I graduated with a master degree (from a top university though) in finance only last year. I wasted many years looksmaxing and so couldn't be on time with my exams.
During high school and college I was ugly so I couldn't enjoy it in the slightest. Only now at 29yo I'm almost ready to enjoy life but now everybody else my age have moved on. Life is fucking shitty. I have the emotional maturity of a 14yo because I missed all those crucial experiences.
So what do I do? Enjoy life now for 10 years like my peers did and then start to find a LTR at 39yo? JFL all the good girls will be gone by then and there will be only psychopaths and single mothers left on the market.
Or do I settle down now? Knowing that I'm not ready to do it and that my partner has had her fun and is now matured while I didn't. I would fuck up the relationship. Guaranteed.
There is no way out.
That's why it's so important to live certain experiences when it's the appropriate time. Late bloomer is a meme, it doesn't work like that in real life.
Heed my warning, start looksmaxing as young as possible. Or it's gonna be over, same fate as me.
Rope
They don't party much anymore, they care about their careers and traveling. They had all the fun in high school, college and graduate school and now they have moved on. They are all so focused on their jobs, getting promoted and making money. There is no time to enjoy life anymore and all they want is to find a good guy/girl to settle down with and spend their evenings watching tv on the sofa.
I don't live in a small provincial city. I'm from a top 5 biggest city in Europe. One of the richest.
And then there is me. Who never enjoyed life in high school, college or graduate school. My depression kept me unable to focus or being productive and I graduated with a master degree (from a top university though) in finance only last year. I wasted many years looksmaxing and so couldn't be on time with my exams.
During high school and college I was ugly so I couldn't enjoy it in the slightest. Only now at 29yo I'm almost ready to enjoy life but now everybody else my age have moved on. Life is fucking shitty. I have the emotional maturity of a 14yo because I missed all those crucial experiences.
So what do I do? Enjoy life now for 10 years like my peers did and then start to find a LTR at 39yo? JFL all the good girls will be gone by then and there will be only psychopaths and single mothers left on the market.
Or do I settle down now? Knowing that I'm not ready to do it and that my partner has had her fun and is now matured while I didn't. I would fuck up the relationship. Guaranteed.
There is no way out.
That's why it's so important to live certain experiences when it's the appropriate time. Late bloomer is a meme, it doesn't work like that in real life.
Heed my warning, start looksmaxing as young as possible. Or it's gonna be over, same fate as me.
Rope
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