Rhino LeFort
Archduke of Gandy Heaven
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Alright guys, I took a couple weeks off but I’m back with a message that I hope can help some people out.
As stated in the title, being NT, (or acting that way if you’re non-NT), is fucking law. It is absolutely fucking critical. Charisma/personality/sense of humor can take you much much further than I previously thought. This may only apply to MTNs and above though tbf.
So some quick stats on me for context, I am decent looking but by no means a Chad or CL, probably a HTN on a good day. I’m not particularly tall, 5’10 barefoot but you best believe I larp 6’0. I am white with blue eyes, but as I’ve stated in previous threads, I have a slightly long midface and I’m not very symmetrical.
The reason I say all this is to show that you don’t have to be absolutely perfect looking to attract women or slay, just softmaxx to your full potential and then focus on NTmaxxing.
In the two weeks since I’ve stopped posting on here and started trying to behave more NT, I’ve genuinely had incredible success. Little things like eye contact and a smile can make a world of difference.
Foids treat me much better at work (I’m a waiter), and I often catch them staring/smiling at me. One even asked for my Instagram. I’ve gotten significantly more tip money as well.
I’ve also had greater success on dating apps. I made sure the photos of me on my profile focused more on appeal, not just PSL (don’t be squintmaxxing or cheekbiting or anything, foids can tell and it’s cringe). I get way more matches and even had a few girls asking me to hook up with them. I couldn’t pull the trigger (bc I’m not over my oneitis
) but the principle still stands.
Anyway, I say all of this because as someone who has struggled with body dysmorphia for 7 years, I relate to you guys. I really really fucking do. If you are legitimately still a sub5 after softmaxxing, you have my deepest condolences. But that’s less of you than you may think.
There’s so much softmaxxing you can do to ascend you to at least MTN. 80% of you could achieve it. But you have to work for it; diet, skincare, going to the gym, wearing fashionable clothes, getting a good haircut, so on and so forth. If you truly want to ascend though, it can absolutely be done.
As stated in the title, being NT, (or acting that way if you’re non-NT), is fucking law. It is absolutely fucking critical. Charisma/personality/sense of humor can take you much much further than I previously thought. This may only apply to MTNs and above though tbf.
So some quick stats on me for context, I am decent looking but by no means a Chad or CL, probably a HTN on a good day. I’m not particularly tall, 5’10 barefoot but you best believe I larp 6’0. I am white with blue eyes, but as I’ve stated in previous threads, I have a slightly long midface and I’m not very symmetrical.
The reason I say all this is to show that you don’t have to be absolutely perfect looking to attract women or slay, just softmaxx to your full potential and then focus on NTmaxxing.
In the two weeks since I’ve stopped posting on here and started trying to behave more NT, I’ve genuinely had incredible success. Little things like eye contact and a smile can make a world of difference.
Foids treat me much better at work (I’m a waiter), and I often catch them staring/smiling at me. One even asked for my Instagram. I’ve gotten significantly more tip money as well.
I’ve also had greater success on dating apps. I made sure the photos of me on my profile focused more on appeal, not just PSL (don’t be squintmaxxing or cheekbiting or anything, foids can tell and it’s cringe). I get way more matches and even had a few girls asking me to hook up with them. I couldn’t pull the trigger (bc I’m not over my oneitis
) but the principle still stands.Anyway, I say all of this because as someone who has struggled with body dysmorphia for 7 years, I relate to you guys. I really really fucking do. If you are legitimately still a sub5 after softmaxxing, you have my deepest condolences. But that’s less of you than you may think.
There’s so much softmaxxing you can do to ascend you to at least MTN. 80% of you could achieve it. But you have to work for it; diet, skincare, going to the gym, wearing fashionable clothes, getting a good haircut, so on and so forth. If you truly want to ascend though, it can absolutely be done.
