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ok this is a crazy take but hear me out. i am an decent looking person and ive been complimented from it a decent sum of my life and i get treated like a child from my girlfriend’s friends. they make jokes abt me cuz imi socially awkward and i can barely talk to my gf (i only won her over cuz of how i look). so at the end of the day i would trade my looks for being nt
 
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Brutal looks pill you've said it yourself as far as her friends go you gotta be in their best heart since they influence your relationship,
Hope on betablockers and tolerancemaxx just ride through the awkwardness and eventually youll level and no long term beta blockers they are cheats
 
Nice to know
 
ND mogs
 
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ok this is a crazy take but hear me out. i am an decent looking person and ive been complimented from it a decent sum of my life and i get treated like a child from my girlfriend’s friends. they make jokes abt me cuz imi socially awkward and i can barely talk to my gf (i only won her over cuz of how i look). so at the end of the day i would trade my looks for being nt
you have a girlfriend fucktard so obviously this shit isn’t true
both looks and nt are a requirement although looks>nt if you had to pick one
 
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personnality > looks
 
My experience is that NT is actually much more of a difference maker because I can pull ND, bi, alt girls that are almost Stacy but I have no pull at all with NT straight normie girls, not even fat or ethnic ones. And it’s always been this way either in person or on the apps, girls can pick up on this immediately. I fully realized this when I realized there’s actually a lot of ND girls out there.
 
My experience is that NT is actually much more of a difference maker because I can pull ND, bi, alt girls that are almost Stacy but I have no pull at all with NT straight normie girls, not even fat or ethnic ones. And it’s always been this way either in person or on the apps, girls can pick up on this immediately. I fully realized this when I realized there’s actually a lot of ND girls out there.
what does neurodivergence look like for you in women
 
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ok this is a crazy take but hear me out. i am an decent looking person and ive been complimented from it a decent sum of my life and i get treated like a child from my girlfriend’s friends. they make jokes abt me cuz imi socially awkward and i can barely talk to my gf (i only won her over cuz of how i look). so at the end of the day i would trade my looks for being nt
ur frying me
 
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Not a crazy take this opinion has been circulating on here for years
 
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Out of my 3 former oneitis I tried to get with, every single one chose a dude who is worse looking and shorter then me. Even education/IQ and money wise they don't really mog me at all. The only thing these guys beat me on is being more NT.
At this point I think Ntpill is the most important unless you are like super chad tier (legit CL and above + at least 6'2) because at that point you could win even while being ND, but most people can never reach that.
Ofc I am not claiming "just be NT bro", if you are sub5 it's still over and you need to ascend, but at normie tiers NT is law from my experience.
 
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what does neurodivergence look like for you in women

They can mask much more effectively than guys so it can be hard to spot, sometimes I can hear it in her voice but really you have to look at her behavior and especially what she doesn’t do. If a pretty girl has a lot of alt or queer friends instead of a looksmatched normie friend group that’s a huge sign of neurodivergence I keep seeing. Or they have a hard time making friends with other girls altogether, one girl I had a fling with admitted that to me. This girl was also an oceanography major and obsessed with sharks, another girl I know like this is obsessed with bees, they get autistic about animals. A lot of them have this lonerish edge and they don’t do talking stages or normal dating, guys being NT and low inhib with them just doesn’t work.

In the adult world these women can’t function in corporate wagecucking so they often end up as musicians, yoga teachers and dance teachers, working in cosmetics. And the self aware ones know not to have kids. Cat mom, wine aunt energy.

There are other types of ND or pseudo-ND women out there, maybe more left brained STEM types, but I don’t have any direct experience with them.
 
They can mask much more effectively than guys so it can be hard to spot, sometimes I can hear it in her voice but really you have to look at her behavior and especially what she doesn’t do. If a pretty girl has a lot of alt or queer friends instead of a looksmatched normie friend group that’s a huge sign of neurodivergence I keep seeing. Or they have a hard time making friends with other girls altogether, one girl I had a fling with admitted that to me. This girl was also an oceanography major and obsessed with sharks, another girl I know like this is obsessed with bees, they get autistic about animals. A lot of them have this lonerish edge and they don’t do talking stages or normal dating, guys being NT and low inhib with them just doesn’t work.

In the adult world these women can’t function in corporate wagecucking so they often end up as musicians, yoga teachers and dance teachers, working in cosmetics. And the self aware ones know not to have kids. Cat mom, wine aunt energy.

There are other types of ND or pseudo-ND women out there, maybe more left brained STEM types, but I don’t have any direct experience with them.
im nearly popping a blood vessel straining every fiber in my body. they could have all the neurodivergence in the world and still only go for chad, *sighs* guess that's how the cookie crumbles :cautious:✌️
 
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Depends, a NT high ltn mogs a ND mid mtn, but HTN+ no fucking way, looks>>>>
 
im nearly popping a blood vessel straining every fiber in my body. they could have all the neurodivergence in the world and still only go for chad, *sighs* guess that's how the cookie crumbles :cautious:✌️

I’ve pulled ND girls and I’m not a Chad, you need either social circle / work / proximity or about 1/500 luck on the apps though.
 
Not a crazy take at all. I agree. Though, if that's you in your avi, you're horrendously subhuman and I will unfortunately have to advise you to rope, but I'll also say that I'm mirin that you have a girlfriend while actively being sub5.
 

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