NT/Mental health comes first

[Deleted member 19442]

Working hard, looksmaxxing, exercising/playing sports, having your own life come naturally if your mental health is good. People say ‘you’re privileged etc why are you depressed?’ which is good question the answer is poor mental health. If you’re in crisis or living through hardship you don’t have time or capability to live a healthy life likewise if you’re mentally unwell you won’t care or will be unable to live a healthy life

Most social outcasts don’t actually want to be outcasts. They got outcasted by normies and/or are mentally unwell. Same with incels who say they don’t want a woman it’s pure cope. A loving wife is a basic need

 

[thecel]

a husband is a basic need @Aloha

 

[g0op]

If social outcasts were befriended by their peers and had women who were interested in them their mental health would improve and they'd have a reason to be productive. Good mental health will springboard you to be more hardworking, healthier, and to have a more fulfilling life. Without a social life and girlfriend/FWB your way more likely to have bad mental health which would make you apathetic to everything and lead to rotting.

A loving wife and happy long term relationship won't be the reality for many as they'll have to compensate in some way for their lack of looks. She will resent them because they will compare them with guys who are better that give her attention. Being in a miserable betabuxx marriage where your wife loathes you and you get the occasional starfish sex sounds super miserable. I'd rather be sent my own way or use escorts than be in that situation. Having sex with women is what every guy wants but not marriage.

 

[Deleted member 23391]

people say that but it's almost as if there's this implicit idea that you need to "have your shit together" and be happy with yourself before you should try having a sex life and social life

in reality this is delusional, having a sex life and friends improves your mental health and rotting alone destroys it

the conventional normie wisdom here is trash as usual, "working on yourself" as an isolated subhuman is like running in place at best, you need to force yourself to talk to normies and try to have sex with foids - every year you go without being normal is just that much more weirdness, psychological damage, trauma, etc you'll acquire that alienates you from normal people and makes you less functional

MUH MONK MODE BRO!!

 

[Deleted member 19442]

people say that but it's almost as if there's this implicit idea that you need to "have your shit together" and be happy with yourself before you should try having a sex life and social life

in reality this is delusional, having a sex life and friends improves your mental health and rotting alone destroys it

the conventional normie wisdom here is trash as usual, "working on yourself" as an isolated subhuman is like running in place at best, you need to force yourself to talk to normies and try to have sex with foids - every year you go without being normal is just that much more weirdness, psychological damage, trauma, etc you'll acquire that alienates you from normal people and makes you less functional

MUH MONK MODE BRO!!

You basically maintain interaction while also self improving