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I just wrote this as a reply but figured I'd make it it's own post.
When it comes to any social interaction, frame is law- I'll come back to this later.
Every interaction has an equal amount of verbal and nonverbal signals that are being exchanged.
As far as nonverbal goes, your facial/speech mannerisms, having inflection in your voice, and good eye contact with intermittent breaks are 90% of it.
Just make sure you don't have any of the same mannerisms as this guy.
As far as actually talking to people, people like talking about what interests them (water), so asking them questions that provoke something more than a yes or no answer will keep the conversation going and build rapport (water). Also, don't fraud any interests, because it is easy to get caught and it will ruin their perception of you.
An example of a normie conversation that I've gone through dozens of times is talking about football.
I don't have any interest in football so I never watch it. So my go to when people ask me what my favorite team is always something like "I don't really keep up with football, but I used to go to (my college's team) games when I was in school. I am more of a combat sports guy (truth), do you watch UFC?". This will honestly be one the most common conversations you have with normies at work, and I go to that every time. If I just said "I don't watch any sports" they would think I'm a fag, nerd, antisocial, etc. And the conversation would die. But since I watch something that either they watch, or have friends who watch, it is an acceptable answer. If I had lied and gotten caught, I would be breaking frame, and the guy would think I'm a brown nosing pussy for lying about liking football to impress ANOTHER GUY.
When it comes to foids, they will probably have different interests, but the strategy is mostly the same. Say you're getting to know one, and they say something like "I'm really into astrology (jfl)"
Now you obviously don't give a shit, but you can feign some curiosity and interest by asking a few questions. Since you don't know anything about astrology, just pretend that the topic is like an actual interesting topic you would want to know more about.
"I hear some girls say they have one sign, but others talk about multiple signs, how does that work?"
"Why are some signs considered more compatible than others?"
When she yaps and gives you an answer don't say something like "OMG that's so heckin awesome!!". You are a straight male and she knows this, there is very little chance you would care that much about astrology, her stupid nonprofit job, her weekend getting plugged in Bali, etc. Women can pick up on fake interest better than guys can. And this is why you maintain frame. This doesn't mean you do the opposite and give some disinterested reply, just simply acknowledge what she said, and get her to expand more or try to segue into talking about something else.
Remember that NT men and foids especially spend most of their waking hours yapping, so all the gay little tricks that come from bullshit like the 48 laws of power will just make you look like a dark triad wannabe (one of the "laws" from that book is to say the person's name as much as you can, and I literally saw a foid tiktok the other day making fun of guys who do this
)
Lastly, just let your inner light shine through. Good luck bhais!
When it comes to any social interaction, frame is law- I'll come back to this later.
Every interaction has an equal amount of verbal and nonverbal signals that are being exchanged.
As far as nonverbal goes, your facial/speech mannerisms, having inflection in your voice, and good eye contact with intermittent breaks are 90% of it.
Just make sure you don't have any of the same mannerisms as this guy.
As far as actually talking to people, people like talking about what interests them (water), so asking them questions that provoke something more than a yes or no answer will keep the conversation going and build rapport (water). Also, don't fraud any interests, because it is easy to get caught and it will ruin their perception of you.
An example of a normie conversation that I've gone through dozens of times is talking about football.
I don't have any interest in football so I never watch it. So my go to when people ask me what my favorite team is always something like "I don't really keep up with football, but I used to go to (my college's team) games when I was in school. I am more of a combat sports guy (truth), do you watch UFC?". This will honestly be one the most common conversations you have with normies at work, and I go to that every time. If I just said "I don't watch any sports" they would think I'm a fag, nerd, antisocial, etc. And the conversation would die. But since I watch something that either they watch, or have friends who watch, it is an acceptable answer. If I had lied and gotten caught, I would be breaking frame, and the guy would think I'm a brown nosing pussy for lying about liking football to impress ANOTHER GUY.
When it comes to foids, they will probably have different interests, but the strategy is mostly the same. Say you're getting to know one, and they say something like "I'm really into astrology (jfl)"
Now you obviously don't give a shit, but you can feign some curiosity and interest by asking a few questions. Since you don't know anything about astrology, just pretend that the topic is like an actual interesting topic you would want to know more about.
"I hear some girls say they have one sign, but others talk about multiple signs, how does that work?"
"Why are some signs considered more compatible than others?"
When she yaps and gives you an answer don't say something like "OMG that's so heckin awesome!!". You are a straight male and she knows this, there is very little chance you would care that much about astrology, her stupid nonprofit job, her weekend getting plugged in Bali, etc. Women can pick up on fake interest better than guys can. And this is why you maintain frame. This doesn't mean you do the opposite and give some disinterested reply, just simply acknowledge what she said, and get her to expand more or try to segue into talking about something else.
Remember that NT men and foids especially spend most of their waking hours yapping, so all the gay little tricks that come from bullshit like the 48 laws of power will just make you look like a dark triad wannabe (one of the "laws" from that book is to say the person's name as much as you can, and I literally saw a foid tiktok the other day making fun of guys who do this
)Lastly, just let your inner light shine through. Good luck bhais!
