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The Chad Acquisition Game: Helene vs. Debby vs. IG Model (Lena)
Three women, three different strategies, one ultimate goal: securing Chad.Chad = any man with a PSL 6+ face, irrespective of whether he's a model/influencer or a private figure.
Letās break down what happens when Helene (Strategist), Debby (Normie), and Lena (Influencer/Model) all attempt to enter Chadās world.
1. Helene (The Calculated Strategist, Minimal Online Presence)
Looks Level: High MTB (attractive but unconventional, non-IG face)Social Media Presence: Minimal, private, unoptimized, refuses to post thirst traps
Network Access to Chad: 0 at the start
What Helene Does:
- Refuses to "sell out" to "degenerate" IG culture but still needs an entry point.
- Understands Chad is network-based, not just random "luck."
- Begins targeting Chad networks through indirect means (Facebook, LinkedIn, travel groups, creative circles, elite social settings).
- Trolls in online groups to establish presence, slowly adding higher-tier men and filtering out mid.
- Carefully crafts her online image as āmysteriousā rather than "thirsty.ā
- Engages but never chasesāChads must be intrigued enough to add her back.

- Uses intellect, strategy, and social climbing instead of overt looks-based baiting.
- Works backdoor networksāadding secondary-tier friends before approaching Chad directly.
- Develops aesthetic taste that makes her stand out from the IG clones.

- Takes longer than Lena (IG Model) to access Chad.
- Refusal to use IG validation culture makes it harder to get quick attention.
- Risk of being too slow and outplayed by someone more visible (like Lena).
2. Debby (The Passive Normie)
Looks Level: High MTB (very girl-next-door, non-threateningly attractive)Social Media Presence: Normal (somewhat active, has IG/FB but no extreme effort)
Network Access to Chad: 0 at the start, no clear game plan
What Debby Does:
- Goes with the flow, doesnāt actively strategize.
- Believes that "the right guy will come when itās meant to happen."
- Relies on passive attractionāhopes to meet Chad through work, mutual friends, or dating apps.
- Uses mainstream dating apps, where Chad is already flooded with options.
- Falls for the "if he likes me, he will pursue" mentality.
- **Ends up getting male attention, but from low-tier normies, not elite Chads.
- Attracts men who are willing to settle, but not the high-tier ones she truly desires.

- Can still secure a lower-tier Chadlite or high MTN guy if she gets lucky.
- Would be wifeable to a stable normie but not to a true Chad.
- If she somehow gets access to Chad, itās usually through luck, not strategy.

- Rarely gets into Chadās network unless by accident.
- If she does meet Chad, sheās quickly replaced by a higher-value woman.
- Ends up with an LTN/MTN because she waited too long for something āorganic.ā
3. Lena (The IG Model, Max Visibility & Hypergamy Game)
Looks Level: Stacylite/Stacy (Maximally Hot, Model-Tier Looks)Social Media Presence: EXTREMEāTikTok, IG, Twitter, massive following, nude photoshoots
Network Access to Chad: Already presentāChads follow her, but do they commit?
What Lena Does:
- Easiest time attracting Chad, but hardest time locking him down.
- Plays the attention economy gameābuilds a following, monetizes validation.
- Knows that even elite men pursue her, so she doesnāt need to network like Helene.
- Problem: Attracts Chads, but only in a short-term or validation-based way.
- Gets flooded with DMs, but most are low-effort āwydā messages, not genuine relationship pursuit.
- Chad sees her as an option, not a priorityāshe's one of many hot women in his IG feed.
- **Hypergamous dilemma: She wants a Chad who is "above" the rest, but the Chads she gets are already bombarded with women like her.

- Leverages IG presence to get invited to elite events where Chads roam.
- Could parlay visibility into IRL networking (but few do this successfully).
- Best shot at an LTR = securing a rich, high-status man through private networking.

- Cannot differentiate herself from 1,000+ other IG models.
- Chad only sees her as a short-term fantasy, not a serious LTR candidate.
- Has expiration dateāaging out of IG beauty market will lower options.
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