OLD is a waste of time for me

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1.match with a slut

2.have a boring conversation

3.go out

4.she acts like a nun that doesnt know what sex is

5.get ghosted

why even bother? and this is the best case scenario btw.
 
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how the fuck you have the energy to keep going to these dates
 
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because youre too old
 
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only a few good sluts remain in old and they just wanna get obliterated by big dicked chads lol if ure still there as a subhuman
 
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Crazy...

My OLD experience is constant first night slays by having girls come straight to my apartment or at worst meet them in public and then bring them back within the hour

I couldn't imagine having a girl meet up with me and not end up fucking that sounds terrible

What's your looks level?
 
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Who even fucking eachother just by meeting from dating app
 
Crazy...

My OLD experience is constant first night slays by having girls come straight to my apartment or at worst meet them in public and then bring them back within the hour

I couldn't imagine having a girl meet up with me and not end up fucking that sounds terrible

What's your looks level?
He’s a ltn that’s why this happens to him
 
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Crazy...

My OLD experience is constant first night slays by having girls come straight to my apartment or at worst meet them in public and then bring them back within the hour

I couldn't imagine having a girl meet up with me and not end up fucking that sounds terrible

What's your looks level?
legit. its brutal for sexless subhumans like op
 
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He’s a ltn that’s why this happens to him
Man idk if I would even do OLD if I was LTN. I'd probably try to get rich and escort max if anything. These whores on OLD only want dick, if she isn't giving clear signals that she wants to suck your cock THAT NIGHT it's not worth meeting up imo.
 
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Man idk if I would even do OLD if I was LTN. I'd probably try to get rich and escort max if anything. These whores on OLD only want dick, if she isn't giving clear signals that she wants to suck your cock THAT NIGHT it's not worth meeting up imo.
your posts are so legit
 
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Man idk if I would even do OLD if I was LTN. I'd probably try to get rich and escort max if anything. These whores on OLD only want dick, if she isn't giving clear signals that she wants to suck your cock THAT NIGHT it's not worth meeting up imo.
The furthest from when the date should be scheduled is 3 days max, beyond that its over
 
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The furthest from when the date should be scheduled is 3 days max, beyond that its over
i just lost a little cute slut this way because she lives in another town, the date has to be scheduled soon after you first talk in the apps and you gotta be decisive about it
 
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The furthest from when the date should be scheduled is 3 days max, beyond that its over
Any date that isn't straight to your abode or at most a short walk/train ride away back to where you live is going to be a waste of time. These women on apps do not want to make friends or find relationships, they want to have SEX, if you were 5 inches taller, had more bone mass in your face, had more status, etc. she wouldn't be going on a "date" with you, she'd be naked in your bed. There are men on that very same app who she has let or will let fuck her without so much as knowing her name. All modern relationships start with sex, and proceed to intimacy, if she's forcing you to take her on dates, chances are she doesn't want the relationship either. If she isn't immediately trying to have sex, she is playing games, because there is a guy out there she would let have sex without the song and dance. Maybe you think it's better to play the long game but unfortunately that no longer works, these women are WHORES now, they have access to CHADS, they don't need to form intimate relationships with low value men, you will probably not succeed trying to sneak your way into some pussy, although I guess it's sometimes worth a try. If she isn't ready to fuck day one she will will probably not be ready to fuck date three, or four, or five. It's a cold world but its better to be alone than be a beta bucks, remember that!
 
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i just lost a little cute slut this way because she lives in another town, the date has to be scheduled soon after you first talk in the apps and you gotta be decisive about it
These women have the attention span of goldfish

But also you have to make plans ASAP because she needs to know you are a man who can take charge, this is a demonstration of high value in a world where the average chode spends weeks texting back and forth with her like a FAG
 
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These women have the attention span of goldfish

But also you have to make plans ASAP because she needs to know you are a man who can take charge, this is a demonstration of high value in a world where the average chode spends weeks texting back and forth with her like a FAG
youre writing so much truth that all the other active users combined havent in a month. clap clap
 
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These women have the attention span of goldfish

But also you have to make plans ASAP because she needs to know you are a man who can take charge, this is a demonstration of high value in a world where the average chode spends weeks texting back and forth with her like a FAG
what i do to not feel bad about myself texting like a fag is im often uncallibrated forward about fucking, sometimes it works sometimes not and they leave me on read but im not wasting time and i cant put much effort these days which makes me a bit sad because some other sneaky bitch could fuck them if they played it a bit longer / with more effort

ive had occasions when i was most interested in a girl and was afraid to be so forward and got ignored after some cuck messaging, then out of nowhere i ask if they wanna fuck and they start replying to me again in a sexual context now
 
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Any date that isn't straight to your abode or at most a short walk/train ride away back to where you live is going to be a waste of time. These women on apps do not want to make friends or find relationships, they want to have SEX, if you were 5 inches taller, had more bone mass in your face, had more status, etc. she wouldn't be going on a "date" with you, she'd be naked in your bed. There are men on that very same app who she has let or will let fuck her without so much as knowing her name. All modern relationships start with sex, and proceed to intimacy, if she's forcing you to take her on dates, chances are she doesn't want the relationship either. If she isn't immediately trying to have sex, she is playing games, because there is a guy out there she would let have sex without the song and dance. Maybe you think it's better to play the long game but unfortunately that no longer works, these women are WHORES now, they have access to CHADS, they don't need to form intimate relationships with low value men, you will probably not succeed trying to sneak your way into some pussy, although I guess it's sometimes worth a try. If she isn't ready to fuck day one she will will probably not be ready to fuck date three, or four, or five. It's a cold world but its better to be alone than be a beta bucks, remember that!
Yes i do know that, i had 2 close friends who were the biggest moggers i have ever seen irl, being friends with them was blackpill overdose on the daily, truly opened my eyes.

I never have gone a legit date with a foid to the movies or something or have taken her out, i only go when im 100% certain sex is in the air. It’s only their place, my place or a walk in the woods so we can fuck outside. Only have had 2 meetups when i failed to slay. never went on a second date after failing to slay on the first or after slaying on the first.

I have a normie friend who has had 20+ dates the past 1-2 years, takes girls out to the movies, to play mini golf, Never has had sex this way. Last summer he had 4 dates with the same foid and only got to kiss her at the last one before she called it quits JFL.

The problem though with normies is that they legit get mad at you when you try to explain them that they’re just wasting money this way, and see you as a deranged person and start hating you for only meeting up for sex and never taking them out, since that isn’t considered normal
 
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what i do to not feel bad about myself texting like a fag is im often uncallibrated forward about fucking, sometimes it works sometimes not and they leave me on read but im not wasting time and i cant put much effort these days which makes me a bit sad because some other sneaky bitch could fuck them if they played it a bit longer / with more effort
I would say as a experiment, learn to put in the effort if you have the intuition that it might actually work. There's no value in not having the patience to achieve your goals. Unless this is purely a pragmatic decision, I suggest you just try playing the longer game as an exercise because why not? You already admit that not doing it usually blows up the interaction anyway, so what's the harm in trying out another method? At worst you waste some time on a prospect that doesn't pan out (which means it was lost either way) at best you learn to develop the self control to succeed in more complex social interactions. Who knows you might find out that it isn't as hard as you think.

I don't recommend being uncalibrated though I get what you're saying, I would say ideally you learn the skill of quickly and easily calibrating to a large variety of women so that it doesn't feel like a large effort to spin the web. However that would require investing more time up front understanding social interaction in depth.
 
Yes i do know that, i had 2 close friends who were the biggest moggers i have ever seen irl, being friends with them was blackpill overdose on the daily, truly opened my eyes.

I never have gone a legit date with a foid to the movies or something or have taken her out, i only go when im 100% certain sex is in the air. It’s only their place, my place or a walk in the woods so we can fuck outside. Only have had 2 meetups when i failed to slay. never went on a second date after failing to slay on the first or after slaying on the first.

I have a normie friend who has had 20+ dates the past 1-2 years, takes girls out to the movies, to play mini golf, Never has had sex this way. Last summer he had 4 dates with the same foid and only got to kiss her at the last one before she called it quits JFL.

The problem though with normies is that they legit get mad at you when you try to explain them that they’re just wasting money this way, and see you as a deranged person and start hating you for only meeting up for sex and never taking them out, since that isn’t considered normal
You should try to find people who are more your speed socially if you can, having friends that don't understand you can become draining after a while especially if they make no effort to understand you and instead respond with anger or resentment. That's not a good sign.
 
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You should try to find people who are more your speed socially if you can, having friends that don't understand you can become draining after a while especially if they make no effort to understand you and instead respond with anger or resentment. That's not a good sign.
Legit

I need to start going out more and socialmaxxx again, i have been living like a shut in aspie the past 6 months avoiding people because of pure autism, and not getting along with the friends i have. Tbh i have almost never been satisfied with the friendships i have, always felt like a alien compared to them and had to put up an act
 
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Legit

I need to start going out more and socialmaxxx again, i have been living like a shut in aspie the past 6 months avoiding people because of pure autism, and not getting along with the friends i have. Tbh i have almost never been satisfied with the friendships i have, always felt like a alien compared to them and had to put up an act
Yeah often we make friends out of proximity but not because of genuine shared values. I've done it before but it's not ideal. There are people out there who share your values you just have to seek them out. Probably if you had better friends you wouldn't feel the need to isolate so much.
 
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how the fuck you have the energy to keep going to these dates
i dont have it anynore. i actually flaked back in december lol. so much work just to meet an ltb that i wont even fuck
 

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