Older man / Oldcells message: Stop the copes. Like this Oldcel coping with being single

[eduardkoopman]

A Typical, coping. And refusing to looksmax; oldcels, type of story


**********2018**************

Back in 2018. he figured out why he was single still. At 36.
Ofcourse all cope, gaslighting, reasons he picked up somewhere . But he solved his problem in 2018:
"I finally figured out what the problem is. ... I read about attachment theory and came to the sudden and painful realization........ I’m the problem. I’m the “avoidant type ..... my avoidant behaviors ...... I’m capable of changing the circumstances in my life and becoming a person more secure with intimacy and companionship.”


Enjoy the cope reads and video

I’m 36, still single, and finally figured out why

"I’ve been single for nearly all of my adult life, and I finally figured out what the problem is."

ideapod.com

********2020************. 2 year later. he still single.
Now he's so happy, being single, still




***********The real reason he still single.**************
It's all looks based, man.
It's his baldness (he don't have good face shape for bald); and he is fully raped by the CollagenReaper. Which makes it, that he likely can't get a desirbale looking woman. He can settle with an older woman tough.




********tl;dr************
Oldcells. don fall for copes shit. It's looks what matters most, to get some women below 30 as an oldcell.
If you turn ugly as an oldcel and can't change that, than it's generally over for dating younger women (exceptions: money/paying; gigastatus, jbw locationmaxxing). Enjoy settleing with an older woman than, or stay single.

 

[Ocelot]

if he found this site he would've gotten a few lays

 

[eduardkoopman]

if he found this site he would've gotten a few lays

If he looksmaxxed. And pro-active. Maybe.
Also depends on his standards, though, alot.
But he can always still run JBW game; in some location in the world.

he gets raped hard though, by the baldpill and collagenreaper. That will offset younger white women, highly likely.
Younger, prime aged women. Don't like in general, (ugly-)bald; nor wrinkled collagen rapped skin.

 

[Ocelot]

If he looksmaxxed. And pro-active. Maybe.
Also depends on his standards, though, alot.
But he can always still run JBW game; in some location in the world.

he gets raped hard though, by the baldpill and collagenreaper. That will offset younger white women, highly likely.
Younger, prime aged women. Don't like in general, (ugly-)bald; nor wrinkled collagen rapped skin.

he'd get lays with some below averages roasties at least

 

[Deleted member 6512]

I don't get why a 40 years old man should go for a 20 years old. If you are old you should go for women your age, what's this obsession with younger women?

 

[Soalian]

I don't get why a 40 years old man should go for a 20 years old. If you are old you should go for women your age, what's this obsession with younger women?

Because let's be honest, they're considerably more attractive.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

older single guys like this are always looking for stupid epiphanies while taking ice baths and getting life coaches

only things that matter are making money and looking better

i was dissapointed to see Just James from youtube take the same route, disavowed everything to do with incels and reality, started spouting cope nonsense because he got a long distance relationship with a sloot he barely sees.......disgusting...

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Because let's be honest, they're considerably more attractive.

Yeah but at a certain point you should be honest with yourself, if you have the same age as their dad and look like their dad you can't hope to fuck them and would be better to settle with a woman your age.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

I don't get why a 40 years old man should go for a 20 years old. If you are old you should go for women your age, what's this obsession with younger women?

you deserve young pussy if you've never had it, 40 year olds can go to hell if you never had 20 year olds

literally:

 

[Deleted member 6512]

you deserve young pussy if you've never had it, 40 year olds can go to hell if you never had 20 year olds

literally:

I think boomers got young pussy when they were young too, they were different times.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I don't get why a 40 years old man should go for a 20 years old. If you are old you should go for women your age, what's this obsession with younger women?

Matters if a dude want children.
Otherwise, it doesn't matter beyond the looks attractiveness, part. As in that younger women are generally more attractive.

But if a dude want to have children of his own. A 40 year old woman is game over. A 35 year old woman is high risk.
A 30 or early 30's year old woman is, last call type of age.
And everything below 30 (but above 18 FBI), should be fine.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Matters if a dude want children.
Otherwise, it doesn't matter beyond the looks attractiveness, part. As in that younger women are generally more attractive.

But if a dude want to have children of his own. A 40 year old woman is game over. A 35 year old woman is high risk.
A 30 or early 30's year old woman is, last call type of age.
And everything below 30 (but above 18 FBI), should be fine.

Most of those guys are all divorced tho, if i was them i would settle with a woman my age instead of trying to chase dragons

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

I think boomers got young pussy when they were young too, they were different times.

boomers disgust me, they got virgin marriages and a house at 20 years old but still became alcoholics, bad fathers, assholes, etc

 

[Soalian]

Yeah but at a certain point you should be honest with yourself, if you have the same age as their dad and look like their dad you can't hope to fuck them and would be better to settle with a woman your age.

Agree, but let's make a distinction here, between actually being 40, and looking 40.

You can look 30 at 40, if you're lucky, and took the right steps beforehand.

 

[Deleted member 3512]

I see people looks like him married everywhere, stop this autistic way of thinking. The detacment from reality of this forum is comical.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Agree, but let's make a distinction here, between actually being 40, and looking 40.

You can look 30 at 40, if you're lucky, and took the right steps beforehand.

Bro, at a certain age i don't wanna live fearing getting wrinkles and shit like that. At 40 a man should be established. Yeah, you can take care of yourself, but basically you lived almost half of your life. Even Brad Pitt got married at 40, slaying should be done in young age.

 

[eduardkoopman]

older single guys like this are always looking for stupid epiphanies while taking ice baths and getting life coaches

only things that matter are making money and looking better

i was dissapointed to see Just James from youtube take the same route, disavowed everything to do with incels and reality, started spouting cope nonsense because he got a long distance relationship with a sloot he barely sees.......disgusting...

Eah.
Money and Looks. Are 2 things; that have so much upsides and so limited downsides. Thatit's a no-brainer to aim for them.

***
The cope of plenty oldcells, is massive.

Youngcells often cope with fun shit. Like video games and stuff.
But the oldcell copes are more intense. With spiritualty maxxing, stupid ephifanies, and what not type of stuff. They can end up, a bit miserable.
I mean, with aging we all get more misserable in general. Because aging also sucks a bit.
Maybe haveing family, as a cope, is the easiest way to deal with aging in general.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Bro, at a certain age i don't wanna live fearing getting wrinkles and shit like that. At 40 a man should be established. Yeah, you can take care of yourself, but basically you lived almost half of your life. Even Brad Pitt got married at 40, slaying should be done in young age.

"establashing"; settling down; marrying at 40. and so on.

I agree. cool and good things to do.
But having to do that, with a woman of low looks and so on. Pretty brutals.

Brad Pitt married at 40. But not with some homely woman.

For "settling"; what type of women one can attract as a man for settling. Ir probably even more important than, what type of level one could attract for random lays.
Because it's someone you have to spend alot of time and so on, with.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

"establashing"; settling down; marrying at 40. and so on.

I agree. cool and good things to do.
But having to do that, with a woman of low looks and so on. Pretty brutals.

Brad Pitt married at 40. But not with some homely woman.

For "settling"; what type of women one can attract as a man for settling. Ir probably even more important than, what type of level one could attract for random lays.
Because it's someone you have to spend alot of time and so on, with.

That's why you should be proactive, if you are 40 and single the pool of decent women is very small. You should think about that before reaching 40, when you are young and have beauty by your side.

 

[mgtowmadness]

I am 43 and love video games..Getting my pro pics today or tommorow .I am going to slay milf pussy..

 

[mgtowmadness]

That's why you should be proactive, if you are 40 and single the pool of decent women is very small. You should think about that before reaching 40, when you are young and have beauty by your side.

You should go see my POF thread

 

[Gazzamogga]

bald

 

[Deleted member 6512]

You should go see my POF thread

Why are you single at 40?

 

[mgtowmadness]

I think I am the oldestcell on here..

 

[mgtowmadness]

Why are you single at 40?

Why are you single at 40?

Combo of things..Mainly mental health..but now that I have that under control..I am not giving up on life

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Combo of things..Mainly mental health..but now that I have that under control..I am not giving up on life

Can't expect decent looking women at 40 when you have bad mental health bro. Even if you look decent they still have a pussy and just that makes them (unfortunately) more valuable than you.

 

[mgtowmadness]

Can't expect decent looking women at 40 when you have bad mental health bro. Even if you look decent they still have a pussy and just that makes them (unfortunately) more valuable than you.

Depends on the type of pussy..Maybe you put to much value on it?..or even worse you put it on a pedestal.

 

[mgtowmadness]

I am single and alone for the most part..I would never live with a woman..I am also much better looking than the man in the video

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Depends on the type of pussy..Maybe you put to much value on it?..or even worse you put it on a pedestal.

You are the one saying that you are not giving up and I'm the one putting it on pedestal? If you are here trying to improve yourself you are valuing pussy too, let's not lie, if I was you i would save up and go live in Thailand and try to run JBW

 

[elfmaxx]

I don't think he's as ugly as you're tryna make out that he is.

 

[Soalian]

Eah.
Money and Looks. Are 2 things; that have so much upsides and so limited downsides. Thatit's a no-brainer to aim for them.

***
The cope of plenty oldcells, is massive.

Youngcells often cope with fun shit. Like video games and stuff.
But the oldcell copes are more intense. With spiritualty maxxing, stupid ephifanies, and what not type of stuff. They can end up, a bit miserable.
I mean, with aging we all get more misserable in general. Because aging also sucks a bit.
Maybe haveing family, as a cope, is the easiest way to deal with aging in general.

I mean, when you feel time is accelerating for you, and that you're getting closer to old age, and death with every day, you basically have to find a way to cope with the rest of your life.

Some find relief in Religion, or Spirituality.

And there's this other thing; aging is loss.

Loss of relatives, loss of your physical abilities, loss of professional and personal opportunities,... It's irreversibly closing in on you, and some may feel trapped in that realization.

Loss of this feeling of "Youthfulness", which lies in the realization that you, as an individual, is in a state of expansion out into the world, and out within yourself.

At some point in your life, that changes, and people may feel everything is retracting instead;

time feels like it's accelerating out into an inevitable singularity that is your physical death, but more importantly,

your personal experience of life, as you lived, becomes increasingly unique and singular, from other people's, from the unique experiences that you had before, that shaped who you are now,

so that it becomes increasingly difficult to relate, to connect your personal experience with other people's own experiences;

which may feel like you're branching out, which can make you feel more isolated from others, as a person.

From there, and add to that the wisdom that you may have acquired throughout your life, and you can easily see the appeal of Spirituality, as an outlet.

 

[mgtowmadness]

You are the one saying that you are not giving up and I'm the one putting it on pedestal? If you are here trying to improve yourself you are valuing pussy too, let's not lie, if I was you i would save up and go live in Thailand and try to run JBW

That is true..As Men we do seek some validation from women..but honestly I love living alone...If my pro pics don't help...I will go with escorts..I improve myself because I value health and respect my body..To many Men by the time they are 35 are fat and bald..Most of the time do to poor diet and lack of exercise

 

[Deleted member 3512]

I don't think he's as ugly as you're tryna make out that he is.

he's even had a decent lower third, bald head don't looks like shit on him. I think is much worse his collagen

 

[mgtowmadness]

Loss of relatives, loss of your physical abilities, loss of professional and personal opportunities,... It's irreversibly closing in on you, and some may feel trapped in that realization.

This is true...Aging is a disease you should try to slow it down as much as possible..

 

[Deleted member 11406]

I don't get why a 40 years old man should go for a 20 years old. If you are old you should go for women your age, what's this obsession with younger women?

It's a very dumb decision to go in relationship with a young woman

 

[Deleted member 6512]

he's even had a decent lower third, bald head don't looks like shit on him. I think is much worse his collagen

How do we know the guy in the video didn't have any lays during this time? Single doesn't mean sexless.

 

[mgtowmadness]

It's a very dumb decision to go in relationship with a young woma

I don't want a relationship..I am going to get a milf orgy going..Maybe post it here for Posterity..I am going to mog the whole fourm

 

[Stare]

This guy is delusional, he is old, looks like shit and thinks he can get young girls.
It's the same problem I see with many users here who look bad but won't accept anything less than a Stacy, if they tried getting their looksmatches they probably wouldn't be incels anymore.

His looksmatch is horrible but it's better than dyeing alone.

 

[mgtowmadness]

This guy is delusional, he is old, looks like shit and thinks he can get young girls.
It's the same problem I see with many users here who look bad but won't accept anything less than a Stacy, if they tried getting their looksmatches they probably wouldn't be incels anymore.

His looksmatch is horrible but it's better than dyeing alone.

I would not try to date women in their 20's..I am going to die alone because I refuse to live with anyone..I love freedom

 

[Deleted member 6512]

This guy is delusional, he is old, looks like shit and thinks he can get young girls.
It's the same problem I see with many users here who look bad but won't accept anything less than a Stacy, if they tried getting their looksmatches they probably wouldn't be incels anymore.

His looksmatch is horrible but it's better than dyeing alone.

I think his looksmatch is the typical 40 years old Karen, if i was him i would be happy getting her.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Even Meeks who is dumb as a rock understood that as you age you have to try to make up for losing looks by doing other things. In an interview he said that he can't be a model forever and is trying an acting career, that's what it means being proactive.

 

[mgtowmadness]

At 43 my cope is I am going to mog this whole fourm..Yes at 43 I will have a milf orgy..I know I can do it!..Call me delusional youngcells..I just got my haircut yesterday have been gymmaxxing...this is no Joke..I am going Balls to the Wall

 

[tyronelite]

All redpill boomers deserve 21 yr old stacys. End of discussion

 

[mgtowmadness]

Infact my Cope is so strong I actually believe

I think boomers got young pussy when they were young too, they were different times.

Half of the boomers are trash and bluepilled scum of the Earth

 

[Deleted member 6512]

At 43 my cope is I am going to mog this whole fourm..Yes at 43 I will have a milf orgy..I know I can do it!..Call me delusional youngcells..I just got my haircut yesterday have been gymmaxxing...this is no Joke..I am going Balls to the Wall

You should just hop on TRT and get tattoos and run zaddy game

 

[Deleted member 9787]

Talk about defying life’s ultimate purpose...

 

[tyronelite]

At 43 my cope is I am going to mog this whole fourm..Yes at 43 I will have a milf orgy..I know I can do it!..Call me delusional youngcells..I just got my haircut yesterday have been gymmaxxing...this is no Joke..I am going Balls to the Wall

How are the tinder chicks you swipe on? Are they mostly landwhales & single moms ?

 

[eduardkoopman]

At 43 my cope is I am going to mog this whole fourm..Yes at 43 I will have a milf orgy..I know I can do it!..Call me delusional youngcells..I just got my haircut yesterday have been gymmaxxing...this is no Joke..I am going Balls to the Wall

not only youngcells would call this, sounding delusional.

 

[eduardkoopman]

. At 40 a man should be established.

To add. Plenty at that age, are re-newed single after divorce or seperation of an ltr.
depends a bit on location.
but in plenty places; to concept of starting an ltr/marriage in 20's or 30's, be established, and riding that out for the rest of life. Is outdated concept.
there is now more, constant-ish, "movement".

 

[mgtowmadness]

not only youngcells would call this, sounding delusional.

You will see me as a living God on this fourm..I am going to flex on the youngcels and give lifefuel to the oldcels..Yes..I am that crazy