Oneitis advice do I have a chance or no

[simulacrasim3.14159]

I wagey ragey cagey at this awful pub, but I talked to this waitress. She is actually nice to me, not sure about interest lol probably zero. She goes to college and does film studies, I'm heavily into films we talk about this a lot. I am kitchen porter, she is waitress. I just larp at Kitchen Porter and do developing as main job. s
she has literally no reason for being this nice for this long, she could shit on me with no repurcussions.
she did give what I interpreted as an IOI, she did try and qualify herself to me, and has laughed a lot at jokes.
And also she was low inhib enough to dance Infront of me, when a song she liked came on.
I honestly nearly got an erection on the spot then,lol
However I have this huge urge to ask her out, to watch a film, it's going to end badly.
This is not even the dilemma, I'm like 30s early 30s and she is around 18.

im going to get metood or banged up, right.
how do you control these urges, I obviously think she is stunning.

i can't act can I I'm fucked

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Enlil]

do it bro life's too short to make shit threads and ask autists online whether you should make a move or nah

 

[simulacrasim3.14159]

You have to factor in I'm @superlowselfesteemcel
@superscaredofrejectioncel
Also I'm just basically asking are these kind of IOIs enough, or is this just friendzone shit
Also yes I am aware of it being nearly over

 

[william]

if you have to ask these questions in your 30s. it is beyond over sorry boyo.

 

[Swolepenisman]

Just do it

 

[Nosecel]

If you are not 5'5 psl dont try
TRUST ME

 

[simulacrasim3.14159]

I'm gymaxx/ogremaxxed
5 10"
Jestermaxxedcel