Have u tried laughing yet?
Just talk about all their falios in front of foids, if you say them everyone will laugh with you because normies are all npcs.
yes but i need to joke at their stupid bluepill attitude
Just say stfu faggit, you probably love this girl because she looks like all your female relatives, just hurry up shoot up the school already, because srs your obsession with this girl is giving me school shooter vibes.
I mean they ain't obsessed.
I haven't realized that yet bro any tips
Old people look hella mature..I mean they ain't obsessed.
But we were talking today about what we'd do if we found our chick (supposingly gf) kissing with another dude, me and my friends said we'd beat his fucking ass off and dump the bitch afterwards, and this cuck (he heightmogs us all, he's the prettyboy of the class), said he wouldn't say shit and just leave.
He said that makes you look more mature (MATUREPILL CELS GTFIH), i just can't fucking believe the cucking and low t this faggot has. almost injected him t right on the spot
I haven't realized that yet bro any tips
For me mine ended up being a slut, that was enough. Whenever I remember her she's just gross to me. My tip is make an effort to stop thinking about her positively, instead think thoughts of her like she's unattractive or undesirable for w/e reason. Don't say positive things about her either. For me this all happened naturally, I think every man has a "slut line" where if a woman he's interested in does something degrading enough a switch is flipped and he's no longer interested, but for you this might work.
I love my oneitis I just revised the letter I was writing for her
girls laugh at them, cucks always get the bad end of deal in the end
And in the beginning and in the middle also lol
For this reason high self esteem is crucial tbh
nothing good comes from bluepill when it comes to women, you just get life motivation and it helps you reach your goals but women will always crush anyone bluepilled
This dude for example is only digging himself a deeper and deeper hole that he will eventually have to climb out of, sad to seeI love my oneitis I just revised the letter I was writing for her
I'll do anything to have her just notice my precense
She's perfect beyond belief
Women are the best at redpilling and blackpilling
So this. Mines didn't end up being a slut but ended up dating a subhuman who'd get close to zero matches on tinder. This was just as bad as her being a slut for me because she is now constantly having sex with genetic trash. There's a gigantic looks disparity between them. I wouldn't mind if her and the bf died tbh. I have moments where I feel legitimate hatred for her and why I ever met this stupid degenerate whore. I think oneitis is excusable in the case of the slightly fucked up mind such as mine where you develop legitimate limerence or limerence for someone, even while you are trying and fucking other girls. This doesn't arise from a scarcity mindset but rather from thinking that there's one girl that's "the one". In reality, you should only view relationships as transactional gain. Meaning ok, I'm in a relationship with her and having consistent sex and don't have to jerk off all the time. Or if she's good looking, you also gain the benefit of showing her off in public and gaining status.
Can't over-emphasize how important this is tbh
How am I digging myself a deeper hole?
Read my other posts and if you have an IQ above 90 you should get it
Too simplified. I've known several very gl men who had oneitis syndrome because they were romantic thinkers. Its like @Melo95 described. One of my best friends is imo the most handsome dude in our group, he has yet to lose his virginity and for years was hung up on the same girl. I finally snapped at him a few weeks ago and told him he was a fucking moron because he PSL mogs this chick by like 3 points (I didn't actually say that of course but he does) and she had been obviously leading him on for fucking years.
Yeah some people here don't have true shitty oneitis so they don't understand. Oneitis isn't some girl you briefly relied on being available to you because she treats you well and other girls reject you. Honestly not everyone here knows what true oneitis is nor will they ever be able to experience it luckily. Your brain has to be wired for OCD tendencies in order for it to occur..
another brilliant post
Yes, it seems you're the only one who I can actually relate to in terms of post-oneitis feelings while the others are still somehow into a degenerate whore that spent no time thinking about them. Yeah the hate feels immoral and irrational but it also somehow feels totally justified because of how you've suffered emotionally yourself. You're hating your former oneitis for not being the idealized version that you wanted her to be. You're hating her for not being your special girl and wanting to settle down and laugh and cuddle with you and give you those feels.
God damn man you are legit the first person I've ever encountered who has understood this, so much so that you're saying shit that I've experienced for years but never actually realized. My old oneitis is honestly a symbol of how the entire world has failed to live up to my expectations just like the projected ideal I had of her beforehand was a symbol of all my hopes for how my life would turn out. I've even caught myself thinking that it isn't truly about her, it could've happened with any other girl, its really about how life sucks ass and the moment I viscerally realized it.
Yes that's it. After this happened to me, I realized that a part of me died inside and can never come back. It just means that you have to see life in a different way. It's funny mentioning him but it seems redpilled guys like AMS were right about this type of thing all along. "find your purpose". TRUE oneitis is really a redpill topic, not a blackpill one whatsoever. Yeah with me the girl wasn't even 100 percent my usual type but is very attractive regardless and we are a looksmatch. There were definitely certain criteria my oneitis had to fill appearance wise though, but it was pretty basic such as being brunette, having a Slavic pheno to match my male one, and having a nice face. She had these traits.
Yeah mine was tbh not even that gl, she was probably my looksmatch back then or even a couple points below. She steadily got less attractive with age tbh, she was at her cutest in the first two years of high school. Most frustrating thing about it though is I feel like I really experienced love without any care for physical attraction level, all those bluepilled beliefs in romance movies were true for me but then it got ruined and I can never go back to that state again. Probably for the best but it feels like this world crushes any truly good thing sometimes.
The world truly is harmful yes. Mine was definitely good looking but as you've said, I do think cuteness of the girl plays a big role. If she's cute and feminine, oneitis has a higher chance of occurring. For example, I never had oneitis for purely hot looking girls and honestly, don't think that I ever could. The cute and soft ones are the ones that really devastate you, not the hot ones.
My first oneitis gave me a fake sexual assault claim simply bcs she rejected me and i told her that i will not talk to her untilll i moved on.
Damn that fucking sucks.
Luckily it was just some shitty rumor and not a real court case.
