Oneitis showered me with love then left?

[boxing-cel]

I saw my crush outside class and I sorta just walked right next to her and we started chatting and smiling and laughing, and we walked in together and we were chatting and things were going so well. She was asking questions and stuff and really seemed into me. She asked me like 6 questions about me and the conversation flowers super well. We were laughing, smiling and making eye contact. 2-3 times we just looked at one another during the class, then the other person looked, we locked eyes and then we couldn’t stop smiling. I shifted closer to her and she didn’t seem to mind, and she kept playing with her hair constantly. But even besides this, we kept looking at each other even when the other person wasn’t, maybe 12 times. We didn’t talk much, but the room was tiny, quiet and there were like three other people nearby who’d have heard. I did pass one comment and she smiled and commented back.

But after class…she left super fast. She did mention she hadn’t eaten all day, and that she just wanted to go home and was bored of class and had been here all day (this was at the start, when we were discussing routines and stuff). I asked her if she was going back, and she said yeah and gave an awkward half smile. I said cya, she said bye as she turned and bolted off.

I felt crushed to be honest. I thought I could walk with her or grab something, or at least hover for 30 seconds so I could grab her socials, but she ran off.

I’m so confused…the tension was electric and we had an amazing vibe, and in the past we’ve had interactions before like her asking me to go into class together or general stuff about where the elevator is going so we’d broken the ice already…but now I feel like I just misread everything? It felt so incredible because she was so sweet to me. I don’t talk to girls much and am kinda shy (most slays are OLD) so it felt like opium. I can’t stop thinking about her and feeling kinda emotional.

What do I do?

 

[boxing-cel]

Bump nigga someone help me

 

[fraudster#1]

What do I do?

i dont even know, woman's nature are very hard to understand

 

[fraudster#1]

take some pregrab and take more risks, if she feel shy and awkward abt it, then jst leave

 

[boxing-cel]

dont even me know, woman's nature are very hard to understand

I don’t understand how we’d literally stare into each others eyes for like 3 seconds straight, smile (she smiled first) and then look away smiling because the tension was so great and then she’d just play with her hair and like just look at me. Why do all that if you’re not gonna give me an opening? wtf man. Being MTN is hell.

 

[boxing-cel]

take some pregrab and take more risks, if she feel shy and awkward abt it, then jst leave

Thing is, the only other classes we have now are ones where there’s like 100 people and she’s with her friends so I have no fucking clue on how to speak to her.

 

[sigmafoid217]

probably just got nervous

 

[boxing-cel]

probably just got nervous

Really?

So do you think she’s still interested?

 

[fraudster#1]

Thing is, the only other classes we have now are ones where there’s like 100 people and she’s with her friends so I have no fucking clue on how to speak to her.

do u have her contact?

 

[boxing-cel]

do u have her contact?

I know what her Insta and Snap is but I haven’t added her. I don’t know if I should…it may come off as desperate or creepy but fuck, I feel so desperate right now.

 

[fraudster#1]

I know what her Insta and Snap is but I haven’t added her. I don’t know if I should…it may come off as desperate or creepy but fuck, I feel so desperate right now.

take the risk and add her, as you said, she played with hair and etc. that a signal of something good

 

[boxing-cel]

take the risk and add her, as you said, she played with hair and etc. that a signal of something good

But it comes off as weird, no?

Like she didn’t give it IRL cause she left so fast. I was 100% gonna ask to hang out with her or at least get her insta or smth but couldn’t.

Now if I follow her she’s gonna think I just searched her up and followed her.

 

[boxing-cel]

take the risk and add her, as you said, she played with hair and etc. that a signal of something good

Eh fuck it, I followed her. I just need a verdict atp I can’t just spend the next week or whatever just wondering

 

[fraudster#1]

But it comes off as weird, no?

Like she didn’t give it IRL cause she left so fast. I was 100% gonna ask to hang out with her or at least get her insta or smth but couldn’t.

Now if I follow her she’s gonna think I just searched her up and followed her.

so, u can try IRL again if u have time enough
if u dont feel secure to follow her insta, so just wait

 

[fraudster#1]

Eh fuck it, I followed her. I just need a verdict atp I can’t just spend the next week or whatever just wondering

good good.
waiting to see what she gonna reply

 

[boxing-cel]

good good.
waiting to see what she gonna reply

Well, she needs to accept first.

Then I gotta DM her smth.

Any ideas?

 

[fraudster#1]

Well, she needs to accept first.

Then I gotta DM her smth.

Any ideas?

base the dm in the experience on school or sum idk exactly bro

 

[boxing-cel]

base the dm in the experience on school or sum idk exactly bro

Kk

 

[JohanBigBalle]

That bitch got post nut syndrome in advance, tf

 

[boxing-cel]

That bitch got post nut syndrome in advance, tf

I’m really hoping she just got shy. She seems kinda innocent ngl. I know all girls are hoes but still she sorta let slip that she lives far away from all the fun stuff blah blah and can’t go when I said I went lol. So maybe she lacks experience or smth

 

[boxing-cel]

Bump

 

[vvvvvv1]

I saw my crush outside class and I sorta just walked right next to her and we started chatting and smiling and laughing, and we walked in together and we were chatting and things were going so well. She was asking questions and stuff and really seemed into me. She asked me like 6 questions about me and the conversation flowers super well. We were laughing, smiling and making eye contact. 2-3 times we just looked at one another during the class, then the other person looked, we locked eyes and then we couldn’t stop smiling. I shifted closer to her and she didn’t seem to mind, and she kept playing with her hair constantly. But even besides this, we kept looking at each other even when the other person wasn’t, maybe 12 times. We didn’t talk much, but the room was tiny, quiet and there were like three other people nearby who’d have heard. I did pass one comment and she smiled and commented back.

But after class…she left super fast. She did mention she hadn’t eaten all day, and that she just wanted to go home and was bored of class and had been here all day (this was at the start, when we were discussing routines and stuff). I asked her if she was going back, and she said yeah and gave an awkward half smile. I said cya, she said bye as she turned and bolted off.

I felt crushed to be honest. I thought I could walk with her or grab something, or at least hover for 30 seconds so I could grab her socials, but she ran off.

I’m so confused…the tension was electric and we had an amazing vibe, and in the past we’ve had interactions before like her asking me to go into class together or general stuff about where the elevator is going so we’d broken the ice already…but now I feel like I just misread everything? It felt so incredible because she was so sweet to me. I don’t talk to girls much and am kinda shy (most slays are OLD) so it felt like opium. I can’t stop thinking about her and feeling kinda emotional.

What do I do?

Girls don't ask you bunch of questions, hold eye contact and smile at you for no reason, so she did show a genuine interest in you, is she extroverted or chill in general? If she's even a little bit shy it's either she got:
nervous afterwards
 Or
was socially drained
Or
Something came up and she had to go
Idk you mentioned she hasn't eaten all day so she was probably tired and couldn't wait to rest, next time you see her say something like "Hey, I liked talking to you last time” "Hey it was fun talking to you the other day"
Then ask to hangout or something

 

[boxing-cel]

Girls don't ask you bunch of questions, hold eye contact and smile at you for no reason, so she did show a genuine interest in you, is she extroverted or chill in general? If she's even a little bit shy it's either she got:
nervous afterwards
 Or
was socially drained
Or
Something came up and she had to go
Idk you mentioned she hasn't eaten all day so she was probably tired and couldn't wait to rest, next time you see her say something like "Hey, I liked talking to you last time” "Hey it was fun talking to you the other day"
Then ask to hangout or something

She’s definitely a bit quiet and shy, not a loud or very socially active gal.

She was texting someone or typing a lot, really hope it wasn’t a guy.

But also she’d been on campus for like 6 hours and said she went back and barely had lunch and couldn’t wait to go back, this was at the start of the convo.

I did send her a follow request on Insta.

But do you think she likes me?

 

[boxing-cel]

She’s definitely a bit quiet and shy, not a loud or very socially active gal.

She was texting someone or typing a lot, really hope it wasn’t a guy.

But also she’d been on campus for like 6 hours and said she went back and barely had lunch and couldn’t wait to go back, this was at the start of the convo.

I did send her a follow request on Insta.

But do you think she likes me?

Oh she accepted my Follow Request at 8AM and she followed me back LOLLLL.

 

[vvvvvv1]

She’s definitely a bit quiet and shy, not a loud or very socially active gal.

She was texting someone or typing a lot, really hope it wasn’t a guy.

But also she’d been on campus for like 6 hours and said she went back and barely had lunch and couldn’t wait to go back, this was at the start of the convo.

I did send her a follow request on Insta.

But do you think she likes me?

There's a chance she might be interested in you, if she wasn't, she'd be ignoring you instead

Oh she accepted my Follow Request at 8AM and she followed me back LOLLLL.

When texting her never be dry, instead,mention something interesting from pervious convo and ask questions about herself, suggest casual hangouts only after talking long enough, good luck dude

 

[Ruinedbyfaceshape]

she doesn't fucking like you

 

[Doesitmatter?]

She just wanted your attention. She doesn't really want you

 

[Doesitmatter?]

she doesn't fucking like you

High iq

 

[Ruinedbyfaceshape]

High iq

niggas think a girl being nice is her wanting to suck their cock.

 

[Doesitmatter?]

niggas think a girl being nice is her wanting to suck their cock.

Yup. That was me a year ago untill i learnt it the hard way. Never invest as a man. If she really wants you, she would unzip your pants and give you a bj without a word

 

[Ruinedbyfaceshape]

Yup. That was me a year ago untill i learnt it the hard way. Never invest as a man. If she really wants you, she would unzip your pants and give you a bj without a word

if a girl wants you its painfully obvious her asking this dude 6 questions is probably because it was awkward asf and she felt bad jfl no one here has spent more than 30 mins talking to a girl

 

[fantasea]

 

[boxing-cel]

she doesn't fucking like you

High iq

She accepted my follow request at 8AM today and followed back so

There's a chance she might be interested in you, if she wasn't, she'd be ignoring you instead

When texting her never be dry, instead,mention something interesting from pervious convo and ask questions about herself, suggest casual hangouts only after talking long enough, good luck dude

im gonna ask to hang out asap tho I don’t wanna do this texting game

 

[Doesitmatter?]

She accepted my follow request at 8AM today and followed back so

im gonna ask to hang out asap tho I don’t wanna do this texting game

Good. I would say max 1 month before she goes dry and reveals she's seeing someone else @Ruinedbyfaceshape

 

[boxing-cel]

Good. I would say max 1 month before she goes dry and reveals she's seeing someone else @Ruinedbyfaceshape

3 possibilities:

1. She’s a great gal and I have a gf
2. I don’t get attached, she’s a bad gal but I gained experience
3. I get attached, and she’s a bad gal but I get infinite fuel to improve my life

 

[sigmafoid217]

But it comes off as weird, no?

Like she didn’t give it IRL cause she left so fast. I was 100% gonna ask to hang out with her or at least get her insta or smth but couldn’t.

Now if I follow her she’s gonna think I just searched her up and followed her.

just add her snap if you already know her name and she knows yours and ask for insta later

 

[boxing-cel]

just add her snap if you already know her name and she knows yours and ask for insta later

I already followed her on insta

 

[chadtushar]

I don’t know if I should…it may come off as desperate or creepy but fuck, I feel so desperate right now.

Stop overthinking

 

[boxing-cel]

Stop overthinking

lol you’re a lil late I did it haha

 

[chadtushar]

lol you’re a lil late I did it haha

Good

 

[ccwb]

I saw my crush outside class and I sorta just walked right next to her and we started chatting and smiling and laughing, and we walked in together and we were chatting and things were going so well. She was asking questions and stuff and really seemed into me. She asked me like 6 questions about me and the conversation flowers super well. We were laughing, smiling and making eye contact. 2-3 times we just looked at one another during the class, then the other person looked, we locked eyes and then we couldn’t stop smiling. I shifted closer to her and she didn’t seem to mind, and she kept playing with her hair constantly. But even besides this, we kept looking at each other even when the other person wasn’t, maybe 12 times. We didn’t talk much, but the room was tiny, quiet and there were like three other people nearby who’d have heard. I did pass one comment and she smiled and commented back.

But after class…she left super fast. She did mention she hadn’t eaten all day, and that she just wanted to go home and was bored of class and had been here all day (this was at the start, when we were discussing routines and stuff). I asked her if she was going back, and she said yeah and gave an awkward half smile. I said cya, she said bye as she turned and bolted off.

I felt crushed to be honest. I thought I could walk with her or grab something, or at least hover for 30 seconds so I could grab her socials, but she ran off.

I’m so confused…the tension was electric and we had an amazing vibe, and in the past we’ve had interactions before like her asking me to go into class together or general stuff about where the elevator is going so we’d broken the ice already…but now I feel like I just misread everything? It felt so incredible because she was so sweet to me. I don’t talk to girls much and am kinda shy (most slays are OLD) so it felt like opium. I can’t stop thinking about her and feeling kinda emotional.

What do I do?