Online dating has never been worse

[Shahnameh]

Flaking, girls looking much different than their pictures, randomly ghosting after conversations seemingly going well, boring personalities, I can go on and on.

There is nothing that can supplant in person chemistry, reading body language, subtle facial cues, versus texting on a 6 inch screen.

Communication is mostly nonverbal anyway, this is proven, so the chances are while you are swiping away, some guy in person is actually eliciting a far superior emotional response with your "e-girl" in person.

I have recently had some promising leads on insta and hinge fall through the wayside for no reason really, got a dog ate my homework type excuse for flaking on an already agreed to meetup. So I'm not speaking from my high horse, I'm experiencing the downsides of OLD, whereas in person I can get much better, hotter, younger potential prospects.

The random ghosting mid conversation I don't really care about.

When we agree to meet, communicate or a while, exchange numbers, plan the time and place, and then the day of, get a message that she doesn't want to (of course packaged into some rather poor excuse), that I will admit gets me more riled up than it should.

 

[shia.jihadist]

got a dog ate my homework type excuse for flaking on an already agreed to meetup

what was it

 

[sprout]

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

 

[cucklek]

the only way to get a loyal girlfriend in 2024 is by buying one

fuck regular girls, just fly to SEA and pay a gook to come with u

 

[lurking truecel]

I mean yea it also because online dating have been declining a little bit.most of the girls their are like really antisocial and introverts to begin with. So the chance of them flaking is high already because they are more emotional and socially awkward

 

[Shahnameh]

what was it

She claimed her mother was in the hospital, very vague and shitty excuse

A lot of ethnic girls in sydney use this exact excuse

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

even ChadFishes are struggling with how bad the quality of the women have gotten in Sydney

the only way to get a loyal girlfriend in 2024 is by buying one

fuck regular girls, just fly to SEA and pay a gook to come with u

I'd rather be alone than breed with a SEAmonkey

I'm desperate but not that desperate

I mean yea it also because online dating have been declining a little bit.most of the girls their are like really antisocial and introverts to begin with. So the chance of them flaking is high already because they are more emotional and socially awkward

For a man being socially awkward or emotionally mature would doom him to a life of inceldem but women can get away with it

Dating apps just give way too much power to women

 

[lurking truecel]

She claimed her mother was in the hospital, very vague and shitty excuse

A lot of ethnic girls in sydney use this exact excuse



even ChadFishes are struggling with how bad the quality of the women have gotten in Sydney



I'd rather be alone than breed with a SEAmonkey

I'm desperate but not that desperate



For a man being socially awkward or emotionally mature would doom him to a life of inceldem but women can get away with it

Dating apps just give way too much power to women

I mean I think most men on dating apps are also socially awkward so I guess it's a match in some sense. But yeah the girls on dating apps have a very different mindset. They know they got unlimited options and they are also socially inept. Not worth the trouble most of the time. But yea there are some good things happening sometimes.

 

[Shahnameh]

I mean I think most men on dating apps are also socially awkward so I guess it's a match in some sense. But yeah the girls on dating apps have a very different mindset. They know they got unlimited options and they are also socially inept. Not worth the trouble most of the time. But yea there are some good things happening sometimes.

These socially awkward men don't even get 1% of the matches that literal sub human Sewer monster women get. It's not a fair comparison.

some guy did an experiment with a pig woman and even that thing got thousands of likes from above average men.

Online dating experiment with Pig Woman

For any doubters believing that female hypergamy doesn't exist take a look at the kind of attention this profile receives by countless thirsty men. Women simply have a much higher SMV (sexual market value). Why would women settle for an average male around her looksmatch when she can attract men...

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[lurking truecel]

These socially awkward men don't even get 1% of the matches that literal sub human Sewer monster women get. It's not a fair comparison.

some guy did an experiment with a pig woman and even that thing got thousands of likes from above average men.

Online dating experiment with Pig Woman

For any doubters believing that female hypergamy doesn't exist take a look at the kind of attention this profile receives by countless thirsty men. Women simply have a much higher SMV (sexual market value). Why would women settle for an average male around her looksmatch when she can attract men...

forums.hfboards.com

I didn't mean that it was a fair comparison, but most men are also socially awkward their. But yeah the options are not fair. And overall the experience for a man is not really worth it. Even if you are Chad you can just fuck better woman in the clubs or other places. It's really a dead end. And most women know they are getting used and are Chad hunting

 

[romanstock]

Yeah I can't even Chadfish and masturbate over the convos anymore.

 

[Shahnameh]

Yeah I can't even Chadfish and masturbate over the convos anymore.

I didn't mean that it was a fair comparison, but most men are also socially awkward their. But yeah the options are not fair. And overall the experience for a man is not really worth it. Even if you are Chad you can just fuck better woman in the clubs or other places. It's really a dead end. And most women know they are getting used and are Chad hunting

Women don't really care about random men until they are in some way invested thats why OLD is such a waste of time you're just too disposable

You literally need to be her idea of a perfect option just to get responses / date , you could say something obscure in the wrong context and a woman on OLD would take extreme offence to it and ghost you

Walking on egg shells isnt a game you want to encourage with females

 

[Shahnameh]

Bump

 

[greycel]

Flaking, girls looking much different than their pictures, randomly ghosting after conversations seemingly going well, boring personalities, I can go on and on.

There is nothing that can supplant in person chemistry, reading body language, subtle facial cues, versus texting on a 6 inch screen.

Communication is mostly nonverbal anyway, this is proven, so the chances are while you are swiping away, some guy in person is actually eliciting a far superior emotional response with your "e-girl" in person.

I have recently had some promising leads on insta and hinge fall through the wayside for no reason really, got a dog ate my homework type excuse for flaking on an already agreed to meetup. So I'm not speaking from my high horse, I'm experiencing the downsides of OLD, whereas in person I can get much better, hotter, younger potential prospects.

The random ghosting mid conversation I don't really care about.

When we agree to meet, communicate or a while, exchange numbers, plan the time and place, and then the day of, get a message that she doesn't want to (of course packaged into some rather poor excuse), that I will admit gets me more riled up than it should.

It's likely because you are chasing after women who are treating dating as a game.
It's temporary for them and likely for you too. You might not think it as such, but it's likely neither party involved treats it as a permanent partner.
Somebody you will marry and have children with, grandchildren etc.

Find women who first value the idea of a relationship.
Which you likely won't find online.
Online introduces you to quantity that lack quality.

 

[RICHCELDOM]

it's like talking to the wall but the wall mogs because it won't demoralize you.

 

[Orc]

online dating is easy it's just not worth it because only the bottom of society uses dating apps.

 

[bloomercel]

Why does nobody in this forum ever hit on females IRL?

 

[Shahnameh]

Why does nobody in this forum ever hit on females IRL?

Haven't u read my train threads?

 

[thereallegend]

Why does nobody in this forum ever hit on females IRL?

You actually have to have a vibrant social life outside of work and school for this work. Also be active on Insta and Snap.

 

[bloomercel]

Haven't u read my train threads?

The ones where you nervously stare ahead when girls sit next to you?

 

[Mosh12]

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

 

[greycel]

online dating is easy it's just not worth it because only the bottom of society uses dating apps.

If not dating apps, and oher than through friends/family, what other ways do people find relationships?

 

[Orc]

If not dating apps, and oher than through friends/family, what other ways do people find relationships?

events.

even the biggest subhumans are able to slay at metal concerts.

 

[Shahnameh]

events.

even the biggest subhumans are able to slay at metal concerts.

Isnt metal like 95% men

Who are they slaying with?

 

[losthope]

Isnt metal like 95% men

Who are they slaying with?

other men

 

[Orc]

Isnt metal like 95% men

Who are they slaying with?

it's closer to 50/50 than you'd figure, there's not actually that much gender disparity.

I've met a lot of girls just standing around on concerts, also random dudes will often offer you weed or alcohol even if you don't have any, and introduce you to their friends.

 

[SquareChinOrDeath]

online dating is easy it's just not worth it because only the bottom of society uses dating apps.

And the gender disparity is so insane that over time the leftovers, aside from somewhat decent whores that were already taken, are extremely ran through toxic whores that are going to unleash their inner wrath of getting pumped and dumped by chads for years on these apps, ironically on incels that are on these apps.
Dating apps dynamics are basicly dirty laundry that are coming out of a laundry store owned by foids.

 

[xlimz]

dnr

 

[Shahnameh]

it's closer to 50/50 than you'd figure, there's not actually that much gender disparity.

I've met a lot of girls just standing around on concerts, also random dudes will often offer you weed or alcohol even if you don't have any, and introduce you to their friends.

I need to join thr Metal scene, i already listen to metal music since i played Jak X as a kid and it introduced me to the genre

 

[stamaster21]

And the gender disparity is so insane that over time the leftovers, aside from somewhat decent whores that were already taken, are extremely ran through toxic whores that are going to unleash their inner wrath of getting pumped and dumped by chads for years on these apps, ironically on incels that are on these apps.
Dating apps dynamics are basicly dirty laundry that are coming out of a laundry store owned by foids.

basically you have a larger pool of women having casual sex with chads/tyrones/changs for years on the apps, they wish these guy would turn their casual flings into a ltr, and stop fucking other women. These women then build up anger over the years and unleash it out on the other 75-85 percent of men by cursing them or calling them ugly, or flat our reporting and blocking profiles just because a guy messaged her who she thought was disgusting.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

These socially awkward men don't even get 1% of the matches that literal sub human Sewer monster women get. It's not a fair comparison.

some guy did an experiment with a pig woman and even that thing got thousands of likes from above average men.

Online dating experiment with Pig Woman

For any doubters believing that female hypergamy doesn't exist take a look at the kind of attention this profile receives by countless thirsty men. Women simply have a much higher SMV (sexual market value). Why would women settle for an average male around her looksmatch when she can attract men...

forums.hfboards.com

Classic and I just read all the replies and they're calling OP a coping retard what the fuck

This nigga was a prophet before his time

 

[Orc]

I need to join thr Metal scene, i already listen to metal music since i played Jak X as a kid and it introduced me to the genre

all music is fine except dance music.

even pop.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Women don't really care about random men until they are in some way invested thats why OLD is such a waste of time you're just too disposable

You literally need to be her idea of a perfect option just to get responses / date , you could say something obscure in the wrong context and a woman on OLD would take extreme offence to it and ghost you

Walking on egg shells isnt a game you want to encourage with females

Online dating is bad because of unrealistic standards on the women end and bad ratios. Mid girls get sexual advances from moggers and equate this to chads wanting them. Ofc that’s not true, Chad wants them for an easy lay not anything serious. Bad ratios cause abundance of choice, which is partially why bouncers have to balance gender ratio in clubs

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

all music is fine except dance music.

even pop.

How are u a bodybuilder that doesn’t like edm

 

[Orc]

How are u a bodybuilder that doesn’t like edm

it doesn't matter whether you like or not, what matters is that the girls that are into it are huge degenerate sluts, which means it's pointless to go to raves unless you're trying to get an std.

 

[Bomber517]

water

 

[SquareChinOrDeath]

Classic and I just read all the replies and they're calling OP a coping retard what the fuck

This nigga was a prophet before his time

And that was 2014 jfl
We are 10 years later, I don't think many people even come close to estimating just how bad juggernaut law and dating apps have become.

 

[SquareChinOrDeath]

Daily reminder that this has a higher smv than you

Spoiler

 

[Shahnameh]

basically you have a larger pool of women having casual sex with chads/tyrones/changs for years on the apps, they wish these guy would turn their casual flings into a ltr, and stop fucking other women. These women then build up anger over the years and unleash it out on the other 75-85 percent of men by cursing them or calling them ugly, or flat our reporting and blocking profiles just because a guy messaged her who she thought was disgusting.

It's not fair that the average joe is punished

 

[Ruthless]

Online dating is scam made by demons

 

[stamaster21]

It's not fair that the average joe is punished

biology and nature doesnt care about fairness, the worst part is , their is limited time table for peak mating and memories, which is when people are young aka ages 13-24, the reason i say those ages thats when people are also young and healthy but have the least amount of pressure and responsibility you can never adjust for those missed years. It will have a major effect on your social and mating life. The thing is people always think they have time, there in junior high then say highschool will be the time, then their in highschool and say college will be there time. THE TIME IS NOWW. In reality you should be panic mode when your in junior highschool aka ages 11-14 and in highschool if by your sophmore year aka ages 15-16 it should be full red alert mode, with you trying to take care of your hair,skin, body and fitness and improving your social skills and taking dating/social risk, you should come up with a plan on during the summer you will do all these things to make your junior year much better.


The best case senario is if you became popular online and in social media and made money and now you can just live off the investments and now work and date women and have a close social group, then settle down and have a family, this is not realistic for 95 percent of men. The second best case senario is landing a job where you sit in cool air conditioned office, where you mostly work alone 95-98 percent of the time and you just need to hand in your work and check in with the managers, you don't even need to physically be in the office just hand in the work and make 150k a year+ with pension and stocks and retirement after 25 years.


The reason i didn't bring up IT or cyber security is because thou working at home would be amazing the work environement in the office or around people can help with networking or just getting out the house.

 

[stamaster21]

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

The most realistic post on here, HTN is basically a 6.5/10- 7/10 male.