Online dating has never been worse

[Shahnameh]

Flaking, girls looking much different than their pictures, randomly ghosting after conversations seemingly going well, boring personalities, I can go on and on.

There is nothing that can supplant in person chemistry, reading body language, subtle facial cues, versus texting on a 6 inch screen.

Communication is mostly nonverbal anyway, this is proven, so the chances are while you are swiping away, some guy in person is actually eliciting a far superior emotional response with your "e-girl" in person.

I have recently had some promising leads on insta and hinge fall through the wayside for no reason really, got a dog ate my homework type excuse for flaking on an already agreed to meetup. So I'm not speaking from my high horse, I'm experiencing the downsides of OLD, whereas in person I can get much better, hotter, younger potential prospects.

The random ghosting mid conversation I don't really care about.

When we agree to meet, communicate or a while, exchange numbers, plan the time and place, and then the day of, get a message that she doesn't want to (of course packaged into some rather poor excuse), that I will admit gets me more riled up than it should.

 

[shia.jihadist]

got a dog ate my homework type excuse for flaking on an already agreed to meetup

what was it

 

[sprout]

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

 

[cucklek]

the only way to get a loyal girlfriend in 2024 is by buying one

fuck regular girls, just fly to SEA and pay a gook to come with u

 

[lurking truecel]

I mean yea it also because online dating have been declining a little bit.most of the girls their are like really antisocial and introverts to begin with. So the chance of them flaking is high already because they are more emotional and socially awkward

 

[Shahnameh]

what was it

She claimed her mother was in the hospital, very vague and shitty excuse

A lot of ethnic girls in sydney use this exact excuse

the only way to win online dating is to atleast be HTN and atleast slightly NT and then also have luck

even ChadFishes are struggling with how bad the quality of the women have gotten in Sydney

the only way to get a loyal girlfriend in 2024 is by buying one

fuck regular girls, just fly to SEA and pay a gook to come with u

I'd rather be alone than breed with a SEAmonkey

I'm desperate but not that desperate

I mean yea it also because online dating have been declining a little bit.most of the girls their are like really antisocial and introverts to begin with. So the chance of them flaking is high already because they are more emotional and socially awkward

For a man being socially awkward or emotionally mature would doom him to a life of inceldem but women can get away with it

Dating apps just give way too much power to women

 

[lurking truecel]

She claimed her mother was in the hospital, very vague and shitty excuse

A lot of ethnic girls in sydney use this exact excuse



even ChadFishes are struggling with how bad the quality of the women have gotten in Sydney



I'd rather be alone than breed with a SEAmonkey

I'm desperate but not that desperate



For a man being socially awkward or emotionally mature would doom him to a life of inceldem but women can get away with it

Dating apps just give way too much power to women

I mean I think most men on dating apps are also socially awkward so I guess it's a match in some sense. But yeah the girls on dating apps have a very different mindset. They know they got unlimited options and they are also socially inept. Not worth the trouble most of the time. But yea there are some good things happening sometimes.

 

[Shahnameh]

I mean I think most men on dating apps are also socially awkward so I guess it's a match in some sense. But yeah the girls on dating apps have a very different mindset. They know they got unlimited options and they are also socially inept. Not worth the trouble most of the time. But yea there are some good things happening sometimes.

These socially awkward men don't even get 1% of the matches that literal sub human Sewer monster women get. It's not a fair comparison.

some guy did an experiment with a pig woman and even that thing got thousands of likes from above average men.

Online dating experiment with Pig Woman

For any doubters believing that female hypergamy doesn't exist take a look at the kind of attention this profile receives by countless thirsty men. Women simply have a much higher SMV (sexual market value). Why would women settle for an average male around her looksmatch when she can attract men...

forums.hfboards.com

 

[lurking truecel]

These socially awkward men don't even get 1% of the matches that literal sub human Sewer monster women get. It's not a fair comparison.

some guy did an experiment with a pig woman and even that thing got thousands of likes from above average men.

Online dating experiment with Pig Woman

For any doubters believing that female hypergamy doesn't exist take a look at the kind of attention this profile receives by countless thirsty men. Women simply have a much higher SMV (sexual market value). Why would women settle for an average male around her looksmatch when she can attract men...

forums.hfboards.com

I didn't mean that it was a fair comparison, but most men are also socially awkward their. But yeah the options are not fair. And overall the experience for a man is not really worth it. Even if you are Chad you can just fuck better woman in the clubs or other places. It's really a dead end. And most women know they are getting used and are Chad hunting

 

[romanstock]

Yeah I can't even Chadfish and masturbate over the convos anymore.

 

[Shahnameh]

Yeah I can't even Chadfish and masturbate over the convos anymore.

I didn't mean that it was a fair comparison, but most men are also socially awkward their. But yeah the options are not fair. And overall the experience for a man is not really worth it. Even if you are Chad you can just fuck better woman in the clubs or other places. It's really a dead end. And most women know they are getting used and are Chad hunting

Women don't really care about random men until they are in some way invested thats why OLD is such a waste of time you're just too disposable

You literally need to be her idea of a perfect option just to get responses / date , you could say something obscure in the wrong context and a woman on OLD would take extreme offence to it and ghost you

Walking on egg shells isnt a game you want to encourage with females