Online Dating is Making me Jaded

[bananacoffee]

It is trully a blackpilling experience, I chat with girls & they respond very fast. But the moment I suggest we meet up or go out somewhere, suddenly they ghost/unfriend/leave me on read

I arranged to meet up with this girl today on Tuesday, we were chatting the entire weekend and as soon as Tuesday rolls around suddenly she unfriends me on the day we are supposed to meet.

god i fuckin hate them

 

[uglybrownskinman]

Height?

 

[bananacoffee]

Height?

5'7 why, it doesnt matter on dating apps because i dont have my height on there

 

[ToDelirium]

Numbers game bhai

 

[bananacoffee]

Numbers game bhai

i talked to 6 diff girls past month and all did exact same strategy, chat + waste my time then ghost when its time for a date

 

[ToDelirium]

i talked to 6 diff girls past month and all did exact same strategy, chat + waste my time then ghost when its time for a date

Only 6 girls in a month just chatting, nvm you might be a truecel or maybe trying not to be a bluepilled redditor it might be your photos

 

[zygosmasher]

make your intentions more clear early on so you dont waste your time 99% of the foids will waste your time even if youre HTN because theyre simply on the app because theyre bored.

 

[bananacoffee]

make your intentions more clear early on so you dont waste your time 99% of the foids will waste your time even if youre HTN because theyre simply on the app because theyre bored.

how? do i msg them "hey lets fuck"

 

[bananacoffee]

bump

 

[zygosmasher]

how? do i msg them "hey lets fuck"

'what are you looking for?' 'what bought you onto tinder?' 'are you looking for anything serious?' theres 3 i just thought of off the top of my head. just try and see why shes on the app in the first place and just have a feel of where the conversation is headed. if its not headed in a personal direction aka facetiming, calling, setting up a date then it wont go far.

 

[bananacoffee]

'what are you looking for?' 'what bought you onto tinder?' 'are you looking for anything serious?' theres 3 i just thought of off the top of my head. just try and see why shes on the app in the first place and just have a feel of where the conversation is headed. if its not headed in a personal direction aka facetiming, calling, setting up a date then it wont go far.

all that shit is cope, ive had a great back and forth chat with this chick. she literally suggested "Lets meet Tuesday" after I suggested the weekend, and then when the day to meet actually came she unfriended me without saying a word

 

[zygosmasher]

all that shit is cope, ive had a great back and forth chat with this chick. she literally suggested "Lets meet Tuesday" after I suggested the weekend, and then when the day to meet actually came she unfriended me without saying a word

rare for that to happen, did you facetime or atleast call with her? if you didnt then it was pretty obvious that was gonna happen, most chicks will wanna facetime to see your face unfrauded and to see youre not a creep catfish. also if there was no adresses exchanged, times, or solid structured plans then it was also obvious to see