Online dating troubles

[aj44462]

this is how I look (ignore stupid crumb on my right lip corner), but I consider myself by all means conventionally attractive. I had been told so by the world I am 18 years old mixed, 6’0 and athletic. All things I has been told women find attractive, I’ve had no trouble scoring dates and getting laid especially irl and casual social media. But I make online dating profile and get absolutely zero matches except for ltf and obese women. Any advice? I’m genuinely loosing my shit I recently got out of a long term relationship and am struggling to get laid.

 

[worstgenetics]

dating apps are extremely competitive. if you aren't apart of the top 10%, you might as well not try. even if you are conventionally attractive, it will never be enough for foids that have access to whoever they want whenever they want.

 

[Bryce]

But I make online dating profile and get absolutely zero matches except for ltf and obese women.

That's because you are ethnic.

 

[mewzilla]

its because of the way you look

i thought it would become quite obvious after spending some time on this forum but colour me surprised i guess

 

[000fifi]

you're definitely above average but don't bother with dating apps.
it's a place where only like top 5-10% will succeed.
women have too much options to choose there and it's just not worth it bro.

 

[aj44462]

That's because you are ethnic.

its because of the way you look

i thought it would become quite obvious after spending some time on this forum but colour me surprised i guess

I know it has to be something but I don’t even know really what to change about myself. I’d usually rope but I have too much potential I feel

 

[mewzilla]

I know it has to be something but I don’t even know really what to change about myself. I’d usually rope but I have too much potential I feel

start with your nose. rhinoplasty and most nose procedures in general are low risk and moderately cheap. also easy to source. and in ur situation its a major flaw.

 

[aj44462]

That's because you are ethnic.

I am not really looking to attract Caucasian women, they’re a minority where I live. I genuinely only date other ethnic women or Italians because I myself am Italian and prefer to date within my culture

 

[aj44462]

start with your nose. rhinoplasty and most nose procedures in general are low risk and moderately cheap. also easy to source. and in ur situation its a major flaw.

Foids telling me the opposite, im black so idek if too much can really be done in the nose department but I’ll look into it

 

[mewzilla]

Foids telling me the opposite, im black so idek if too much can really be done in the nose department but I’ll look into it

you look above average, dont get me wrong. try hydrocortisone first, it might just be bulbous and not that much of a cartilage issue

 

[aj44462]

you're definitely above average but don't bother with dating apps.
it's a place where only like top 5-10% will succeed.
women have too much options to choose there and it's just not worth it bro.

Who the fuck are on these apps? Jordan Barrett? I guess it’s just college foids looking for rich 30 year old dudes

 

[000fifi]

Who the fuck are on these apps? Jordan Barrett? I guess it’s just college foids looking for rich 30 year old dudes

it's more of the fact that humans are naturally hypergamous and when you have a situation where the ratio on dating apps is sometimes as high as 1 man per 9 women it becomes really difficult for you.
even as someone above average.
when you meet women irl it's easier to stand out that in you had to compete with an entire large-sized city.

 

[aj44462]

it's more of the fact that humans are naturally hypergamous and when you have a situation where the ratio on dating apps is sometimes as high as 1 man per 9 women it becomes really difficult for you.
even as someone above average.
when you meet women irl it's easier to stand out that in you had to compete with an entire large-sized city.

You’re actually exactly right. It doesn’t take much to impress a woman in real life as it does on social media, for example a woman can see my car on social media and be completely unimpressed, whereas in real life she could sit in it and feel the horsepower and feel comfortable in the interior.

 

[000fifi]

it's more of the fact that humans are naturally hypergamous and when you have a situation where the ratio on dating apps is sometimes as high as 1 man per 9 women it becomes really difficult for you.
even as someone above average.
when you meet women irl it's easier to stand out that in you had to compete with an entire large-sized city.

omfg 9 man per 1 woman i fucked up real bad LOL