only girls i'm not attracted to treat me as the prize

[Deleted member 28927]

I guess I'm gl enough to receive ugly/average girls attention but not enough to make really attractive girls simp. I dated this cute girl for a year, i'd say we were looksmatched, and we had a really nice time together, but I ended up bored and started to slowly ghost her from my life. I live in a small city, download tinder and get like 60 matches during the first week and then 3/4 a day. not every girl is from my city, but all of them are from near and are at least average. average girls start conversation sometimes, but not very frequently. Before softmaxxing (think you guys call it like this), at high bf, bad hairstyle and bad skin, I was invisible for even average women, and only ugly ones wanted me. I don't really know why I'm typing it here, maybe someone can add something to my life experience, but probably not

 

[Deleted member 18582]

first sentence hit the nail on the head

 

[Deleted member 21735]

i never dated anything. im 27, went out with 5 girls who vaniashed after the first date

 

[Deleted member 28927]

first sentence hit the nail on the head

i think it's not very different with women, they receive attention but it's not from who they want so it's just boring

 

[Deleted member 18582]

i think it's not very different with women, they receive attention but it's not from who they want so it's just boring

its the canonical niceguy/badboy distinction, but it applies for girls too

niceguy/girl=nice, gives them attention, because they are lower status than him/her
badboy/girl=mean, does not give attention, because they are higher status than him/her

statusmatched people are made of 2 people who are equally nice and mean to each other

the best relationships begin in ambiguity, the perfect tug and pull

 

[Deleted member 28927]

i never dated anything. im 27, went out with 5 girls who vaniashed after the first date

from my 20 year old small city inhabitant experience, if you could get the dates it probably means something

 

[Deleted member 23472]

Yeah i fuck ltb-mtb and the most i got was a htb... I WANT A STACY

 

[Deleted member 28927]

its the canonical niceguy/badboy distinction, but it applies for girls too

niceguy/girl=nice, gives them attention, because they are lower status than him/her
badboy/girl=mean, does not give attention, because they are higher status than him/her

statusmatched people are made of 2 people who are equally nice and mean to each other

the best relationships begin in ambiguity, the perfect tug and pull

this last relationship i mentioned ended because i started to feel indifferent to her, and then she started being less emotionally commited too until a point where i started to ghost her and not want to meet in person

 

[Deleted member 21735]

from my 20 year old small city inhabitant experience, if you could get the dates it probably means something

yes i means that all of these girls wanted an emotional tampon

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Yeah i fuck ltb-mtb and the most i got was a htb... I WANT A STACY

i feel you

 

[ranierean]

Mumbai has 20M people, I'm not sure if that's a "small city"

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Mumbai has 20M people, I'm not sure if that's a "small city"

i wish

 

[mulattocel]

No BBC = average dating life

Sorry nigga

 

[Deleted member 28927]

yes i means that all of these girls wanted an emotional tampon

but how would a date work as an emotional tampon? sorry if it seems stupid but if I find a girl unattractive going on a date with her is torture

 

[Deleted member 19957]

Never ever did a single woman treat me as a prize

 

[Deleted member 21735]

but how would a date work as an emotional tampon? sorry if it seems stupid but if I find a girl unattractive going on a date with her is torture

girls dont think like that, they are sociopaths

 

[Deleted member 28927]

girls dont think like that, they are sociopaths

feel bad for ur experience bro, even though we are all nicknames on a screen

 

[Deleted member 21735]

feel bad for ur experience bro, even though we are all nicknames on a screen

thats how life is. not everyone is blessed with a face girls are attracted to

 

[Deleted member 28927]

No BBC = average dating life

Sorry nigga

this time i'm not shitposting i dont hate you as individuals unless when you group invade europe

 

[mulattocel]

this time i'm not shitposting i dont hate you as individuals unless when you group invade europe

Europe belong to us now

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Never ever did a single woman treat me as a prize

crazy how unfair this shit is

 

[Deleted member 19957]

crazy how unfair this shit is

Just get born lucky

 

[actualunderstander]

That means you lack game. Girls who are below your league will throw themselves at you, the ones who you truly are on par with will most of the time wait for you to make a move. Not all of the time, but a lot of the time. So if you aren't getting girls in your league you aren't confident enough, socially skilled enough, or are not putting urself out there enough. Ps tinder sucks

 

[Deleted member 28927]

That means you lack game. Girls who are below your league will throw themselves at you, the ones who you truly are on par with will most of the time wait for you to make a move. Not all of the time, but a lot of the time. So if you aren't getting girls in your league you aren't confident enough, socially skilled enough, or are not putting urself out there enough. Ps tinder sucks

can you explain your point? are you talking about my 'personality'?

 

[actualunderstander]

can you explain your point? are you talking about my 'personality'?

I'm saying that if you are only getting girls a bit below your league, it probably means you are getting whoever comes to you, because girls in your league usually wait for you to make the first move. Which means you lack confidence and game with girls. If you talked to them first , or talked to them right you would probably get girls in your league

 

[Deleted member 28927]

I'm saying that if you are only getting girls a bit below your league, it probably means you are getting whoever comes to you, because girls in your league usually wait for you to make the first move. Which means you lack confidence and game with girls. If you talked to them first , or talked to them right you would probably get girls in your league

I never start an interaction with anyone. i've always been the introverted kid. my friends started interacting with me first, the girls I had something with made the first move or very obvious that they wanted me. I'm always listening to music or reading books, and I know it makes socializing with me hard. but honestly, I don't really care. it worked my whole life and that's who I am. it wasn't something that happened to me and made me be like this, even as a little child I was very calm, hardly cried or yelled. I never read about this but I think it has correlation with genetics too, it's the only explanation I can find looking at my life. and if I have to put REALLY BIG EFFORT on a relationship, I don't want it anyways

 

[actualunderstander]

I never start an interaction with anyone. i've always been the introverted kid. my friends started interacting with me first, the girls I had something with made the first move or very obvious that they wanted me. I'm always listening to music or reading books, and I know it makes socializing with me hard. but honestly, I don't really care. it worked my whole life and that's who I am. it wasn't something that happened to me and made me be like this, even as a little child I was very calm, hardly cried or yelled. I never read about this but I think it has correlation with genetics too, it's the only explanation I can find looking at my life. and if I have to put REALLY BIG EFFORT on a relationship, I don't want it anyways

Yeah that's what I expected. Introverts live differently. That's ur answer. Nothing wrong with it, but try to ask girls out every once inawhile

 

[Deleted member 28927]

Yeah that's what I expected. Introverts live differently. That's ur answer. Nothing wrong with it, but try to ask girls out every once inawhile

thanks for explaining bro

 

[actualunderstander]

thanks for explaining bro

Np. True introverts will always be less inclined to talk to girls. When you see somebody who seems to be not as attractive as you, getting with more and hotter girls than you, u can be sure it's because of their extroversion

 

[actualunderstander]

thanks for explaining bro

Also, there are definitely girls you are really attracted to out there that would date you. Girls you see in your league, and even out of your league. But it's gonna take leaving your shell to get them. If you stay completely introverted, it's less likely you will get that girl out of league . It's not impossible, but less likely

 

[Fynasids dk]

I guess I'm gl enough to receive ugly/average girls attention but not enough to make really attractive girls simp. I dated this cute girl for a year, i'd say we were looksmatched, and we had a really nice time together, but I ended up bored and started to slowly ghost her from my life. I live in a small city, download tinder and get like 60 matches during the first week and then 3/4 a day. not every girl is from my city, but all of them are from near and are at least average. average girls start conversation sometimes, but not very frequently. Before softmaxxing (think you guys call it like this), at high bf, bad hairstyle and bad skin, I was invisible for even average women, and only ugly ones wanted me. I don't really know why I'm typing it here, maybe someone can add something to my life experience, but probably not

I guess I'm gl enough to receive ugly/average girls attention but not enough to make really attractive girls simp. I dated this cute girl for a year, i'd say we were looksmatched, and we had a really nice time together, but I ended up bored and started to slowly ghost her from my life. I live in a small city, download tinder and get like 60 matches during the first week and then 3/4 a day. not every girl is from my city, but all of them are from near and are at least average. average girls start conversation sometimes, but not very frequently. Before softmaxxing (think you guys call it like this), at high bf, bad hairstyle and bad skin, I was invisible for even average women, and only ugly ones wanted me. I don't really know why I'm typing it here, maybe someone can add something to my life experience, but probably not

That's what I fear too even if I looksmaxed there aren't any attractive women near me to begin with

 

[Deleted member 28927]

That's what I fear too even if I looksmaxed there aren't any attractive women near me to begin with

where you from

 

[Fynasids dk]

where you from

India and semi urban and semi rural place

 

[lifestyle21873]

where you from

i havent seen you, but if average girls approach you on like tinder or if you had girls show interest you IRL it probably means you are above average

 

[lifestyle21873]

because when I was in school I had some average girls adding my snap and talking to other people in school about me, but the good looking ones are not this easy

 

[Deleted member 28927]

i havent seen you, but if average girls approach you on like tinder or if you had girls show interest you IRL it probably means you are above average

yes, bro. i'm pretty sure i'm above average by life experience. i dont like to say this because people think its brag but i really would like to use here to share life experiences and debate about it. i've had 2 girls while being not very far from obese. they were slightly below average i'd say. then while still fat but way less i got a ltr with someone people here would call above average girl i think, maybe hormones changed my way of seeing her but no man would say shes below average. i think we were looksmatched, the dynamic of the relationship was nice until i got bored of her as i mentioned before. then i started to prettyboy max because i have the base. still kinda high bf, skin not perfect. but i think my eyes carry me to be honest, it's the only feature i had women talking about in public in front of me and friends. now my situation is the title of this thread

 

[lifestyle21873]

yes, bro. i'm pretty sure i'm above average by life experience. i dont like to say this because people think its brag but i really would like to use here to share life experiences and debate about it. i've had 2 girls while being not very far from obese. they were slightly below average i'd say. then while still fat but way less i got a ltr with someone people here would call above average girl i think, maybe hormones changed my way of seeing her but no man would say shes below average. i think we were looksmatched, the dynamic of the relationship was nice until i got bored of her as i mentioned before. then i started to prettyboy max because i have the base. still kinda high bf, skin not perfect. but i think my eyes carry me to be honest, it's the only feature i had women talking about in public in front of me and friends. now my situation is the title of this thread

no one really gets the model 10/10 to approach unless you are legit model tier looks

best that showed interest in me irl was probably 6/10 and I didn’t do anything

 

[Deleted member 28927]

India and semi urban and semi rural place

it's a different game, i have no idea bro. dont you find india girls cute?

 

[Deleted member 28927]

no one really gets the model 10/10 to approach unless you are legit model tier looks

best that showed interest in me irl was probably 6/10 and I didn’t do anything

i never approach, and the girl has to make it obvious for me. its just the way i am, i'd think its because i grew up fat and introverted but i always had friends and even some girls regardless

 

[lifestyle21873]

i never approach, and the girl has to make it obvious for me. its just the way i am, i'd think its because i grew up fat and introverted but i always had friends and even some girls regardless

me too