Only showing disinterest will satisfy hypergamy. Proof inside!

[Deusmaximus]

Of course mogging or at least looksmatchung the girl is absolute bread and butter. You need to be attractive without a doubt. But in 2025 you also HAVE to show as much disinterest as you can without losing her.
Girls will only want what they cant have.
Fuck being romantic or investing in conversations. Also forget about being sexual. Try and go to a date and dont give a single fuck about her liking you. The result can be magical.
I tried this last week with a bar date I went to in the evening. I was already tired from work and had to sleep early to be fit for the next day.
The whole date I neher tried to have any appeal to her. I never qualified myself or anyhow impressed her. Also I absolutely avoided anything sexual and zero compliments. After the date in front of the bar I immediately wanted to seperate and go home. She was shocked and said "why dont we take a walk together" I said okay lets do this. After 5min I said its cold and I have to leave now. She was even more shocked that I dont want to bring her home or make any move on her. Then when we finally said goodbye she was waiting for a kiss and I simply went for a hug. I could see the frustration and desperation in her face. She was surely thinking "am I not attractive enough?" "does he not want me?".
After the date I deleted her number and ignored her since 10 days.
Now all of a sudden she texts me "let me know if you want to come over sometimes".

Definitely she was thinking about this date 10x more than all of the dates where the guy came up with flowers and flirty techniqued to make her interested.

Summarized: hypergamy is only satisfied if she sees you as the desinterested price with zero needyness and desperation. It basically means you are already fucking.
Ofc bread and butter is still your attractiveness.

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[anthony111553]

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[gymcel64]

An interesting insight, thank you OP

 

[staton]

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[Daddy's Home]

(A real life story that I experienced a few years ago below, exactly on this topic, a must read for anyone interested in this topic)

At my first job ever, among other girls, I had this chick as a coworker..

She was one of the most NT chicks possible, a very traditional mentality in her way of thinking, did daily snap selfies with cringe NT filters and for stories on social media, got giga attention from every guy on social media, and looks in real life everywhere she went from boys our age to old men.. (she was about 5'6, kinda more or less fat, so pretty big boobs for her build)

The circumstance of the workplace, since we worked in teams, forced us to work together as a team, to go separately by 2 or 3 people to do things in a factory (we would take data from the blue collor workers who worked on the machines etc. so we were just walking from point A to point B, and back to the office, nothing more demanding)

For 2 fucking months this chick showed absolutely no sign that she liked me, even though we interacted and talked every day about work stuff, but most importantly, neither did I (I didn't like her, especially as a personality + I was in a worse period of my life, with a lot of stress, so I wasn't in the mood for anything, I went to work just waiting to go home as soon as possible and that was it)

The thing is, with the way I looked in general, and theoretically with what she was used to, I had to be the first guy (especially since we saw each other every day and interacted all the time) to giga simp for her, to start things with her, to want to get to know her better, etc.

But the fact that I wasn't doing that at all, I was keeping everything extremely nonchalant and professional, always looking at her face as if with disgust or hatred, totally disinterested, awakened something in her..

After 2 months, out of nowhere, she started fucking simp for me (we were from the same university, but other profiles, the same age, for both of us it was the first job, so I wasn't rich or some shit)

She started touching me with her fingers or hands on my arm and giving me sensual looks, asking me personal things about my life, about past relationships, if I was in a relationship, if I had brothers or sisters, what car I had or what car I wanted, etc. She started calling me more and more often to places where I wasn't normally obligated to go with her (to the cafeteria to eat together / somewhere in the factory where she was sent to go alone)

She would invite me for coffee etc. eventually when she saw that I was maintaining the same constant attitude and practically ignoring any change in her attitude, she would become more and more frustrated because she didn't know what was going on.. (this was making her become more and more attracted to me)

We went to a place with another colleague, they were left alone, I had to go somewhere else, and then come back to them. When I returned, on a metal bar there was written about the size of a palm, with chalk, my first name, and after that ''kiss me''. When they saw that I saw that writing, they just started laughing so softly and smiled a lot. being very shy..

Eventually, I was in the office, and she had her other colleagues who were ours (there were 2 of them) ask me, out of nowhere, when we were all just chilling, if ''I wanted a girlfriend, and that if the answer was yes, they had one for me'' (she basically thought I was too dumb/shy to understand her signals, so she went brute force)

(All this time, she was at another desk, watching our conversation from a distance, without saying anything.)

I told them no. Then they asked me, completely surprised, why not, because ''everyone wants a boyfriend/girlfriend'', and then they asked me if I already had a girlfriend, or what the reason was..

I said it's none of their business what my private life is, and that we are now at work, during the working day, not at some TV show about making couples (the fact that 2 other bosses/managers in their 30s-40s were also in the office with us at their PCs when they heard all this dialogue was also giga cringe)

They eventually left me alone, disappointed and somewhat laughing at my reaction and response..

The story is longer, but eventually I left that job, and I've never had any contact with these girls since then..

This is so that you understand how much it matters that you don't care about them, and give them the illusion that you are much more valuable compared to them, that you have much higher demands from life and from a potential partner, so that they feel the need to conquer you, even if they initially didn't see you as attractive or as a potential lover..

 

[anthony111553]

(A real life story that I experienced a few years ago below, exactly on this topic, a must read for anyone interested in this topic)

At my first job ever, among other girls, I had this chick as a coworker..

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She was one of the most NT chicks possible, a very traditional mentality in her way of thinking, did daily snap selfies with cringe NT filters and for stories on social media, got giga attention from every guy on social media, and looks in real life everywhere she went from boys our age to old men.. (she was about 5'6, kinda more or less fat, so pretty big boobs for her build)

The circumstance of the workplace, since we worked in teams, forced us to work together as a team, to go separately by 2 or 3 people to do things in a factory (we would take data from the blue collor workers who worked on the machines etc. so we were just walking from point A to point B, and back to the office, nothing more demanding)

For 2 fucking months this chick showed absolutely no sign that she liked me, even though we interacted and talked every day about work stuff, but most importantly, neither did I (I didn't like her, especially as a personality + I was in a worse period of my life, with a lot of stress, so I wasn't in the mood for anything, I went to work just waiting to go home as soon as possible and that was it)

The thing is, with the way I looked in general, and theoretically with what she was used to, I had to be the first guy (especially since we saw each other every day and interacted all the time) to giga simp for her, to start things with her, to want to get to know her better, etc.

But the fact that I wasn't doing that at all, I was keeping everything extremely nonchalant and professional, always looking at her face as if with disgust or hatred, totally disinterested, awakened something in her..
After 2 months, out of nowhere, she started fucking simp for me (we were from the same university, but other profiles, the same age, for both of us it was the first job, so I wasn't rich or some shit)

She started touching me with her fingers or hands on my arm and giving me sensual looks, asking me personal things about my life, about past relationships, if I was in a relationship, if I had brothers or sisters, what car I had or what car I wanted, etc. She started calling me more and more often to places where I wasn't normally obligated to go with her (to the cafeteria to eat together / somewhere in the factory where she was sent to go alone)

She would invite me for coffee etc. eventually when she saw that I was maintaining the same constant attitude and practically ignoring any change in her attitude, she would become more and more frustrated because she didn't know what was going on.. (this was making her become more and more attracted to me)

We went to a place with another colleague, they were left alone, I had to go somewhere else, and then come back to them. When I returned, on a metal bar there was written about the size of a palm, with chalk, my first name, and after that ''kiss me''. When they saw that I saw that writing, they just started laughing so softly and smiled a lot. being very shy..

Eventually, I was in the office, and she had her other colleagues who were ours (there were 2 of them) ask me, out of nowhere, when we were all just chilling, if ''I wanted a girlfriend, and that if the answer was yes, they had one for me'' (she basically thought I was too dumb/shy to understand her signals, so she went brute force)

(All this time, she was at another desk, watching our conversation from a distance, without saying anything.)

I told them no. Then they asked me, completely surprised, why not, because ''everyone wants a boyfriend/girlfriend'', and then they asked me if I already had a girlfriend, or what the reason was..
I said it's none of their business what my private life is, and that we are now at work, during the working day, not at some TV show about making couples (the fact that 2 other bosses/managers in their 30s-40s were also in the office with us at their PCs when they heard all this dialogue was also giga cringe)

They eventually left me alone, disappointed and somewhat laughing at my reaction and response..

The story is longer, but eventually I left that job, and I've never had any contact with these girls since then..

This is so that you understand how much it matters that you don't care about them, and give them the illusion that you are much more valuable compared to them, that you have much higher demands from life and from a potential partner, so that they feel the need to conquer you, even if they initially didn't see you as attractive or as a potential lover..

chatgpt

 

[laaltin]

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