Over protective parents leading to crippling social anxiety

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Anyone else hsve very over protective parents which cussed tou to not be able to go outside and do kid things as much which cussed you to not be used to social interactions and hsve tou social anxiety. Yes I was also bullied in middle school which just added on top of it but man. If I didn’t have over protective parents I could’ve done so many things instead of staying home all day developing social anxiety. And before you say it it’s not my fault. When I was a kid I would always say “his mom lets him do that” so and so and then they would reply sun gay shit like im not his mom.
 
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Stop crying and get a fucking job
 
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No ur just low T subhuman it’s not ur parents, it’s their fault they made you but it’s not environment but the fact that you’re weak as fuck and you should get your shit together
 
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No ur just low T subhuman it’s not ur parents, it’s their fault they made you but it’s not environment but the fact that you’re weak as fuck and you should get your shit together
How the fuck is that my fault? Your parents raising you is how you fucking develop and mature as a child it’s why these woman with no father figures are all sluts?
 
How the fuck is that my fault? Your parents raising you is how you fucking develop and mature as a child it’s why these woman with no father figures are all sluts?
No, women with no father figures are just genetically modified to be this way it comes from character, absent parent more likely lower IQ, no impulse control ect, that’s why they are sluts programmed
 
Stop crying and get a fucking job
True tate may be a grifter but he set a lot of faggot kids without fathers straight

Social anxiety isn't a disability like being ugly is

It's a problem you need to solve. Get to it
 
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True tate may be a grifter but he set a lot of faggot kids without fathers straight

Social anxiety isn't a disability like being ugly is

It's a problem you need to solve. Get to it
How do you solve it then
 
True tate may be a grifter but he set a lot of faggot kids without fathers straight

Social anxiety isn't a disability like being ugly is

It's a problem you need to solve. Get to it
Some people do not understand the importance of money.
 
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How do you solve it then
Exposure of course

Some mental habits like imagining everyone naked

Or more applicable acknowledging how little you give a fuck about anyone

And that they are not gonna give a fuck about you in any ordinary context unless you're REALLY WEIRD

I am really weird

And still nobody fucking cares, because im a considerate person and not unpleasant

The thing you have to do: be normal,

Is not that hard

The issue is your intense obsession with the idea, that it is.
 
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Some people do not understand the importance of money.
I'm mostly talking about the victimizing

"I got bullied when I was a kid "
"My mom didn't let me go with the other kids "

There are truth to these claims, but you get the point,

Tate stood for the opposite
 
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I'm mostly talking about the victimizing

"I got bullied when I was a kid "
"My mom didn't let me go with the other kids "

Tate stood for the opposite
who is tate nigga?
 
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Sounds like u were raised by very strict parents.
Me too, our situations may have been different though.

The way to break from this social anxiety is to expose yourself to the very thing you fear.
Go outside as much as possible, get a job where you are forced to talk to people. Try and make new friends at your school or hang out with more with your current friends. Join a sports club if you haven't already. Join a gym and talk to people there. Talk to random people on the street. Just a simple "Hello" or "compliment will suffice. And you must continuously do this.

You are nearing adulthood and you don't want to deal with social anxiety at that stage, its gonna mess your life up, trust me. You gotta make a bunch of effort, and depending on how severe it is, maybe turn to therapy if its trauma related.
 
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Sounds like u were raised by very strict parents.
Me too, our situations may have been different though.

The way to break from this social anxiety is to expose yourself to the very thing you fear.
Go outside as much as possible, get a job where you are forced to talk to people. Try and make new friends at your school or hang out with more with your current friends. Join a sports club if you haven't already. Join a gym and talk to people there. Talk to random people on the street. Just a simple "Hello" or "compliment will suffice. And you must continuously do this.

You are nearing adulthood and you don't want to deal with social anxiety at that stage, its gonna mess your life up, trust me. You gotta make a bunch of effort, and depending on how severe it is, maybe turn to therapy if its trauma related.
Dude I know but I don’t have any current friend everybody in my school already has settled down with their friends so I don’t know how I’m gonna make friends. But yeah il try the talk to random people on the street
 
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Dude I know but I don’t have any current friend everybody in my school already has settled down with their friends so I don’t know how I’m gonna make friends. But yeah il try the talk to random people on the street
I’ve mentioned a bunch of other stuff u can do to socialize/make friends… Did u read the rest??
 
Dude I know but I don’t have any current friend everybody in my school already has settled down with their friends so I don’t know how I’m gonna make friends. But yeah il try the talk to random people on the street
ts kid too real
 
I’ve mentioned a bunch of other stuff u can do to socialize/make friends… Did u read the rest??
Yeah bro but still ik scared to do it since I also have no hobbies I can’t join clubs. I can’t go to the gym rn because I need to get a license first. I have a job but it’s a very low social interaction one just aisle packibg and stuff
 
You are aware of the problem and know the solution.
 
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i didnt listen to them and did what i wanted. shit went real bad for some while almost destroyed my whole life or alr have idk. but atleast i have experiences now lmao
Anyone else hsve very over protective parents which cussed tou to not be able to go outside and do kid things as much which cussed you to not be used to social interactions and hsve tou social anxiety. Yes I was also bullied in middle school which just added on top of it but man. If I didn’t have over protective parents I could’ve done so many things instead of staying home all day developing social anxiety. And before you say it it’s not my fault. When I was a kid I would always say “his mom lets him do that” so and so and then they would reply sun gay shit like im not his mom.
 
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Yeah bro but still ik scared to do it since I also have no hobbies I can’t join clubs. I can’t go to the gym rn because I need to get a license first. I have a job but it’s a very low social interaction one just aisle packibg and stuff
just try at your school
 
And no don’t go talking to randoms on stranger try talking to someone familiar first. Do small steps first which are more likely to succeed to create a positive chain
 
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And no don’t go talking to randoms on stranger try talking to someone familiar first. Do small steps first which are more likely to succeed to create a positive chain
He knows exactly what hes supposed to do by the replies.
its on him atp
 
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Sounds like u were raised by very strict parents.
Me too, our situations may have been different though.

The way to break from this social anxiety is to expose yourself to the very thing you fear.
Go outside as much as possible, get a job where you are forced to talk to people. Try and make new friends at your school or hang out with more with your current friends. Join a sports club if you haven't already. Join a gym and talk to people there. Talk to random people on the street. Just a simple "Hello" or "compliment will suffice. And you must continuously do this.

You are nearing adulthood and you don't want to deal with social anxiety at that stage, its gonna mess your life up, trust me. You gotta make a bunch of effort, and depending on how severe it is, maybe turn to therapy if its trauma related.
Fr my brother is far more chronic than me and is quitting college and taking little action due to overwhelming inhibition

I'm similar but not dysfunctional

It becomes overwhelming, adulthood required you to get shit done when it needs to get done, can't put it off because you're scared or anxious...
 
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Just get prescribed benzos, use them in a very stressful day so your brain think that the situation isnt that bad
 

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