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Firstly, Merry Christmas to all.
Obviously, you can't ever escape your PSL. But you can do your best to overcome it.
In this post, I'll detail what strategies you should engage in, given your natural looks, to live the best life possible.
I often see many users complain that your happiness is entirely dictated by your looks. This is untrue.
Whilst looks matter a lot, playing your hand to the best of your ability is crucial. I detailed some critical paradigms in this post.
In this post, I will be detailing more empirical strategies.
What We Are All Chasing
People often discuss looks, money and status.
Beyond the worldly comforts that having material wealth provides - driving/taking Ubers (as opposed to public transport), living in a nice apartment in a safe area - we chase all three of these entities in order to achieve social fulfilment.
The closer you are to the top 1% in each of these areas, the better you will be treated.
Whilst changeable, your looks will always be capped by your natural potential (even with surgeries).
However, with regards to money and status, you are less bound by genetics. The ceiling is higher.
This is a concept that this man grasps exceptionally well:
I watched the original film version of Great Expectations yesterday. It's been eight years since I last saw it, and it dawned on me how many brutal truths it contains. I would highly recommend everyone to give it a watch.
In any case, Mr Jaggers, the character you see above, embodies using status/wealth to overcome extremely low PSL.
You see him speaking with immense confidence and often brusque rudeness to members of the Upper Class. He gets away with this and is treated with respect wherever he goes because he has mastered not only the art of acquiring wealth and clout but utilising it properly.
Obviously, we are not living in Victorian Era England, but the principles of the game remain the same.
Money
@Moneymaxxed made a fantastic post on how to make money, which you can find here.
I am not going to get into the process of getting wealthy, but rather, how to use what assets you have to increase your social capital - ultimately, making yourself valuable, so people want to spend time with you.
Do:
Don't:
You probably can't pull this off. Behave yourself. Rocky barely can.
This you can pull off. And yes, I know you're probably not as GL as Alex Costa. Dry your tears. The point is, even average-below average PSL guys improve themselves with this style.
Don't (Pt. 2):
Show, don't tell.
Status
Put simply, you should have as many of these going for you as possible:
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If you're mad at this post, you are probably lacking either financially/status wise. If your humour is lacking, watch some comedy. If you have no skills, begin working to acquire one.
There is always something productive you can do.
Best Wishes.
Obviously, you can't ever escape your PSL. But you can do your best to overcome it.
In this post, I'll detail what strategies you should engage in, given your natural looks, to live the best life possible.
I often see many users complain that your happiness is entirely dictated by your looks. This is untrue.
Whilst looks matter a lot, playing your hand to the best of your ability is crucial. I detailed some critical paradigms in this post.
In this post, I will be detailing more empirical strategies.
What We Are All Chasing
People often discuss looks, money and status.
Beyond the worldly comforts that having material wealth provides - driving/taking Ubers (as opposed to public transport), living in a nice apartment in a safe area - we chase all three of these entities in order to achieve social fulfilment.
The closer you are to the top 1% in each of these areas, the better you will be treated.
Whilst changeable, your looks will always be capped by your natural potential (even with surgeries).
However, with regards to money and status, you are less bound by genetics. The ceiling is higher.
This is a concept that this man grasps exceptionally well:
I watched the original film version of Great Expectations yesterday. It's been eight years since I last saw it, and it dawned on me how many brutal truths it contains. I would highly recommend everyone to give it a watch.
In any case, Mr Jaggers, the character you see above, embodies using status/wealth to overcome extremely low PSL.
- He runs a successful Law practice
- As a result, he is indispensable to many high status, high net-worth clients
You see him speaking with immense confidence and often brusque rudeness to members of the Upper Class. He gets away with this and is treated with respect wherever he goes because he has mastered not only the art of acquiring wealth and clout but utilising it properly.
Obviously, we are not living in Victorian Era England, but the principles of the game remain the same.
Money
@Moneymaxxed made a fantastic post on how to make money, which you can find here.
I am not going to get into the process of getting wealthy, but rather, how to use what assets you have to increase your social capital - ultimately, making yourself valuable, so people want to spend time with you.
Do:
- Invest in high-quality, nicely fitting clothes (and hygiene products)
- When someone owes you $10 or less, don't chase them up on it. Instead, when the topic of the debt comes up, say 'get me a drink next time I see you'. This shows that you value the relationship more than a few dollars. The higher status people you are dealing with, the more you will alienate yourself by obsessing over small amounts of money. This does not mean you allow someone to use you. If you find yourself repeatedly paying for drinks/food with an individual, understand that they are not the kind of person who values you/'gets it'. Make a note of this, and mentally 'next' them.
- When someone invites you to an event, bring something of value. A small pack of beers/bottle of spirit goes a long way. Again, you are not buying a litre of Grey Goose to gain approval, rather, you are demonstrating that you understand social graces, and, in addition to a good attitude and positive vibe, you are bringing something that facilitates fun (alcohol is the easiest win).
- Go to the highest-end restaurants/venues you can reasonably afford (don't live a lifestyle that is not aligned with your income). Don't break the bank, but remember a few things. First, a cover charge is a filtering mechanism for low-quality people. A club with a $30 entry fee will have, on average, more prosperous and beautiful people than the free entry, Thirsty Thursday deal-bar. When you go to nice places, post tasteful, subtle pictures/videos on your social media. You are solidifying your 'brand' as exclusive, with being try-hard. If you don't hate social media, as I do, skip this last point. But bear in mind that it is a status booster.
- Live in the best connected, safest, high-end place that is within your budget. 30% of your monthly income minimum (though, realistically, if you live in a major metropolitan city, this figure will probably have to be closer to 50%). Logistics are incredibly important - especially if you are often socialising/hosting gatherings, which you should be.
Don't:
- Buy every round of drinks to win approval.
- Wear flashy designer gear and think you'll look cool just because it's Gucci. Money can't buy taste. If you want to go for a more gaudy look, make sure you can pull it off/invest in a stylist.
You probably can't pull this off. Behave yourself. Rocky barely can.
This you can pull off. And yes, I know you're probably not as GL as Alex Costa. Dry your tears. The point is, even average-below average PSL guys improve themselves with this style.
Don't (Pt. 2):
- Verbalise your wealth/status. Subtlety is the key.
- Brag about your income/car/apartment etc. A lion doesn't have to prove why he is King of the Jungle, and a wealthy, successful individual shouldn't have to tell you how great they are
Show, don't tell.
Status
Put simply, you should have as many of these going for you as possible:
- Competence at a skill. Whether it be chess, soccer, coding or photography. Being known as 'that guy' in a specific field (even amongst your circles) is a status booster.
- Being the host (requires $). If you can hold events at your place, you should do so. This associates social gatherings with you - and you will constantly be invited to others' in turn, as they won't want to miss out on the 'scene' you have created.
- Humour - being witty and telling great stories will make you sought-after whenever there is a party. Laughter = value
- Outlandish (wild card) - there's that one person who always does crazy things, that people tell stories about. With the caveat that you shouldn't break the law or cause harm to others, engaging in low inhibition behaviours that you and your friends can reminisce on solidifies you as a vital member of any social circle, and creates a reputation.
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If you're mad at this post, you are probably lacking either financially/status wise. If your humour is lacking, watch some comedy. If you have no skills, begin working to acquire one.
There is always something productive you can do.
Best Wishes.
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