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Why do people sometimes look at me so much in public? I know it's normal to look at others here and there but I hate it and it makes me really uncomfortable. I hate it because I don't know why they're looking, what they're thinking. It makes me feel so ugly because I have to assume they're always thinking negatively about me and I don't know what exactly they're disgusted of. If not, they would smile but that rarely happens and if so, then only old people.
I hate it when women/girls sit next or in front of me in public transportation and look or stare at me. Especially when there are other free seats available. I never return looks, especially women's because I don't want anyone to assume I was delusionized about myself and took their attention the wrong way. You can never tell what's going on in someone's head while he or she's looking at you and I feel like a weird alien when they do. Like "what the hell is wrong with me? Just tell me to my face what you don't like and I could at least work on that!" All I want is to be treated and look like a normal person. That's it. The less attention (especially negative one) the better. To me it seems like I get more looks from women than other guys which are not being paid attention to much - but I'm not good-looking! So that's a bad thing. Usually ugly people are ignored and when they're not it should mean they're so ugly and weird-looking that others just can't look away. What can I do against that? I'm usually not shy at all, just introverted around strangers. I don't bother anyone. I don't need anyone's validation or (sexual) interest. I've been going my own way most of my life just fine. But feeling like an alien around others is depressing. I looksmax for myself only to be left alone and not treated like dirt anymore.
Anyone experiencing this as well? Any advise?
I hate it when women/girls sit next or in front of me in public transportation and look or stare at me. Especially when there are other free seats available. I never return looks, especially women's because I don't want anyone to assume I was delusionized about myself and took their attention the wrong way. You can never tell what's going on in someone's head while he or she's looking at you and I feel like a weird alien when they do. Like "what the hell is wrong with me? Just tell me to my face what you don't like and I could at least work on that!" All I want is to be treated and look like a normal person. That's it. The less attention (especially negative one) the better. To me it seems like I get more looks from women than other guys which are not being paid attention to much - but I'm not good-looking! So that's a bad thing. Usually ugly people are ignored and when they're not it should mean they're so ugly and weird-looking that others just can't look away. What can I do against that? I'm usually not shy at all, just introverted around strangers. I don't bother anyone. I don't need anyone's validation or (sexual) interest. I've been going my own way most of my life just fine. But feeling like an alien around others is depressing. I looksmax for myself only to be left alone and not treated like dirt anymore.
Anyone experiencing this as well? Any advise?
