People only want to punch up in dating and the blackpill makes me lonely

[XAYKO]

Personal story:
This year I was talking to a girl I found very beautiful and really liked her but ultimately ended up getting rejected by her - I’d say she was like an HTN? Idrk because she wasn’t very popular but very sweet and gl. However, before my attempt to be with her, she was also rejected by a “chad”.

To cope with my devastating rejection I asked out (as friends) a girl from my school who was always very nice to me, I hate saying this but she was essentially an LTN. We hung out twice in the summer and since school started she’s been hanging out with me a lot and I’ve done some semi-romantic things with her, but nothing that actually solidifies feelings like kissing. She likes me a lot and would be a great partner except for the fact that I can’t stop thinking about how I want someone prettier, who’s genetics would help mitigate my failos in my offspring.

This chain of rejection goes to show that people generally want to punch up in terms of looks/value and don’t really want to settle with someone whom they think they can do better than, which makes it sort of hard to find a partner with whom you’re both comfortable.

Now I feel very lonely (despite having lots of friends) and desperately wish I could get a girlfriend since I’ve gone my whole life without having one and experiencing true love (I’m 17 atm). Of course I could get an LTN girlfriend but that would DEMOLISH my self-worth and make me even more depressed and angry and I wouldn’t really “love” her. I wish I could just like the LTN girl but I can’t bring myself to do it and I blame the blackpill since I genuinely find her kind of cute. The fact that only girls I wouldn’t date have shown genuine interest in me fills me with grief and I wish I could just be appealing enough for the girl that I want. I had to try so hard to get any attention from the girl who rejected me and another guy could have had her like nothing. Maybe I just wasn’t her type since he’s blonde and blue eyed while I’m half ethnic.

I would say I’m MTN-HTN since I am lean with a few halos, am 6’4 and get decent attention from girls in both platonic and romantic ways.

Also I would say I’ve “glowed up” quite a bit since getting rejected so maybe she would want me now? Or maybe there’s no softmax you could do to change a girls mind and it’s truly all genetics, but that’s a post for another time

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

LTBs can be perfectly adequate to me. I don't share this opinion tbh,

A few pretty features and a soft voice would be enough for me nigguh

not insulting your take or even disagreeing, it is what it is

But it's based on your kids? Sounds org induced.

 

[truecopecell]

as long as they aren't fat or subhuman, i can find pretty much any girl attractive in some way. htb's and above are obviously great, but I'd be lying if I said I never had crushes on ltb's with a few specific features / personality traits that I liked. although I guess that just means I'd personally rate them higher in my mind based on my own preferences, even tho I know on a more broad scale they'd be rated lower.

 

[XAYKO]

as long as they aren't fat or subhuman, i can find pretty much any girl attractive in some way. htb's and above are obviously great, but I'd be lying if I said I never had crushes on ltb's with a few specific features / personality traits that I liked. although I guess that just means I'd personally rate them higher in my mind based on my own preferences, even tho I know on a more broad scale they'd be rated lower.

I’d also rate girls higher based on my own preferences but would you date a girl if it’d subject you to being looked down upon by other guys who recognize the low value of this girl?

 

[truecopecell]

I’d also rate girls higher based on my own preferences but would you date a girl if it’d subject you to being looked down upon by other guys who recognize the low value of this girl?

maybe if I was in highschool still, I think it's more brutal there... but tbh girls have a big halo. Like I said if she's a ltb and not fat, then I don't think you'll get as much heat. especially if they're high ltb. I get what you're saying tho... if I felt that i'd be looked down upon by other guys to a large degree, it may make me reconsider. but at the end of the day, if I like her then who gives a shit.

 

[CookieGuy]

maybe if I was in highschool still, I think it's more brutal there... but tbh girls have a big halo. Like I said if she's a ltb and not fat, then I don't think you'll get as much heat. especially if they're high ltb. I get what you're saying tho... if I felt that i'd be looked down upon by other guys to a large degree, it may make me reconsider. but at the end of the day, if I like her then who gives a shit.

High LTB-Low MTB is ideal

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

maybe if I was in highschool still, I think it's more brutal there... but tbh girls have a big halo. Like I said if she's a ltb and not fat, then I don't think you'll get as much heat. especially if they're high ltb. I get what you're saying tho... if I felt that i'd be looked down upon by other guys to a large degree, it may make me reconsider. but at the end of the day, if I like her then who gives a shit.

Tbh yeah unless gremlin witch face or she's obsese the boys will leave you alone

 

[XAYKO]

High LTB-Low MTB is ideal

??? Why ?

 

[CookieGuy]

??? Why ?

Cute and not insecure