people think im gay

[GabachoCopium]

6 guys liked me. or find me cute, i get compliments from random guys saying i look fine etc. but with woman?
nothing as i know of, probably like a 5+ or even more idk since im an aspie that doesnt talk to anyone, and never had an i lnteraction with a girl at my school.

 

[Patrick Star]

 

[LTNUser]

Well atleast they don't think like that here in India

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Well atleast they don't think like that here in India

yeah, instead of calling you cute and trying to get with you they just rape everything that walks

 

[LTNUser]

yeah, instead of calling you cute and trying to get with you they just rape everything that walks

Brutal

 

[GabachoCopium]

Well atleast they don't think like that here in India

JAI HIND

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Dudes walk up and compliment you or you been on grindr fella

 

[itzyaboyJJ]

so do you fuck men and women ?

 

[GabachoCopium]

so do you fuck men and women ?

I don’t swing that way nigga

 

[GabachoCopium]

Dudes walk up and compliment you or you been on grindr fella

The school go to is like 80% homo as fuck, like legit I don’t know what they are putting in the waters.

 

[n9wiff]

Nah bro I thought you's was a deported beaner

Got me weepin and shi

 

[GabachoCopium]

Nah bro I thought you's was a deported beaner

Got me weepin and shi

FUCKING RACIST PAJEET

WTF I THOUGHT WE WERE COOL

 

[itzyaboyJJ]

I don’t swing that way nigga

So you don’t fuck Anyone mhmmhm

 

[n9wiff]

FUCKING RACIST PAJEET

WTF I THOUGHT WE WERE COOL

That's what they told me on the cord bruv

 

[Nick.Harte]

If you’re the guy in your avi and you’re 5’9, then I can understand why only guys notice you

 

[GabachoCopium]

If you’re the guy in your avi and you’re 5’9, then I can understand why only guys notice you

Fr he looks like a fucking homosexual

 

[Nick.Harte]

Fr he looks like a fucking homosexual

Short and feminine looking = Faggot

 

[watah]

Because ur skin is probably brown and ur getting worshipped for it.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

If you’re the guy in your avi and you’re 5’9, then I can understand why only guys notice you

Brutally true

Narrow features long hair and seemingly skinny

Gay- Male gazed

 

[Nick.Harte]

Brutally true

Narrow features long hair and seemingly skinny

Gay- Male gazed

When you watch too much Tails on YouTube, you’re setting yourself up for a good pounding by the Football team of your high school.

“Muh pretty boys”

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

When you watch too much Tails on YouTube, you’re setting yourself up for a good pounding by the Football team of your high school.

“Muh pretty boys”

Im also undeniably gay-gazed

5"6, and long hair 🗣

good wide ish jaw, narrowish IPD
(high T traits)

my face isn't twinky at all though and I'm rather well built

 

[GabachoCopium]

.

 

[Entschuldigung]

Relatable but sometimes women compliment me
I don't know why gays want me tho? They think I will fuc them for free or something?
There's something, kind of a vibe you give off
Idk

 

[Godtis]

I posted my photos on 4chan a couple of times and there are always some retards who reply with some gay jokes. I don't understand why this happens.

 

[JohnBaza]

6 guys liked me. or find me cute, i get compliments from random guys saying i look fine etc. but with woman?
nothing as i know of, probably like a 5+ or even more idk since im an aspie that doesnt talk to anyone, and never had an i lnteraction with a girl at my school.

It sounds like you're grappling with feelings of being noticed, valued, and perhaps even misunderstood in your interactions with others, particularly in the context of relationships and self-image. I can sense some frustration in your words, as well as some insecurity or confusion about how you're perceived by others, especially women. Let's break down this situation with care, empathy, and a deeper perspective on the feelings you're expressing.

1. Self-Perception and External Validation​

You start by mentioning that "6 guys liked me" or find you cute, which seems to affirm some level of external validation or recognition from others. It's clear that you feel appreciated and acknowledged by these guys—whether through compliments or the simple act of them finding you attractive. However, when you shift the focus to your interactions with women, you mention feeling that there’s a stark difference, saying "nothing as I know of" in terms of recognition or attention from girls.


It’s important to acknowledge that external validation—especially when it comes from people around us, including romantic or sexual attention—can sometimes feel like the measure of our self-worth. Compliments from guys seem to affirm your value, yet there’s a sense that you don’t feel the same affirmation from women. This discrepancy in attention might make you feel uncertain or inadequate, even though your worth doesn’t depend on the attention of any one group of people. It’s okay to seek appreciation from others, but it's also crucial to realize that validation doesn’t define who you are.

2. Aspie (Autistic) Identity and Social Interaction​

You mention that you’re an aspie—a term often used to refer to someone with Asperger syndrome, a form of autism spectrum disorder (ASD). This adds a layer of complexity to your experience, as social interactions can sometimes be challenging or overwhelming for people on the spectrum. The difficulty you express about not having had any interactions with girls at school may stem from social barriers that are a part of ASD, such as challenges with initiating conversations, understanding social cues, or navigating the intricacies of nonverbal communication.


It’s completely understandable if these interactions feel more difficult for you. Many people with autism experience social anxiety or difficulties in social spaces, which can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation. It’s also important to note that people with ASD are just as capable of forming meaningful relationships as anyone else; it may take a different approach or a bit more time to build those connections.

3. Comparing Yourself to Others​

The fact that you seem to be comparing the attention you receive from guys to your lack of interactions with women highlights a natural, but sometimes frustrating, tendency we all experience: measuring our worth against the actions and behaviors of others. Social comparison, particularly when it comes to romantic attention or affection, can lead to feelings of inadequacy or frustration, especially when you feel like others are experiencing something that you are not. It seems like you're looking for reassurance that you matter just as much to women as you do to men, but the silence or lack of attention from women may make you feel overlooked.


However, it's essential to remember that value isn’t measured by quantity or who notices you—it’s about how you perceive yourself and how you interact with others. Social interactions, particularly those related to romantic attraction, are complex and aren’t always reflective of who you are as a person. Some people may not show interest right away, while others might not know how to express it at all. That’s not a reflection of your worth, but simply a part of the unpredictability of human interactions.

4. The Need for Meaningful Connection, Not Just Attention​

Your frustration may stem from the fact that attention and compliments are nice, but they don’t always lead to meaningful or fulfilling connections. Feeling admired by guys is one thing, but your desire seems to lean toward wanting authentic interactions with women. These types of connections often require patience, vulnerability, and sometimes stepping outside of your comfort zone. If you’re struggling with social anxiety or not knowing how to start these conversations, that’s okay. Many people face similar challenges, and there are ways to work through them—whether through therapy, social skills training, or simply taking small steps to engage with others.


It’s worth mentioning that romantic or meaningful relationships don’t always follow a clear path, and it’s not uncommon for people to feel disconnected from potential partners at certain points in their lives. It’s okay to take things slowly, and to understand that relationships often evolve with time, trust, and personal growth. Focus on nurturing your self-worth, developing connections with people you trust, and remembering that everyone has their own pace when it comes to socializing and relationships.

5. Embrace Your Unique Qualities​

You mentioned your identity as an aspie—and this is something that can sometimes be a strength, even if it feels challenging at times. The unique perspective you bring to social situations, your ability to think differently, and your distinct way of interacting with others can actually be qualities that help you form stronger, more meaningful relationships in the long term. It might require more patience, but it also means that you are capable of offering something special to others.


You may feel like you’re missing out on something because of the social difficulties you experience, but it’s important to remind yourself that your journey is your own. You have worth and potential that isn’t defined by the attention you receive from others. Don’t be too hard on yourself for not having the experiences or relationships that you may desire right now. Life is full of opportunities for growth, and everyone’s path unfolds in its own time.

Final Thoughts and Response​

It seems like you’re grappling with the feeling of being overlooked or undervalued, especially when it comes to your interactions with women. This is a common feeling, but it’s important to recognize that self-worth isn’t determined by external validation. Whether or not women show interest in you at school or in any given moment doesn’t diminish who you are as a person.


You're not alone in your struggles with social interaction, and it’s okay to take time to understand and improve your social skills. The fact that you’re aware of your challenges is the first step toward growth. You’re valuable, not because of the attention you receive from others, but because of who you are as an individual.


Rather than focusing on what you’re lacking, try to appreciate the unique qualities that you bring to the table, and remember that meaningful connections take time and often come when you least expect them. Focus on nurturing your own growth, both socially and personally, and be kind to yourself as you navigate through this process. Relationships, whether romantic or otherwise, should be built on mutual understanding, respect, and connection—and you are worthy of having those kinds of experiences when the time is right.

Opinions?
@2025cel @Methylphenidate @Xangsane @n9wiff

 

[GabachoCopium]

It sounds like you're grappling with feelings of being noticed, valued, and perhaps even misunderstood in your interactions with others, particularly in the context of relationships and self-image. I can sense some frustration in your words, as well as some insecurity or confusion about how you're perceived by others, especially women. Let's break down this situation with care, empathy, and a deeper perspective on the feelings you're expressing.

1. Self-Perception and External Validation​

You start by mentioning that "6 guys liked me" or find you cute, which seems to affirm some level of external validation or recognition from others. It's clear that you feel appreciated and acknowledged by these guys—whether through compliments or the simple act of them finding you attractive. However, when you shift the focus to your interactions with women, you mention feeling that there’s a stark difference, saying "nothing as I know of" in terms of recognition or attention from girls.


It’s important to acknowledge that external validation—especially when it comes from people around us, including romantic or sexual attention—can sometimes feel like the measure of our self-worth. Compliments from guys seem to affirm your value, yet there’s a sense that you don’t feel the same affirmation from women. This discrepancy in attention might make you feel uncertain or inadequate, even though your worth doesn’t depend on the attention of any one group of people. It’s okay to seek appreciation from others, but it's also crucial to realize that validation doesn’t define who you are.

2. Aspie (Autistic) Identity and Social Interaction​

You mention that you’re an aspie—a term often used to refer to someone with Asperger syndrome, a form of autism spectrum disorder (ASD). This adds a layer of complexity to your experience, as social interactions can sometimes be challenging or overwhelming for people on the spectrum. The difficulty you express about not having had any interactions with girls at school may stem from social barriers that are a part of ASD, such as challenges with initiating conversations, understanding social cues, or navigating the intricacies of nonverbal communication.


It’s completely understandable if these interactions feel more difficult for you. Many people with autism experience social anxiety or difficulties in social spaces, which can sometimes lead to feelings of isolation. It’s also important to note that people with ASD are just as capable of forming meaningful relationships as anyone else; it may take a different approach or a bit more time to build those connections.

3. Comparing Yourself to Others​

The fact that you seem to be comparing the attention you receive from guys to your lack of interactions with women highlights a natural, but sometimes frustrating, tendency we all experience: measuring our worth against the actions and behaviors of others. Social comparison, particularly when it comes to romantic attention or affection, can lead to feelings of inadequacy or frustration, especially when you feel like others are experiencing something that you are not. It seems like you're looking for reassurance that you matter just as much to women as you do to men, but the silence or lack of attention from women may make you feel overlooked.


However, it's essential to remember that value isn’t measured by quantity or who notices you—it’s about how you perceive yourself and how you interact with others. Social interactions, particularly those related to romantic attraction, are complex and aren’t always reflective of who you are as a person. Some people may not show interest right away, while others might not know how to express it at all. That’s not a reflection of your worth, but simply a part of the unpredictability of human interactions.

4. The Need for Meaningful Connection, Not Just Attention​

Your frustration may stem from the fact that attention and compliments are nice, but they don’t always lead to meaningful or fulfilling connections. Feeling admired by guys is one thing, but your desire seems to lean toward wanting authentic interactions with women. These types of connections often require patience, vulnerability, and sometimes stepping outside of your comfort zone. If you’re struggling with social anxiety or not knowing how to start these conversations, that’s okay. Many people face similar challenges, and there are ways to work through them—whether through therapy, social skills training, or simply taking small steps to engage with others.


It’s worth mentioning that romantic or meaningful relationships don’t always follow a clear path, and it’s not uncommon for people to feel disconnected from potential partners at certain points in their lives. It’s okay to take things slowly, and to understand that relationships often evolve with time, trust, and personal growth. Focus on nurturing your self-worth, developing connections with people you trust, and remembering that everyone has their own pace when it comes to socializing and relationships.

5. Embrace Your Unique Qualities​

You mentioned your identity as an aspie—and this is something that can sometimes be a strength, even if it feels challenging at times. The unique perspective you bring to social situations, your ability to think differently, and your distinct way of interacting with others can actually be qualities that help you form stronger, more meaningful relationships in the long term. It might require more patience, but it also means that you are capable of offering something special to others.


You may feel like you’re missing out on something because of the social difficulties you experience, but it’s important to remind yourself that your journey is your own. You have worth and potential that isn’t defined by the attention you receive from others. Don’t be too hard on yourself for not having the experiences or relationships that you may desire right now. Life is full of opportunities for growth, and everyone’s path unfolds in its own time.

Final Thoughts and Response​

It seems like you’re grappling with the feeling of being overlooked or undervalued, especially when it comes to your interactions with women. This is a common feeling, but it’s important to recognize that self-worth isn’t determined by external validation. Whether or not women show interest in you at school or in any given moment doesn’t diminish who you are as a person.


You're not alone in your struggles with social interaction, and it’s okay to take time to understand and improve your social skills. The fact that you’re aware of your challenges is the first step toward growth. You’re valuable, not because of the attention you receive from others, but because of who you are as an individual.


Rather than focusing on what you’re lacking, try to appreciate the unique qualities that you bring to the table, and remember that meaningful connections take time and often come when you least expect them. Focus on nurturing your own growth, both socially and personally, and be kind to yourself as you navigate through this process. Relationships, whether romantic or otherwise, should be built on mutual understanding, respect, and connection—and you are worthy of having those kinds of experiences when the time is right.

Opinions?
@2025cel @Methylphenidate @Xangsane @n9wiff

I LOVE YOU CHATGBT

 

[JohnBaza]

I LOVE YOU CHATGBT

bro I wrote that