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Bewusst
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The majority of people I know still look the same as they did 7, 8 or even 9-10 years ago when I went to school with them, especially females. When I check peoples' fb profile pages, many of them still look the same. If they were fat 7 years ago, they're still fat today. If they were attractive back then, they still are today (slight decrease in looks occasionally). Some have gained weight and got fat(ter). Dudes may have grown some stubble or got a new haircut but that's about it. Puberty and early adolescence didn't seem to completely change the way they look as in these "ugly duckling to attractive" stories you all have probably read or heard of. Most of them look completely the same as they did years ago. It's rare to see someone drastically improving the way they look, in most cases it's the opposite. Most don't even bother with losing fat, for whatever reason.
This is probably another factor for why nobody doesn't want to have to do anything with me anymore and why I "lost all my friends". Because I have looked so many different ways that people couldn't put me in any category. I was skinny, fat, skinny fat, muscular, glasses, no glasses, 120 lbs, 240+ lbs, all kinds of haircuts etc. I have been in constant physical (and mental) change my whole life. It seems to irritate people and repel them (sounds like a major cope, ik). I find people who don't change at all boring, for me change in general is essential. But maybe I'm just insane.
Anyone else notices the same? People you haven't seen for many years still looking the same? Why are people so afraid of change and judge you for changing (no matter if positively or negatively)?
This is probably another factor for why nobody doesn't want to have to do anything with me anymore and why I "lost all my friends". Because I have looked so many different ways that people couldn't put me in any category. I was skinny, fat, skinny fat, muscular, glasses, no glasses, 120 lbs, 240+ lbs, all kinds of haircuts etc. I have been in constant physical (and mental) change my whole life. It seems to irritate people and repel them (sounds like a major cope, ik). I find people who don't change at all boring, for me change in general is essential. But maybe I'm just insane.
Anyone else notices the same? People you haven't seen for many years still looking the same? Why are people so afraid of change and judge you for changing (no matter if positively or negatively)?