iblameerfan
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I don’t know how to describe my situation right now, so I wanted to ask for some help on how I can move forward in my love life.
Here’s a basic summary: I’m 15, about 1.78 meters tall, and I live in Germany. I’ve had two girlfriends, both blondes—one was Danish, and the other was German.
I’ve always heard on TikTok and from friends that having only one girlfriend makes you seem "soft" or unprepared, so I always made sure I had at least two girls in case one ended things. But right when I thought my second girlfriend was "the one" and I cut off all other girls, she decided to break up with me.
I was left with no one, and I didn’t think much about it until the last girl I removed kept messaging me, asking when I would add her back. She kept trying to get my attention, so I added her back, and we’ve been talking for about two days now.
The problem with this girl is, first of all, I think she’s more experienced in relationships than I am. I’ve only hugged and kissed a girl, but I think she’s done a lot more with her ex, if you know what I mean—though I’m not sure. I only know this because I saw a Snapchat of her and her ex on a bed, so I’m just guessing. Second, she has contact with a lot of boys, including my friends, classmates, and other people I know. Third, she often reposts about other boys and talks about them with me a lot, yet she still says she wants me, from what I’ve heard.
Right now, she’s the only girl I’m talking to, and I’m not in contact with anyone else. Do you have any advice or suggestions on what I should do?
My personal plan was, since she’s popular, to kind of showcase me and her being intimate. Then, when everyone who knows her, including the girls, sees us and gets to know, I would just dump her and use these new mutuals to contact new girls.
Here’s a basic summary: I’m 15, about 1.78 meters tall, and I live in Germany. I’ve had two girlfriends, both blondes—one was Danish, and the other was German.
I’ve always heard on TikTok and from friends that having only one girlfriend makes you seem "soft" or unprepared, so I always made sure I had at least two girls in case one ended things. But right when I thought my second girlfriend was "the one" and I cut off all other girls, she decided to break up with me.
I was left with no one, and I didn’t think much about it until the last girl I removed kept messaging me, asking when I would add her back. She kept trying to get my attention, so I added her back, and we’ve been talking for about two days now.
The problem with this girl is, first of all, I think she’s more experienced in relationships than I am. I’ve only hugged and kissed a girl, but I think she’s done a lot more with her ex, if you know what I mean—though I’m not sure. I only know this because I saw a Snapchat of her and her ex on a bed, so I’m just guessing. Second, she has contact with a lot of boys, including my friends, classmates, and other people I know. Third, she often reposts about other boys and talks about them with me a lot, yet she still says she wants me, from what I’ve heard.
Right now, she’s the only girl I’m talking to, and I’m not in contact with anyone else. Do you have any advice or suggestions on what I should do?
My personal plan was, since she’s popular, to kind of showcase me and her being intimate. Then, when everyone who knows her, including the girls, sees us and gets to know, I would just dump her and use these new mutuals to contact new girls.
