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UnevenNeckshi
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Now lemme get this one thing out the way so the comments ain't full of people misunderstanding my point: Yes personality doesn't make up for being hideous and yes personality doesn't really matter if you're a chad as most girls will still fuck you regardless and a decent amount would be happy to be in a relationship with you regardless. My points don't apply to the extremes of the hideous dude who's cooked and the chad who could pull girls just by existing, they apply to average looking guys who aren't cooked but aren't good looking enough that girls would wanna fuck them off looks alone.
Personality can attract women, but the personality traits that attract women aren't the stereotypical bluepill stuff you've been told like "be nice and be yourself", the average girl has plenty of dudes who are "nice" to them, that alone doesn't mean shit. What does matter is having an interesting personality, now what constitutes an interesting personality depends on the type of girl, for example a girl into reading will like a dude who reads books as well, a girl into partying and drugs will like drug dealers etc. so there is no one size fits all way you can act or easy personality guide that will attract plenty of girls to you. When this is combined with status which is displayed by posting your interesting personality on social media to a decently big following/audience it becomes even more powerful, for example I've seen dudes who are ugly and fat to the point where if I posted them here I'm sure everyone would be calling them LTN or sub5 and saying it's over for them yet they still pull plenty of good looking girls, why? Because they regularly post interesting stuff on their snap stories and have hundreds of followers on all their social media platforms, these things indicate two things which makes girls interested: 1. if he has lots of followers despite not being a celeb surely he's a popular guy that's fun to be around and 2. If he regularly posts on his story he's regularly doing different cool things which makes him mysterious and for some odd reason women don't like predictability. I'm not selling you some feel good "just be interesting bro" bs bc as I've already said, what makes you interesting varies from girl to girl but the idea that personality is completely irrelevant isn't true unless you're on one of the extreme ends of attractiveness, if you aren't then personality (especially when combined with perceived status/popularity) can be the difference maker.
Personality can attract women, but the personality traits that attract women aren't the stereotypical bluepill stuff you've been told like "be nice and be yourself", the average girl has plenty of dudes who are "nice" to them, that alone doesn't mean shit. What does matter is having an interesting personality, now what constitutes an interesting personality depends on the type of girl, for example a girl into reading will like a dude who reads books as well, a girl into partying and drugs will like drug dealers etc. so there is no one size fits all way you can act or easy personality guide that will attract plenty of girls to you. When this is combined with status which is displayed by posting your interesting personality on social media to a decently big following/audience it becomes even more powerful, for example I've seen dudes who are ugly and fat to the point where if I posted them here I'm sure everyone would be calling them LTN or sub5 and saying it's over for them yet they still pull plenty of good looking girls, why? Because they regularly post interesting stuff on their snap stories and have hundreds of followers on all their social media platforms, these things indicate two things which makes girls interested: 1. if he has lots of followers despite not being a celeb surely he's a popular guy that's fun to be around and 2. If he regularly posts on his story he's regularly doing different cool things which makes him mysterious and for some odd reason women don't like predictability. I'm not selling you some feel good "just be interesting bro" bs bc as I've already said, what makes you interesting varies from girl to girl but the idea that personality is completely irrelevant isn't true unless you're on one of the extreme ends of attractiveness, if you aren't then personality (especially when combined with perceived status/popularity) can be the difference maker.
