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Being a sex-starved teen in the midst of puberty, I was pretty desperate, although I've had some women take interest in me, I didn't really take it serious at the time as they went to different schools and I didn't have a car at the time this is back when I was 15 and having success on snapchat by utilitizing quick add for a ego boost) , so I tried to appeal to a couple of girls that I found attractive in my school. To try and do that I started joining in on convos that happened at my table until I realized it was all pointless if they don't find you attractive and that "personality>looks" is bullshit.
After a couple of months of sitting near women at a table in my math class, I realized that personality doesn't matter. All the gossiping and bickering about different types of men was crazy! I heard some of the ugliest fuckers in our school get berated monstrously for a casual "hello/hey", while a htn would say some bold shit. For example, one time this htn that I kinda know asked a girl that sits next to me if she's doing anything this weekend, and if not, he wants to cuddle with her and watch a movie.
When I tell you these girls were fucking glazing the shit out of him, calling him handsom, saying that he's "ian" lookalike (a musician i forgot if hes a rapper/singer and Idk what most of you would classify ian to be but he's more handsome then ian imo)
I then and there realized that women under the ages of 22 don't give a fuck about personality for the most part, only looks. They'll only take personality into account once they get pumped and dumped by chad continuously and then realize that they need the "nice guy" to build a future with because chad only wants them for sex.
After all this occurred, I started to limit what I say and now only talk when necessary.
some context
(this occured last year when I was a sophmore in hs)
(btw: our teacher only changed seats 2x a year but I sat next to mostly women year-round)
(No this was not what led me to believing personality doesn't matter, there's tons of other factors but I'd rather not list them all)
After a couple of months of sitting near women at a table in my math class, I realized that personality doesn't matter. All the gossiping and bickering about different types of men was crazy! I heard some of the ugliest fuckers in our school get berated monstrously for a casual "hello/hey", while a htn would say some bold shit. For example, one time this htn that I kinda know asked a girl that sits next to me if she's doing anything this weekend, and if not, he wants to cuddle with her and watch a movie.
When I tell you these girls were fucking glazing the shit out of him, calling him handsom, saying that he's "ian" lookalike (a musician i forgot if hes a rapper/singer and Idk what most of you would classify ian to be but he's more handsome then ian imo)
I then and there realized that women under the ages of 22 don't give a fuck about personality for the most part, only looks. They'll only take personality into account once they get pumped and dumped by chad continuously and then realize that they need the "nice guy" to build a future with because chad only wants them for sex.
After all this occurred, I started to limit what I say and now only talk when necessary.
some context
(this occured last year when I was a sophmore in hs)
(btw: our teacher only changed seats 2x a year but I sat next to mostly women year-round)
(No this was not what led me to believing personality doesn't matter, there's tons of other factors but I'd rather not list them all)
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