thecel
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The STRENGTH that looks matter is greater than the STRENGTH that personalities matter. The NUMBER OF SITUATIONS in which personalities matter is greater than the NUMBER OF SITUATIONS in which looks matter.
In situations in which people don’t see your face, like on Internet forums such as this, personality matters. In a few circles, you may even get more respect for being ugly—imagine a hardcore club of subhuman incels who respect each other for being the biggest truecels. But nowhere does personality not matter. Say you’re a software developer who contributes to a project on GitHub, and the project’s other developers never saw your face. Your appearance does not matter, but your personality matters.
Personality matters so much that it’s more depressing than the looks blackpill is. In job interviews, you get declined if your personality sucks, no matter how great your skills are. In school, teachers and professors write bad letters of recommendation about you if your personality sucks, even if you’re the smartest and highest-achieving student. In online involuntary celibate communities, personalities are the difference between “forum main characters” and utter outcasts who struggle to get views and replies.
It’s all about “vibe,” which is extremely elusive and near impossible to precisely explain how to achieve.
The most brutal thing is that personalities are MORE DIFFICULT TO CHANGE than looks are. Ugly people can just get surgeries. Short people can just get surgeries. But for people whose personalities are unlikable to others, years of hard work and self-improvement are the only way. And you can’t really change the ways your brain naturally is, so the personality-related changes that you desire can be impossible to obtain.
In situations in which people don’t see your face, like on Internet forums such as this, personality matters. In a few circles, you may even get more respect for being ugly—imagine a hardcore club of subhuman incels who respect each other for being the biggest truecels. But nowhere does personality not matter. Say you’re a software developer who contributes to a project on GitHub, and the project’s other developers never saw your face. Your appearance does not matter, but your personality matters.
Personality matters so much that it’s more depressing than the looks blackpill is. In job interviews, you get declined if your personality sucks, no matter how great your skills are. In school, teachers and professors write bad letters of recommendation about you if your personality sucks, even if you’re the smartest and highest-achieving student. In online involuntary celibate communities, personalities are the difference between “forum main characters” and utter outcasts who struggle to get views and replies.
It’s all about “vibe,” which is extremely elusive and near impossible to precisely explain how to achieve.
The most brutal thing is that personalities are MORE DIFFICULT TO CHANGE than looks are. Ugly people can just get surgeries. Short people can just get surgeries. But for people whose personalities are unlikable to others, years of hard work and self-improvement are the only way. And you can’t really change the ways your brain naturally is, so the personality-related changes that you desire can be impossible to obtain.
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