Please help.

[dontknow63465]

My whole life I was social. I wasnt ever like an incel or introvert or smth like that.

I had and I have a lot of friends and even like really good close friends.

But for some reason I never felt that I have a real deep human connection with anyone.

Like I did all of the things people say people do when building a deep connection but I always only felt it for few hours and then nothing.

I am 16 if that changes something.

And I am not sub5 or smth, average looking guy with bit above average physique.

Idk if I am the only one who feels like that.

I always thought that looking better, having bigger muscle and more money is the part I am missing since everytime I got better at these my social life improved.

But I am feeling like that isnt the problem anymore.

Please help. Or just say what you think.

 

[johnwick16]

Deep connection isn't something to chase, it comes with time and shouldn't be rushed. Learn how to ask questions and don't try to make conversation about giving yourself the opportunity to reveal something and say what you want.
What worked for me is learning some basic psychology and manipulation so I get a better overall understanding of conversation.
Maybe you're just low on IQ and didn't improve on your knowledge, maybe what worked years ago doesn't work anymore.
What worked for me is ACTUALLY not caring about anything and never revealing anything about myself, just being there for others and helping them, eventually, if it's the right people, they will care too and show it

 

[dontknow63465]

I think this can be true, thanks man, really mean it.

 

[Softmax09]

My whole life I was social. I wasnt ever like an incel or introvert or smth like that.

I had and I have a lot of friends and even like really good close friends.

But for some reason I never felt that I have a real deep human connection with anyone.

Like I did all of the things people say people do when building a deep connection but I always only felt it for few hours and then nothing.

I am 16 if that changes something.

And I am not sub5 or smth, average looking guy with bit above average physique.

Idk if I am the only one who feels like that.

I always thought that looking better, having bigger muscle and more money is the part I am missing since everytime I got better at these my social life improved.

But I am feeling like that isnt the problem anymore.

Please help. Or just say what you think.

I even had a gf for 1,5 years and didn’t feel a REALLY deep connection to her.
I don’t even know if I can atp, it really makes me sad, I want to have deep connections too