POLL : would u rather ‘be hated BUT admired’ OR ‘be loved but dismissed’

[PsychoDsk]

Genuinely interesting question.

In my own personal experience I’m hated by almost half of my hometown, for good reason tho. I’m an absolute brat and a dickhead. I’ve been trying to be more humble but it’s practically impossible since everyone already formed an opinion of me.
Atleast nigas are mirin me, I’ve heard from a few good friends that people they know hate me but still look up to me or are jealous.

Idk if u should take that as a compliment or a sign to be more humble and friendly. I mean when you’re despised by someone, those feelings usually stem from inferiority while having positive feelings related to you stem from just viewing you as equal to them.

I genuinely can’t figure out what’s better. When u ask someone a favor for example, is it better they complete ur favor by just liking you, or out of fear?

Even one of my bestfriends told me he wouldn’t ever talk to a girl I talked to because he was afraid I was gonna beat him up. Like what??? I’ve never been that kinda person and people just assume the worst about me for no reason at all, I’d probably just weep in my bed on diddy

What’s ur guys’ opinion on this. Would u rather be loved but viewed as equal, or hated but viewed as ‘superior’

 

[Swarthy Knight]

I’d rather be KD than some random beloved NPC role player

 

[Jué]

Love does not exist

 

[hyperbeast]

Very hard question. im leaning towards hated but admired but im not sure why

 

[PsychoDsk]

Love does not exist

Alr mr philosopher, remember girls had this thought at 5 years old. Time to hang up the boots and say gn

 

[PsychoDsk]

Very hard question. im leaning towards hated but admired but im not sure why

Right?
I think it’s cuz of the media we watch nowadays. The villains are usually the cool ones, even in just politics these days. The assholes usually have the biggest influence or respect while good goys are seen as inferior.

Think it has something to do with our innate nature

 

[PsychoDsk]

Interesting
Elaborate

 

[Jué]

Alr mr philosopher, remember girls had this thought at 5 years old. Time to hang up the boots and say gn

In science, love doesn't exist, there's always an external factor

There's no such thing as a "loving connection" without a factor like Looks, Status or Money

When a person sees that someone else offers more than their current partner, they'll end up leaving their partner

So the word "love" doesn't even make sense

 

[htbslayeer]

Nigga are we even on a BP forum? Hated but admired jfl, life is quite literally only about mogging, the rest is cope

 

[hyperbeast]

Right?
I think it’s cuz of the media we watch nowadays. The villains are usually the cool ones, even in just politics these days. The assholes usually have the biggest influence or respect while good goys are seen as inferior.

Yeah i'd reckon most people, normies included, could name more serial killers than heroes, they seem more noteworthy somehow.

Think it has something to do with our innate nature

Men have always liked to mog

 

[PsychoDsk]

In science, love doesn't exist, there's always an external factor

There's no such thing as a "loving connection" without a factor like Looks, Status or Money

When a person sees that someone else offers more than their current partner, they'll end up leaving their partner

So the word "love" doesn't even make sense

Well yea I fully agree but we’re not talking about love here. There’s a big difference between being liked, loved and hated.

Maybe I should have written liked rather than loved

 

[PsychoDsk]

Nigga are we even on a BP forum? Hated but admired jfl, life is quite literally only about mogging, the rest is cope

What a stupid observation is this.
Let me ask u the same question in ‘BP terms’

Ezra miller vs tom welling

An evil chad or a humble friendly chad

 

[octoo]

If they love you, they can't dismiss you.

 

[PsychoDsk]

If they love you, they can't dismiss you.

Well yea I fully agree but we’re not talking about love here. There’s a big difference between being liked, loved and hated.

Maybe I should have written liked rather than loved