
disillusioned
Fuchsia
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My wife has had more than 50 sexual partners – so why won’t she sleep with me?
After 12 years together, she told me how many people she had slept with before we met. It has made it harder for me to accept how rarely we have sex
"I’ve been with my wife for 12 years. She recently admitted she has had many more sexual partners than me, more than 50 for sure, but it could be 100. She has only had a couple of long-term relationships. I didn’t think the number bothered me: I didn’t know her then, it was before we got together and we can’t change the past. However, we hardly ever have sex (only once every three to four months) and her sex drive dropped off a cliff after our first child was born almost 10 years ago."
I've said it before, and I'm saying it again: The vast majority of married normies are just a different variant of incel. Women do not want them and only settled for children and money. Getting pathetic obligation sex once every several months is barely an upgrade from being incel, and in some ways is even worse since you still have to put up with all the bullshit that comes with being married, whereas 'pure' incels don't. Cheating is also probably very common.
I'd unironically rather be incel than stuck in the typical betabucks 'relationship' srs.