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Seligman’s learned helplessness explains exactly why the "height pill" hits so hard. In his experiments, dogs were shocked with no way to escape. They tried at first—fighting, struggling—but eventually stopped. Even when they were later given a way out, they just lay there, accepting the pain. They’d learned it didn’t matter what they did. That’s exactly how it works for men and height.
Height is one of the few things that matter most to women, but it’s something a man can’t change. It’s genetic. Fixed. No gym, no success, no charm can undo it. Shorter men face rejection or are ignored, over and over, for something entirely outside their control. After enough of this, they stop trying. Why bother? No effort feels like it will ever be enough to compensate for that missing inches.
This is how depression forms. You try, and you fail. Then you try harder, and you fail again. Eventually, you stop trying. You accept that no matter how good you are in other areas, you’ll never measure up. Height becomes a cage—a constant reminder that society values something you can’t ever change. It’s not just about feeling inadequate. It’s about realizing that one of the most important things is set in stone, and the world doesn’t care how much it destroys you.
Height is one of the few things that matter most to women, but it’s something a man can’t change. It’s genetic. Fixed. No gym, no success, no charm can undo it. Shorter men face rejection or are ignored, over and over, for something entirely outside their control. After enough of this, they stop trying. Why bother? No effort feels like it will ever be enough to compensate for that missing inches.
This is how depression forms. You try, and you fail. Then you try harder, and you fail again. Eventually, you stop trying. You accept that no matter how good you are in other areas, you’ll never measure up. Height becomes a cage—a constant reminder that society values something you can’t ever change. It’s not just about feeling inadequate. It’s about realizing that one of the most important things is set in stone, and the world doesn’t care how much it destroys you.