Question about uni romance

[TylerDurden2]

Hey guys, so I like this girl from my class. She broke up with her boyfriend this week. I think I’m building a nice connection with her, but I can’t help feeling anxious about whether she likes me or not. She’s extroverted and nice to all the guys, so I don’t want to feel special about something she does with everyone.

I want to give it a try, and I often get complimented by people in class who say I’m attractive and all that. But every time I think about making a move, I start focusing on my flaws, my loose eyelid, my badly shaped nose, my asymmetrical jaw, my protruding ears. I just feel insufficient.

I want her to like me, but there are other handsome guys in class who’ll probably go for her too. Any advice to aproach her? How do I overcome feeling bad about myself when I think about giving it a try?

Serious answers only, please and thanks.

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

>uni
>romance

it's over

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Ask @Debetro

 

[Informationcapitali]

I just ldar nowadays. Why even go outside. I'll get hurt by people. This is life

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

Ask @Debetro

You're so old in your uni history class you just wrote down what you were doing

 

[arge]

Hey guys, so I like this girl from my class. She broke up with her boyfriend this week. I think I’m building a nice connection with her, but I can’t help feeling anxious about whether she likes me or not. She’s extroverted and nice to all the guys, so I don’t want to feel special about something she does with everyone.

I want to give it a try, and I often get complimented by people in class who say I’m attractive and all that. But every time I think about making a move, I start focusing on my flaws, my loose eyelid, my badly shaped nose, my asymmetrical jaw, my protruding ears. I just feel insufficient.

I want her to like me, but there are other handsome guys in class who’ll probably go for her too. Any advice to aproach her? How do I overcome feeling bad about myself when I think about giving it a try?

Serious answers only, please and thanks.

she will come to u when u don't care about her...hypergamy

 

[optimisticzoomer]

You're so old in your uni history class you just wrote down what you were doing

What?

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

What?

okay sorry

 

[TylerDurden2]

she will come to u when u don't care about her...hypergamy

I dont want to not care about her. I like her bro

 

[TylerDurden2]

>uni
>romance

it's over

I want to give it a try honestly, i dont care about getting hurt in the process

 

[VohnnyBoy]

Hey guys, so I like this girl from my class. She broke up with her boyfriend this week. I think I’m building a nice connection with her, but I can’t help feeling anxious about whether she likes me or not. She’s extroverted and nice to all the guys, so I don’t want to feel special about something she does with everyone.

I want to give it a try, and I often get complimented by people in class who say I’m attractive and all that. But every time I think about making a move, I start focusing on my flaws, my loose eyelid, my badly shaped nose, my asymmetrical jaw, my protruding ears. I just feel insufficient.

I want her to like me, but there are other handsome guys in class who’ll probably go for her too. Any advice to aproach her? How do I overcome feeling bad about myself when I think about giving it a try?

Serious answers only, please and thanks.

holy fuck man you’re literally me
Idk how to help you tho I’ve accepted I’m a failure and just rot

 

[DoctorPMA]

She broke up with her boyfriend this week

bruh...

Only good for fwb

 

[Troglodyte452]

hitting on a girl that broke up 7 days ago is crazy

 

[arge]

I dont want to not care about her. I like her bro

well u said it ur self, alot of people in ur class like her too, and u are not good looking enough to stand out...u gotta do sum different to be different. if u ask me, don't give her that much attention or just give the right amount, so will grave ur attention, try ignoring her here and there, yk keep it light, don't make it obv that u want her because that would feed her hypergamy, u gotta act like u're better than her

 

[Claymoreboy0118]

Don't even bother. Girls at uni are demons. If you don't want to spend the nights crying your eyes out don't even talk to one.

 

[TylerDurden2]

hitting on a girl that broke up 7 days ago is crazy

Hahahahha ik thats why Im asking for advice bro. Cause there will be other guys who go for her so I have to be QUICK

 

[TylerDurden2]

bruh...

Only good for fwb

Why bro? She had a 2 year relationship

 

[TylerDurden2]

well u said it ur self, alot of people in ur class like her too, and u are not good looking enough to stand out...u gotta do sum different to be different. if u ask me, don't give her that much attention or just give the right amount, so will grave ur attention, try ignoring her here and there, yk keep it light, don't make it obv that u want her because that would feed her hypergamy, u gotta act like u're better than her

I just assume that alot of people like her cause shes the type of girl to be desired if yk what i mean. I think if i act too nonchalant another guy will take my place yk

 

[DoctorPMA]

Why bro? She had a 2 year relationship

I'm not talking about that. Have you ever gone through a breakup?

 

[TylerDurden2]

I'm not talking about that. Have you ever gone through a breakup?

No bro. Explain pls

 

[DoctorPMA]

No bro. Explain pls

After a breakup it can take her months to recover. She can not just forget her bf that she has been with and erase all the memories. Imagine spending 2 years with someone and then that person is gone. That feeling is horrible. She is either gonna go for rebounds or spend time for herself to heal and get over her ex.

U sound like u don't wanna be a rebound so even if she accepts u and goes out with u she will be constantly thinking about him and comparing him to you. Thats what you will be dealing with.

 

[kana]

Hey guys, so I like this girl from my class. She broke up with her boyfriend this week. I think I’m building a nice connection with her, but I can’t help feeling anxious about whether she likes me or not. She’s extroverted and nice to all the guys, so I don’t want to feel special about something she does with everyone.

I want to give it a try, and I often get complimented by people in class who say I’m attractive and all that. But every time I think about making a move, I start focusing on my flaws, my loose eyelid, my badly shaped nose, my asymmetrical jaw, my protruding ears. I just feel insufficient.

I want her to like me, but there are other handsome guys in class who’ll probably go for her too. Any advice to aproach her? How do I overcome feeling bad about myself when I think about giving it a try?

Serious answers only, please and thanks.

yea man … romance only exists in high-school … uni is every foids whore phase

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

6'3 only not kidding every single "couple" I see 6'3+

 

[TylerDurden2]

After a breakup it can take her months to recover. She can not just forget her bf that she has been with and erase all the memories. Imagine spending 2 years with someone and then that person is gone. That feeling is horrible. She is either gonna go for rebounds or spend time for herself to heal and get over her ex.

U sound like u don't wanna be a rebound so even if she accepts u and goes out with u she will be constantly thinking about him and comparing him to you. Thats what you will be dealing with.

Fuck man... I dont wanna wait all that time but I guess its my only option

 

[TylerDurden2]

yea man … romance only exists in high-school … uni is every foids whore phase

Well I wouldnt complain if I only got to fuck her, but I want more honestly