Question: do girls ever approach. If so, elab

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Yes. Even i got approached 1 time. And im an 4psl ethnic in germany
 
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If I've ever been approached, I was too autistic to notice.
 
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On insta - 3-4 times
Irl - 1-2 times
 
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Eons ago
 
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I have been like 3 times in my life and i never go outside
 
Yeah they do. Its happened to a lot of us a handful of times.
@Amnesia is probably the best person to talk to tho jfl
 
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Yes lol, what a question
 
Nosecel said:
Yes lol, what a question
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I’ve never seen it plus men are expected to approach, I assumed girls knew that so never approach themselves
 
jm10 said:
I’ve never seen it plus men are expected to approach, I assumed girls knew that so never approach themselves
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i was once studying and a girl asked me what i was reading
however, she likely just wanted to sit down as the room was crowded and my table was vacant
 
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Yes, they approach if they see a guy they really like, the thing is most of the time they don't know what to say or do because they are the ones who are approached all the time, so usually when they approach a guy they ask for a light, or what the time is, or some other stupid question and they let the guy do all the work and flirting.
 
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I believe it could be over for me. My vibe has been killed. Mods lock this devastating thread.
 
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jm10 said:
I believe it could be over for me. My vibe has been killed. Mods lock this devastating thread.
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Yeah, what the fuck bro. I didn't know this was a thing that happened. I'm gonna kill myself after tonight after reading this thread
 
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jm10 said:
that’s more than I’ve ever got. Am I a subhuman?
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probably not. there arent many genuine sub 4 psl subhumans on this forum. most are between 4 and 6 psl so if you can become NT and develop social skills it is possible to get a LTR.
i have a giga chad friend and girls dont approach him during the day
 
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In4 replies, I have no experience on this matter.
 
online i have been messaged first quite a few times

in real life only once that i can remember. Unless you’re 6 PSL or smth crazy like that you will still need to do a lot of the work, this girl approached me by asking to get in a picture with her, and I only slayed after I took her for a chat and flirted etc
 
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jm10 said:
What PSL do I need to be approached/messaged first
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It happens to me and I've been rated 5-5.25. But to be fair it happened when I was leaner.
 
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It happens to me and I've been rated 5-5.25. But to be fair it happened when I was leaner.
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See my latest thread my lord. It is over for me
 
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yes they just dont approach me
 
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I have never been approached so I’m subhuman
 
lol a lot of women approached me, asked for my number.

over if you are not approached.
 
It happened to me only 3 times in 5 years. I think they do, but only when you look like a Chad, like those peak days when you randomly hit 7-8/10 for no reason. And every time they chose the worst moment to do it so I couldn't react adequately.
 
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lol a lot of women approached me, asked for my number.

over if you are not approached.
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But in what situations? Im not in college and I don't go clubbing so my positions of them not approaching is based on my average day of going to the metro here and there. I honestly don't think I've seen approaches like that...

I've been given clear iois that's it.
 
online? frequently, but irl only a few times in bars and clubs
 
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RAITEIII said:
But in what situations? Im not in college and I don't go clubbing so my positions of them not approaching is based on my average day of going to the metro here and there. I honestly don't think I've seen approaches like that...

I've been given clear iois that's it.
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Well one time i was getting into station, a girl saw me. We entered, i endup near sest of her but a little bit fall on her. Then we smiled and talked, she was in university but not mine, and stuff. I get it when I saw her, it was in her eyes, you know, liked me alot. You can know kind of things if you experienced before. It was in metro.

Another one: My bag was big and they charged extra cost for it. A girl behind me asked what happened and stuff, I did not even ser her. Apperently we were in the same uni. We met again after train arrived the last station. Travel a bit together in a bus and she asked for my number. So I used my extra ticket for her and she wanted she will pay back with a coffe when we get back for next semester.

It happens a lot but rarely end up with relationship.
 
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Yes its happened to me a few times in my life, its pretty rare though, Id say men approach atleast 5 times more often than women do
 
Been approached on nights out and get IOI’s during the day.

You have to be Giga chad to be cold approached during the day though.
 
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At night yes (only happened to me maybe 3 times in my life. My wingman gets approached about 7 times per night)

Never seen it happen in the day time, though
 
got approached around 10 times last year but only 2 asked for number and 1 for instagram/snapchat.
others were random approaches which i rejected straight away (1 wanted to drink in a bar with me, 2 wanted me to sit down with them and eat popcorn at some festival, 2 approached at a festival but i think they only wanted drinks, 2 approached me when i was sitting alone on a bench midnight after i felt bad at a party)

more iois than approaches obviously and all of the girls who approached had at least 1-2 friends with them

and no i never went to a club or smth
 
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im a shut in neet but ive gotten women starting conversations with me, one obvious ioi on the street, and cashiers are sometimes flirty. this older one a little more so than the younger ones that i see frequently

have yet to get any first messages online but ive only had an instagram for about a month with a single profile picture. might have to change that
 
No comrade
 
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Yes they do. From my experience and observations, only the pretty and confident or popular girls will. Pretty much your typical loud and annoying Stacy type. The shy and quiet girls will not. So don't expect your Becky oneitis to throw herself at you after you ascend without you making the first move. Stacies will throw themselves at you as I'm pretty sure many incels here have witnessed.
 
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On IG from time to time
 
At parties and clubs yes.
 
Yes bro
 
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Once actually, but I fucked it up terribly by being such a sperg that she probably thought I was retarded :feelswhy:
 
Irl a few times by 3 PSL subhumans in Highschool
 
When I was in high school I was approached multiple times and even outside of school at concerts, etc. I would get approached by JBs. The thing is that my hair so long that it went to my belly button, plus I already was 6'2 at 14-15.
 
yes they do, ive only really been cold approached once when i was walking down the street and a girl randomly said "excuse me can my friend get your snapchat" didnt realise it at the moment/thought she was trying to do something to me so i said "no thanks" and walked on
 
Yeah, some definitely do. I know from my own experience.
 
This thread is fucking suicidefuel, why aren’t they approaching me :feelsree:
 
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Yes, acquaintances have been approached often. Doesn't happen to me ofc (luckily)
 
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Got approached yesterday in the club by two blonde jbs (above average but not extremely hot) while i was sitting with my phone having some rest, but I went there with my gf and some friends. They told me “Come with us, dance with us bla bla” then insisted 3/4 times until I said I had a gf, they disappeared in a nanosecond.
 
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