question for normies

[Deleted member 165250]

is it normal to dm someone on instagram for no reason? there's a girl I used to fw and she followed me and I was considering just starting up a conversation

 

[yussimania]

is it normal to dm someone on instagram for no reason? there's a girl I used to fw and she followed me and I was considering just starting up a conversation

yeah u got nothing to lose anyway

 

[Mizi44]

yeah if you usually interact irl etc then yes unless its someone you didnt interact for a long time it could become awkward

 

[cooIguy]

yes

 

[Sadist]

yeah

say u havent spoken in a while and develop the convo from there

she alr knows wyll anyways

 

[Deleted member 165250]

yeah if you usually interact irl etc then yes unless its someone you didnt interact for a long time it could become awkward

I haven't talked to her in like 4 years jfl

 

[HtnGymcel]

is it normal to dm someone on instagram for no reason? there's a girl I used to fw and she followed me and I was considering just starting up a conversation

Ye you miss 100% of the shots you don't take brah
DM'ing is op if your LHTN+

 

[Deleted member 165250]

Ye you miss 100% of the shots you don't take brah
DM'ing is op if your LHTN+

well unfortunately I'm lltn-sub5

 

[HtnGymcel]

well unfortunately I'm lltn-sub5

Don't even bother then

 

[Deleted member 165250]

Don't even bother then

 

[White_Bwoi]

Two girls DM'd ME on Insta (and ancient unc oldcel) when I lunched tinder again (I assume they saw me there and smelled the opportunity lol)
I talked a'lil bit but crushed their ego by ghosting them in the end

BUT I have like 3-4 legitimate CRUSHES on Insta, that I know personally - from time that I was at university's but I couldn't do anything then because I was in fucking LTR...

Im always nervous Ill look like a fool/looser/maniac/stalker to message one of them out of the blue after years...

I think it's better to stalk - find events they're attending and be there or something "by accident" etc... for the first step idk