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i see it now that i dont have anything in common with any woman. because i cant communicate with them so if i am to like a girl it will be strictly for sex. and thats just wrong, there should be some degree of connection with the other person. if you just wanna fuck her, then you are just using her like she is an object or smth. its a bad mentality to have, most guys who get laid DO in fact have stuff in common with girls.
even for an ONS, men and women have some shit that connects them. maybe its smoking, maybe they go out to the same places, mutual friends, politics etc, but there is always something there. I used to have the slayer mentality but eventually i realize that it doesnt work cuz i cant talk with women. then i met my itis who i spoke the same "language" with but ofc she wanted someone white with good height and a compact midface. But my mindset with her was at least "healhty" even though it was a disaster.
even for an ONS, men and women have some shit that connects them. maybe its smoking, maybe they go out to the same places, mutual friends, politics etc, but there is always something there. I used to have the slayer mentality but eventually i realize that it doesnt work cuz i cant talk with women. then i met my itis who i spoke the same "language" with but ofc she wanted someone white with good height and a compact midface. But my mindset with her was at least "healhty" even though it was a disaster.