Rejected by my oneitis of 3 years on and off

[DoctorLooksmax]

I have liked this girl since the start of uni and finally had the courage to make a move on her but she rejected me. I’ve been rejected by other girls at uni but this one hurts the most by far. I feel so worthless and like my whole life is just pointless. I’ve honestly spent pretty much the last 3 months trying to plan how I was gonna make a move on her, fantasizing about her because it makes me feel good to imagine us being together and in love. I honestly thought she might have liked me back based off her behaviour and how she treated me, I guess if she didn’t like me then probably no girl ever will. Now I’ve done uni it’ll be 100 times harder to meet anyone and I’ve been around thousands of girls here and just been rejected but worst of all rejected by her so I may as well give up.


I 100% regret even asking because atleast before I asked I could Fantasize about her and stuff and it felt like there was a chance that maybe the stuff I wished could eventually come true but now I can’t even have my fantasies about her because I know for sure she doesn’t like me and won’t ever be with me. She has no idea the amount of time I’ve spent thinking about her, dreaming about her, planning what I was gonna say to her etc and it was all for absolutely nothing. I’ll never find another girl who makes me feel the way she does ever again

 

[Deleted member 4209]

darn. my oneitis strung me along for long time also. it hurts

 

[Deleted member 2403]

Damn I really feel you but I can’t read all of that sorry

 

[Zygos4Life]

I understand how you feel bro
Ive been in the same situation as you with oneitis, and it took a while to get over it

 

[SMVbender]

imagine having oneitis

 

[Deleted member 6095]

Never have a oneitis. They only hurt you OP

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Never have a oneitis. They only hurt you OP

The thing about this one is I honestly thought she might like me back

 

[Deleted member 6095]

The thing about this one is I honestly thought she might like me back

I thought this many times and the only time it worked out in my teen life was when the GIRL initiated it.

Ofc she fucking died of a brain tumor tho. Life is fucking cruel and not worth anything.

 

[Deleted member 5187]

Shit sucks man
At least you had the courage to seek her out
It's better than living in fantasy world of play pretend imagination
All men will be rejected and probably by the one they want the most tbh

Now you might be more open to new girls and it's probably for the better

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Shit sucks man
At least you had the courage to seek her out
It's better than living in fantasy world of play pretend imagination
All men will be rejected and probably by the one they want the most tbh

Now you might be more open to new girls and it's probably for the better

I know bro

I genuinely thought she had given men IOIs and shown me interest. 2 years being single at uni and ive shot my shot with 3 different girls through social circle, 100s if you count tinder and clubs but girls I actually was invested in yo some extent it’s 3, because in that duration of time those are the only instances were I actually had an opportunity. Got rejected by all 3, albeit I had a one night stand with one of them first. If my results were this bad at uni, I can only imagine it getting harder for me after graduation

 

[Deleted member 4671]

nigga im not reading that mf harvad essay

 

[Deleted member 5694]

Sames happened to me man, now I just don’t try with oneitis because I know nothing will come of it

 

[Deleted member 5187]

I know bro

I genuinely thought she had given men IOIs and shown me interest. 2 years being single at uni and ive shot my shot with 3 different girls through social circle, 100s if you count tinder and clubs but girls I actually was invested in yo some extent it’s 3, because in that duration of time those are the only instances were I actually had an opportunity. Got rejected by all 3, albeit I had a one night stand with one of them first. If my results were this bad at uni, I can only imagine it getting harder for me after graduation

I only had 2 oneitis ever
One semi rejected me but we was 14
Met her again at 16 and she kinda rejected me then causing pain
I probably orbited her and she rewarded me with sex occasionally lol

Opened me up to other girls and later met a funnier and better looking girl I probably would had shut down if I was chasing that first girl


Continue to looksmax and social circle max after uni
Maybe it will actually be for the better in the long run
Good luck

 

[Alesund]

It's good tha you at least asked her out and she revealed how she feels about you- now you can move on without wondering "what if" and fantasizing about being together. When my oneitis told me she never really liked as anything more than a friend and even said I'm like a brother to her, it hurt like a mf but once I ghosted her plain recessed psl3 whore ass I feel much better. It's gonna take some time, but it's definitely worth it. Make sure to delete EVERYTHING that reminds you of her( all your messages,pictures,etc.). It's gonna make everything much easier.

 

[RAITEIII]

Relatable bro, forgetmaxx, looksmax. You'll get one nice gf soon don't worry.

 

[>&-ȳƆrǽDZƫMŢÅĚ@]

Never had the balls to ask out any girls I like. I still fap to some of them 10 years later.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Never had the balls to ask out any girls I like. I still fap to some of them 10 years later.

Done it 3 times (with girls I know irl that is if you count tinder it’s 1000s). Got 3 rejections....

 

[>&-ȳƆrǽDZƫMŢÅĚ@]

Done it 3 times (with girls I know irl that is if you count tinder it’s 1000s). Got 3 rejections....

This world is a sick joke man

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Oneitis = low T

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

This world is a sick joke man

Well Tbf one of them slept with me then rejected me afterwards