rejection hurts so bad

[bddcoper]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

 

[OldSpice]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

Here fro u bro, ask to try again & take it slow

 

[Janne]

No shirr

 

[Vermilioncore]

Ask her to do the fent lean with you

 

[bddcoper]

Here fro u bro, ask to try again & take it slow

I did ask her to meet again after she walked out and that was her response

 

[Kroker]

If you’re the guy in your avi I don’t see you struggling much

 

[bddcoper]

If you’re the guy in your avi I don’t see you struggling much

Well I’m not unfortunately

 

[VHD]

then left once she thought i was asking about sex

What did you say?

 

[bddcoper]

What did you say?

I literally just asked “do you wanna do smth else” 1 hour into watching stuff (our original plan over text) then she left and said we shouldn’t see each other anymore

 

[sarmatian]

Block her and find another one.

 

[78766]

Here fro u bro, ask to try again & take it slow

If you’re the guy in your avi I don’t see you struggling much

 

[VHD]

I literally just asked “do you wanna do smth else” 1 hour into watching stuff (our original plan over text) then she left and said we shouldn’t see each other anymore

Did you just watch shit in silence before? Can you talk to people?

 

[VHD]

There just isn't enough information to give any real advice.

 

[bddcoper]

Did you just watch shit in silence before? Can you talk to people?

I was talking to her but she’s so fucking awkward and hard to make conversation with as she is too low iq to give a response or even know what I’m talking abt half the time

 

[bddcoper]

There just isn't enough information to give any real advice.

i *think* i got brutally rejected by this girl during our date in my dorm, should i do anything

so we basically had a first date then afterwards she messaged me “hey you free Tuesday to hang out” and then i said “sure you wanna come over or did u have smth else in mind” then she said “I can come over” (she was gonna come over after the first date but couldn’t bc of smth) Basically what...

looksmax.org

 

[VHD]

i *think* i got brutally rejected by this girl during our date in my dorm, should i do anything

so we basically had a first date then afterwards she messaged me “hey you free Tuesday to hang out” and then i said “sure you wanna come over or did u have smth else in mind” then she said “I can come over” (she was gonna come over after the first date but couldn’t bc of smth) Basically what...

looksmax.org

She either thought of you as a friend or found you attractive but your personality is so disturbingly non-nt and off putting that it killed all attraction to you.
Or she's just socially awkward and afraid of sex. Could be on her not you. Is she a weirdo / virgin girl?

 

[bddcoper]

She either thought of you as a friend or found you attractive but your personality is so disturbingly non-nt and off putting that it killed all attraction to you.
Or she's just socially awkward and afraid of sex. Could be on her not you. Is she a weirdo / virgin girl?

virgin probably i didnt ask but we talked about dating history and stuff and she gave off that impression. idk about weird but just very clear lack of social skills/life. even just talking to her normally you can tell she is nervous and awkward/a bit shy even on our second date

also my personality is just like chill even if i may not seem like it on here (was on pregab and baclofen and semax/selank). idk if she thought of me as a friend since she did say she "was looking for someone to go out with" which means she was looking for someone to date unless go out with means friends

my theory (lmk what u think):

liked me initially after date 1 -> asked me out for #2 -> i dressed like a douchebag (sweatpants, white tank top/wifebeater, necklace) -> date 2 was awkward -> she assumed i was a player and or only wanted sex after my very indirect advance -> decided to leave and say it was bc we werent compatible (possibly bc she is looking for a guy who will take it slow and potentially one she thinks is a virgin/doesn't seem to only care about sex, despite me never talking about anything sexual just by the way i dressed and talked)

cuz lowkey we were chilling and even tho it was mostly silence literally until i asked her if she wanted to do smth else which is when she got very nervous and it took a 180 and led to this

 

[The Grinch]

we aren't compatible "personality-wise"

Sure, that was the reason

 

[bddcoper]

Sure, that was the reason

yeah no shit it wasn't if i truly believed her i wouldn't be on this forum in the first place

 

[ltbguy77]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

Mr obvious. Lol, they are all the same.

 

[bddcoper]

Mr obvious. Lol, they are all the same.

yes they are and i think i am over it now. it's like i can keep fucking dwelling on this shit or keep fucking ascending. it's just more motivation for me to keep messing with more compounds and doing more procedures on myself

also i was just watching a clip of clav roasting foids on the fresh & fit podcast and she kinda looks like the one below with the nasolabial folds she also got that chink maxilla without being asian and my lips are twice as thick as hers JFL

 

[ltbguy77]

yes they are and i think i am over it now. it's like i can keep fucking dwelling on this shit or keep fucking ascending. it's just more motivation for me to keep messing with more compounds and doing more procedures on myself

also i was just watching a clip of clav roasting foids on the fresh & fit podcast and she kinda looks like the one below with the nasolabial folds she also got that chink maxilla without being asian and my lips are twice as thick as hers JFL

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That's good brother, fuck them all B)

 

[OldSpice]

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300 posts for a reason

 

[alpomer7]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

Didn't you message that she reached out and asked to meet after that

 

[Okamaw]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

Honestly just fucking slime tf out her and her family do her family first wait a week then her LMAO

 

[2kk]

virgin probably i didnt ask but we talked about dating history and stuff and she gave off that impression. idk about weird but just very clear lack of social skills/life. even just talking to her normally you can tell she is nervous and awkward/a bit shy even on our second date

also my personality is just like chill even if i may not seem like it on here (was on pregab and baclofen and semax/selank). idk if she thought of me as a friend since she did say she "was looking for someone to go out with" which means she was looking for someone to date unless go out with means friends

my theory (lmk what u think):

liked me initially after date 1 -> asked me out for #2 -> i dressed like a douchebag (sweatpants, white tank top/wifebeater, necklace) -> date 2 was awkward -> she assumed i was a player and or only wanted sex after my very indirect advance -> decided to leave and say it was bc we werent compatible (possibly bc she is looking for a guy who will take it slow and potentially one she thinks is a virgin/doesn't seem to only care about sex, despite me never talking about anything sexual just by the way i dressed and talked)

cuz lowkey we were chilling and even tho it was mostly silence literally until i asked her if she wanted to do smth else which is when she got very nervous and it took a 180 and led to this

she is probably more nd than you bro

 

[RealFunkyFlamingo]

yes they are and i think i am over it now. it's like i can keep fucking dwelling on this shit or keep fucking ascending. it's just more motivation for me to keep messing with more compounds and doing more procedures on myself

also i was just watching a clip of clav roasting foids on the fresh & fit podcast and she kinda looks like the one below with the nasolabial folds she also got that chink maxilla without being asian and my lips are twice as thick as hers JFL

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She ugly

 

[bddcoper]

Didn't you message that she reached out and asked to meet after that

yes she is the one who reached out to hang out again like JFL at dating in 2025 these bitches can just lose interest in any moment and you can spend hours together and none of it means anything since they can just leave without a proper explanation

 

[TiktokUser]

virgin probably i didnt ask but we talked about dating history and stuff and she gave off that impression. idk about weird but just very clear lack of social skills/life. even just talking to her normally you can tell she is nervous and awkward/a bit shy even on our second date

also my personality is just like chill even if i may not seem like it on here (was on pregab and baclofen and semax/selank). idk if she thought of me as a friend since she did say she "was looking for someone to go out with" which means she was looking for someone to date unless go out with means friends

my theory (lmk what u think):

liked me initially after date 1 -> asked me out for #2 -> i dressed like a douchebag (sweatpants, white tank top/wifebeater, necklace) -> date 2 was awkward -> she assumed i was a player and or only wanted sex after my very indirect advance -> decided to leave and say it was bc we werent compatible (possibly bc she is looking for a guy who will take it slow and potentially one she thinks is a virgin/doesn't seem to only care about sex, despite me never talking about anything sexual just by the way i dressed and talked)

cuz lowkey we were chilling and even tho it was mostly silence literally until i asked her if she wanted to do smth else which is when she got very nervous and it took a 180 and led to this

Girls are attracted to players because it signals preselection and social proof. So if she really thought you were a player she likely would’ve been into you, especially since she came to your dorm on the second date.

What was her behavior like when you first welcomed her into your dorm, and how did she act before you went on your phone? Did you offer her food or anyrhing

Also if you’re really a tall mtn in college, why are you pursuing a ltb? You should have better choices, especially if you heightmog almost everyone in the school

 

[turkcelfatcel]

hasn't even been 24 hours since she came over then left once she thought i was asking about sex and messaged me that she doesn't think we should see each other anymore because we aren't compatible "personality-wise" . it hurts so bad even though i didn't even like her but rather i liked the idea of not being lonely and finally finding someone to love me. it just hurts being rejected. what was it all for then? hundreds of injections of random chemicals, dozens of supplements, fat dissolving and a million other things, some of which will end up cutting my lifespan by years, just to get rejected by some ltb who has gotten no other male attention in uni. none of this makes sense im at a loss for words on how to describe anything right now

It happens to all of us man. I got rejected by lltb once
Dont worry too much

 

[bddcoper]

Girls are attracted to players because it signals preselection and social proof. So if she really thought you were a player she likely would’ve been into you, especially since she came to your dorm on the second date.

i'm genuinely not sure what she wanted because it doesn't make sense to me how she switched up from asking me to hang out to getting uncomfortable and leaving immediately when she thought i was asking to fuck her

What was her behavior like when you first welcomed her into your dorm, and how did she act before you went on your phone? Did you offer her food or anyrhing

she was actually a bit shy and didn't say much. she was much more open on the first date and actually talked more. i tried talking to her but her responses were genuinely so dogshit and it was difficult to make conversation. i mean hell she showed up 15 minutes late despite literally living in the same dorm building as me and im not sure if she even had makeup on JFL, but she seemed extremely nervous throughout the entire thing (not sure why she even agreed to come then). i offered her hot cocoa, she accepted, but only drank drink half. maybe should've offered snacks too

Also if you’re really a tall mtn in college, why are you pursuing a ltb? You should have better choices, especially if you heightmog almost everyone in the school

i got no friends here, so it's very difficult for me to know abt parties and hookup normally or even set up a two man or wtv as all my friends are genuine manlet incels with 0 hope of dating. i need to figure smth out next semester. not even sure if it's worth cold approaching as if this LTB rejected me after all that why would any other girl not reject me. actually my dating history has all been LTBs that all wanna take it slow with seemingly no interest to fuck early on. this was my first time trying to date in 2 yrs too and it's the same now as it was then despite being subhuman then and MTN now. i'll take any advice honestly as i dont wanna keep wasting time in college especially because i know i have a shot at this now more than ever

 

[TiktokUser]

. i mean hell she showed up 15 minutes late despite literally living in the same dorm building as me and im not sure if she even had makeup on JFL

assuming from her showing up with a bad appearance and being 15 minutes late, it’s likely she either lost feelings and only came out of obligation
or she thought you were expecting sex. Who's idea was it for the date to be in your dorm. You or her

actually my dating history has all been LTBs that all wanna take it slow with seemingly no interest to fuck early on. this was my first time trying to date in 2 yrs too and it's the same now as it was then despite being subhuman then and MTN now.

yeah if they want to take things slow, they probably don’t like you that much. did you ever get the opportunity to have sex, and if you did, did you have to buy things for her

 

[bddcoper]

assuming from her showing up with a bad appearance and being 15 minutes late, it’s likely she either lost feelings and only came out of obligation
or she thought you were expecting sex. Who's idea was it for the date to be in your dorm. You or her

she said "do u wanna hang out" (she msgs me first after our first date) i said "yeah u wanna come over or did u have smth else in mind" (she was gonna come over after the first date but ended up not) she said "i can come over its too cold"

yeah if they want to take things slow, they probably don’t like you that much. did you ever get the opportunity to have sex, and if you did, did you have to buy things for her

no

 

[bddcoper]

guys i did some thinking. could it be because i was using my phone too much and not actually spending time with her. seems like it could be a reasonable cause as i was on that shit for a good 10-15 minutes texting (and i even posted a thread on here while she was sitting next to me ) out of the hour we spent. or does it not matter? or could it have contributed a large amount or nah

 

[TiktokUser]

guys i did some thinking. could it be because i was using my phone too much and not actually spending time with her. seems like it could be a reasonable cause as i was on that shit for a good 10-15 minutes texting (and i even posted a thread on here while she was sitting next to me ) out of the hour we spent. or does it not matter? or could it have contributed a large amount or nah

Why are you still overthinking it

Did she not ghost you