Religious bros, how do you plan on finding a good wife?

[NeedToSucceed]

This thread is mainly for Abrahamic religions (Islam, Christianity, Judaism) idk if other religions ban sex before marriage

Living in the Canada has demoralized me somewhat because it's like every other week a "muslim" girl gets exposed for being a slut. Perhaps it's just stuff like this that gains popularity on social media and that's why I see it so much, but the shocking thing is how muslim women defend these whores.

They will see a video of a girl getting gangbanged and still say shit like "Dont judge her you dont know what shes going through" and "we are all sinners, focus on your own connection to Allah" and when muslim men make comments on this, many women start attacking us and somehow pushing the blame onto us, blaming us for not raising or sisters/daughters properly.

The way so many muslim women defend degenerate muslim women kind of makes me think that they also commit acts like this, or at least want to.

In my opinion it's in the nature of women to act this way. Both men and women have extreme sexual urges, but women know they're desired much more then men are so they try to normalize hypergamy and sexual immorality since they benefit from this the most. This mentality is so strong it sometimes even overcomes religion, and you see Muslim and Christian women defending acts like this.

After I finish Law school at 23-24, i plan to marry a woman straight out of high school, 18-19 years old preferably. I told my sister about this and she started calling me weird even though I'm only 17 right now. I don't care what others think though, a 5 year age gap isn't so bad. As long as its legal I could care less about what normies think. It's the only way you can guarantee a pure woman in this western society.

Another option of mine is going back home to get a wife, but sometimes those women can be even worse and only pretend to be pious because they live in a strict muslim society. At least if you find a western muslim woman you know she's religious because if she was an atheist there's nothing stopping her from being one.

Sorry for long thread, Do you guys relate?

i wonder how its like for Christians especially since most of their countries are secular anyways. And for Jews, im pretty sure you guys are also really secular since Israel is one of the gayest and most liberal countries on earth.

 

[NeedToSucceed]

bumpo

 

[NeedToSucceed]

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[Gengar]

Finding a good wife is so much harder than people think it is. Too many women are LARPing cunts. That's how they trap men. My brother is a victim of this. Met a 26 year old chick, dated her half a year and got married to her. She was nice in the beginning. Wore hijab and abaya. Still does. But everything changed after marriage. Her true colors soon came out and made my brother's life a living hell. Plotted together with her mother, who, by the way, divorced her father. She's an ugly goblina too. But my brother's wife is tall at least. Her dad is 6'3" and her goblina mom is 5'5", dude is not even that tall for a Pakistani mind you. There's taller dudes out there. Anyway recently he remarried so good for him. Long story short make sure to get a woman well if you do not have the people skills to figure her out. My brother is pussywhipped and she only uses Islam for her own good. She refused to partake in a cultural farewell ceremony because it's not Islamically required (her first argument was it's from Hindu tradition and if it's not against Islam she will do it, I digged up info and discovered it's not against Islam, brother brought it up but she refused and said I won't do anything cultural). At the same time she made my brother pay for not one, not two but THREE honeymoons even though it's not an Islamic concept. She also once said "You don't always have to look at (what) Islam (says)." I shit you not. Demanded €500 from my brother even though he only earned €1500 per month for her newborn nephew. Keep in mind she made him spend €2000 in one month. She only asked for €50 in bridal money just to trick my brother into thinking she's HQNP. She often emotionally blackmails my brother, she talked shit about my parents, she even cussed out my brother and called him things like "kankerhond" and "kankerzwerver." (These things mean "dog / hobo who suffers from cancer" respectively. @emeraldglass)

 

[emeraldglass]

Finding a good wife is so much harder than people think it is. Too many women are LARPing cunts. That's how they trap men. My brother is a victim of this. Met a 26 year old chick, dated her half a year and got married to her. She was nice in the beginning. Wore hijab and abaya. Still does. But everything changed after marriage. Her true colors soon came out and made my brother's life a living hell. Plotted together with her mother, who, by the way, divorced her father. She's an ugly goblina too. But my brother's wife is tall at least. Her dad is 6'3" and her goblina mom is 5'5", dude is not even that tall for a Pakistani mind you. There's taller dudes out there. Anyway recently he remarried so good for him. Long story short make sure to get a woman well if you do not have the people skills to figure her out. My brother is pussywhipped and she only uses Islam for her own good. She refused to partake in a cultural farewell ceremony because it's not Islamically required (her first argument was it's from Hindu tradition and if it's not against Islam she will do it, I digged up info and discovered it's not against Islam, brother brought it up but she refused and said I won't do anything cultural). At the same time she made my brother pay for not one, not two but THREE honeymoons even though it's not an Islamic concept. She also once said "You don't always have to look at (what) Islam (says)." I shit you not. Demanded €500 from my brother even though he only earned €1500 per month for her newborn nephew. Keep in mind she made him spend €2000 in one month. She only asked for €50 in bridal money just to trick my brother into thinking she's HQNP. She often emotionally blackmails my brother, she talked shit about my parents, she even cussed out my brother and called him things like "kankerhond" and "kankerzwerver." (These things mean "dog / hobo who suffers from cancer" respectively. @emeraldglass)

Today's women are more interested in their social media followers than their families. They live off the attention they receive from people around them. Getting married these days is like Russian roulette, you have a chance of a successful marriage but it is difficult.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

This thread is mainly for Abrahamic religions (Islam, Christianity, Judaism) idk if other religions ban sex before marriage

Living in the Canada has demoralized me somewhat because it's like every other week a "muslim" girl gets exposed for being a slut. Perhaps it's just stuff like this that gains popularity on social media and that's why I see it so much, but the shocking thing is how muslim women defend these whores.

They will see a video of a girl getting gangbanged and still say shit like "Dont judge her you dont know what shes going through" and "we are all sinners, focus on your own connection to Allah" and when muslim men make comments on this, many women start attacking us and somehow pushing the blame onto us, blaming us for not raising or sisters/daughters properly.

The way so many muslim women defend degenerate muslim women kind of makes me think that they also commit acts like this, or at least want to.

In my opinion it's in the nature of women to act this way. Both men and women have extreme sexual urges, but women know they're desired much more then men are so they try to normalize hypergamy and sexual immorality since they benefit from this the most. This mentality is so strong it sometimes even overcomes religion, and you see Muslim and Christian women defending acts like this.

After I finish Law school at 23-24, i plan to marry a woman straight out of high school, 18-19 years old preferably. I told my sister about this and she started calling me weird even though I'm only 17 right now. I don't care what others think though, a 5 year age gap isn't so bad. As long as its legal I could care less about what normies think. It's the only way you can guarantee a pure woman in this western society.

Another option of mine is going back home to get a wife, but sometimes those women can be even worse and only pretend to be pious because they live in a strict muslim society. At least if you find a western muslim woman you know she's religious because if she was an atheist there's nothing stopping her from being one.

Sorry for long thread, Do you guys relate?

i wonder how its like for Christians especially since most of their countries are secular anyways. And for Jews, im pretty sure you guys are also really secular since Israel is one of the gayest and most liberal countries on earth.

its over

 

[Gengar]

Today's women are more interested in their social media followers than their families. They live off the attention they receive from people around them. Getting married these days is like Russian roulette, you have a chance of a successful marriage but it is difficult.

She doesn't even use social media from what I know haha. Some women are just rotten. He should have done more research but can't fully blame my brother. Thoughts on her calling him those things?

 

[Xangsane]

Through friends or family.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

finding a good wife is basically impossible, its best imo top take ur chance with an 18 year old from abroad and if you find out she is a larper, do what you must (fother hoes on the side). Lying about purity is basically cheating imo, although not islamically allowed, i elieve personally its fine to cheat in retaliation. Family friends maybe but thats tuff as well

 

[Deleted member 23772]

If i were you i would have tried to find a girl already at your age. You can even try 15 year girls cuz most of them are probably virgin still and just be her first theory is legit even for subhumans so might as well go for it!

 

[Deleted member 23218]

finding a good wife is basically impossible, its best imo top take ur chance with an 18 year old from abroad and if you find out she is a larper, do what you must (fother hoes on the side). Lying about purity is basically cheating imo, although not islamically allowed, i elieve personally its fine to cheat in retaliation. Family friends maybe but thats tuff as well

@TRUE_CEL what are your thoughts on my rationale. I know its not halal but it seems just

 

[Gengar]

@TRUE_CEL what are your thoughts on my rationale. I know its not halal but it seems just

I actually agree with you. If someone lies to you about their virginity they are massive cunts and you should just make them feel the pain they made you feel. It's not fair if you end up with someone like that when you're a virgin yourself.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I actually agree with you. If someone lies to you about their virginity they are massive cunts and you should just make them feel the pain they made you feel. It's not fair if you end up with someone like that when you're a virgin yourself.

I may just do that tbh. Ill just looksmaxx and moneymaxx hard (im already moneymaxxed but i start working for my dad). Ill try to fund a wife after i ascend abit and if she is a larper i wil cheat with escorts or anything tbh

 

[HOLYFUARK]

You want pure virgin religious wife but i know you are depraved weeb fapping to waifu thighs in your basement you misogynistic inkwel, perhaps lower your standards

 

[emeraldglass]

She doesn't even use social media from what I know haha. Some women are just rotten. He should have done more research but can't fully blame my brother. Thoughts on her calling him those things?

A solid conversation with her, with respect for both parties. Some things have to be addressed in a marriage and waiting for change is like waiting for penguins to fly, it will never change. A man should not allow himself to be walked on, he should respect his wife's rights but not be inferior to her. A submissive husband will never be respected by his wife, even if she will never say it to his face, her actions speak volumes.

 

[Gengar]

A solid conversation with her, with respect for both parties. Some things have to be addressed in a marriage and waiting for change is like waiting for penguins to fly, it will never change. A man should not allow himself to be walked on, he should respect his wife's rights but not be inferior to her. A submissive husband will never be respected by his wife, even if she will never say it to his face, her actions speak volumes.

Exactly. My brother's wife doesn't respect him. He tries to catch up for it now but it's too late. My parents intervened a couple of times to no avail. She's still cunty as before.

 

[Gengar]

You want pure virgin religious wife but i know you are depraved weeb fapping to waifu thighs in your basement you misogynistic inkwel, perhaps lower your standards

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JFL as long as he is a non degen virgin he can still wish for it.

 

[emeraldglass]

Exactly. My brother's wife doesn't respect him. He tries to catch up for it now but it's too late. My parents intervened a couple of times to no avail. She's still cunty as before.

Whoever dares to divorce first usually has the upper hand in a relationship. If he can show her that he dares to divorce and that she is dependent on him, he can regain power. Never be the emotionally dependent person in a relationship, that's how you show your wife that you need her and literally give away your steering wheel. Let her beg for you not the other way around.

 

[Gengar]

Whoever dares to divorce first usually has the upper hand in a relationship. If he can show her that he dares to divorce and that she is dependent on him, he can regain power. Never be the emotionally dependent person in a relationship, that's how you show your wife that you need her and literally give away your steering wheel. Let her beg for you not the other way around.

She was the first who threatened him with a divorce and he was so pussywhipped that he started crying because of this which caused my parents to intervene. It's fucking ridiculous, after that I just found him pathetic.

 

[emeraldglass]

She was the first who threatened him with a divorce and he was so pussywhipped that he started crying because of this which caused my parents to intervene. It's fucking ridiculous, after that I just found him pathetic.

Did he cry in front of her? If yes, then it's almost completely over. then he has to start taking drastic measures as she won't take him seriously if he subtly tries to take back power.

 

[Deleted member 19620]

Poor girl from where I was born or from Pakistan.

 

[Gengar]

Did he cry in front of her? If yes, then it's almost completely over. then he has to start taking drastic measures as she won't take him seriously if he subtly tries to take back power.

No he cried in front of my parents. My parents felt so bad they started crying too. All this for an LTB he knew for 10 months at that point who also has hyperpigmentation. Just fucking LOL.

 

[Gengar]

Poor girl from where I was born or from Pakistan.

Be careful bhai. Degeneracy is there too. Hymenplasty clinics are all over Pakistan. If you are a virgin I believe you deserve one too.

 

[emeraldglass]

No he cried in front of my parents. My parents felt so bad they started crying too. All this for an LTB he knew for 10 months at that point who also has hyperpigmentation. Just fucking LOL.

Then there is still hope. Let him have a strict talk with her and threaten to divorce if necessary. If she still won't listen, don't let him sleep with her or share the bed, until she comes begging herself. If after a while she does not try to solve the dispute, then he needs to know that she doesn't care about their marriage and divorce is better. Especially if they don't have kids together yet.

 

[Gengar]

Then there is still hope. Let him have a strict talk with her and threaten to divorce if necessary. If she still won't listen, don't let him sleep with her or share the bed, until she comes begging herself. If after a while she does not try to solve the dispute, then he needs to know that she doesn't care about their marriage and divorce is better. Especially if they don't have kids together yet.

Why do you think there's still hope? I am of the opinion that people don't change. It is possible but very rarely and usually a life-changing experience does the trick. Otherwise people don't change. I tell my brother that she won't change but he believes she is. A little too late if you ask me. Should have been like that from the start. Not 1.5 years into the marriage. Yes they don't have kids and from my brother's reaction you can tell he will never divorce her and in Pak culture it's taboo to divorce so my parents don't encourage it, saying it's a sin and better if they work things out. If she ever divorces him I fear he may kill himself.

 

[emeraldglass]

Why do you think there's still hope? I am of the opinion that people don't change. It is possible but very rarely and usually a life-changing experience does the trick. Otherwise people don't change. I tell my brother that she won't change but he believes she is. A little too late if you ask me. Should have been like that from the start. Not 1.5 years into the marriage.

Indeed, some people will never change, so he will have to test it himself. is she willing to yield or not. Chances are small if I hear how she treats him, but a tough approach is needed as a last resort. This way you can exclude everything and not get stuck with questions of what if.

Yes they don't have kids and from my brother's reaction you can tell he will never divorce her and in Pak culture it's taboo to divorce so my parents don't encourage it, saying it's a sin and better if they work things out. If she ever divorces him I fear he may kill himself.

He will have to solve this problem in their relationship before having children. Otherwise, he will lose his bargaining power, and the children will bear the brunt of their failing marriage. Divorce is not haram, but it is the most hated halal to god. Why do you think he would kill himself, did he tell you this?

 

[Gengar]

Indeed, some people will never change, so he will have to test it himself. is she willing to yield or not. Chances are small if I hear how she treats him, but a tough approach is needed as a last resort. This way you can exclude everything and not get stuck with questions of what if.

He will have to solve this problem in their relationship before having children. Otherwise, he will lose his bargaining power, and the children will bear the brunt of their failing marriage. Divorce is not haram, but it is the most hated halal to god. Why do you think he would kill himself, did he tell you this?

I don't think she's worth all the trouble. She's not even good looking hahahaha. Not that looks matter but if you wanna be a cunt at least make sure you're pretty. But yeah he doesn't listen to me. I know it is disliked in the eyes of God but Pakistanis care more about cultural consequences sadly. He never said he would kill himself but if his reaction was to cry and say over and over to us that he doesn't want a divorce then I dread what he would do if she divorces him especially now that he's way more attached. Keep in mind he reacted that way for a woman he knew 10 months only. Now it's been 24 months. And they are still together. I think he will rope.

 

[slayer69]

Finding a good wife is so much harder than people think it is. Too many women are LARPing cunts. That's how they trap men. My brother is a victim of this. Met a 26 year old chick, dated her half a year and got married to her. She was nice in the beginning. Wore hijab and abaya. Still does. But everything changed after marriage. Her true colors soon came out and made my brother's life a living hell. Plotted together with her mother, who, by the way, divorced her father. She's an ugly goblina too. But my brother's wife is tall at least. Her dad is 6'3" and her goblina mom is 5'5", dude is not even that tall for a Pakistani mind you. There's taller dudes out there. Anyway recently he remarried so good for him. Long story short make sure to get a woman well if you do not have the people skills to figure her out. My brother is pussywhipped and she only uses Islam for her own good. She refused to partake in a cultural farewell ceremony because it's not Islamically required (her first argument was it's from Hindu tradition and if it's not against Islam she will do it, I digged up info and discovered it's not against Islam, brother brought it up but she refused and said I won't do anything cultural). At the same time she made my brother pay for not one, not two but THREE honeymoons even though it's not an Islamic concept. She also once said "You don't always have to look at (what) Islam (says)." I shit you not. Demanded €500 from my brother even though he only earned €1500 per month for her newborn nephew. Keep in mind she made him spend €2000 in one month. She only asked for €50 in bridal money just to trick my brother into thinking she's HQNP. She often emotionally blackmails my brother, she talked shit about my parents, she even cussed out my brother and called him things like "kankerhond" and "kankerzwerver." (These things mean "dog / hobo who suffers from cancer" respectively. @emeraldglass)

does she talk smack about you too?

 

[Gengar]

does she talk smack about you too?

He never mentioned it. I don't think she did. But being shitty to my parents is enough for me to dislike you. My parents are old and not young. It's not nice to disrespect people who are at least twice and even triple your age.

 

[slayer69]

I tell my brother that she won't change but he believes she is.

for ur brother's birthday, get him these 2 things as a gift (actually u dont have to wait until his birthday)

 

[slayer69]

He never mentioned it. I don't think she did. But being shitty to my parents is enough for me to dislike you. My parents are old and not young. It's not nice to disrespect people who are at least twice and even triple your age.

is she pakistani ethnically too?

 

[Gengar]

for ur brother's birthday, get him these 2 things as a gift (actually u dont have to wait until his birthday)

His birthday is in early January. XD

 

[Gengar]

is she pakistani ethnically too?

Yep she is. Pakistan is a nationality btw and home to many ethnic groups but they belong to the same one. Apparently some digging into history revealed her village and ours was founded by the same family a few centuries ago so chances are high they're even related. My dad likes to joke about this saying how he always refused to marry a relative and now he is. XD

 

[slayer69]

Yep she is. Pakistan is a nationality btw and home to many ethnic groups but they belong to the same one. Apparently some digging into history revealed her village and ours was founded by the same family a few centuries ago so chances are high they're even related. My dad likes to joke about this saying how he always refused to marry a relative and now he is. XD

yes i know, is she balochi

 

[Gengar]

yes i know, is she balochi

You know Baloch? Mirin. They are said to come from what is now Syria. No we are Pothoharis. Baloch are from Balochistan and Pothohar area is located in Punjab but it's a different ethnic group. There's also Baloch people in South Punjab who speak an Indic language known as Saraiki. Remember that American porn whore of Pakistani ancestry? I discovered she's from the Saraiki area so she's either Punjabi or Baloch. Given her coloring I would go ahead and say Baloch.

 

[slayer69]

Given her coloring I would go ahead and say Baloch.

Remember that American porn whore of Pakistani ancestry?

not sure

No we are Pothoharis.

I see

 

[Gengar]

not sure


I see

How do you know about Baloch? You slaying a Baloch bitch?

 

[Wallenberg]

What's the problem? Muslim girls love casual sex. Just as it should be.

 

[slayer69]

How do you know about Baloch? You slaying a Baloch bitch?

already did, but was generally curious
i dig pakistani chicks, kasheers and potohoris mainly

 

[hirochan]

why can't you boyos accept the fact that its over and not worth it? Pandora's box has been opened, and its called the interent. Only way to find a marriage worthy "innocent" foid is to find one totally insulated from the mainstream western degen media and zeitgeist but thats now impossible as even a foidlet living on top of a palm tree in corner of Philippines has a smart phone. The late stage "cancer" the west suffering from has metastasized to rest of the world via internet through media like goyflix, tiktok, and other forms of social media.
Its over, if you live in the west, take the only thing it has going which is high wages and go on whoremaxxing pilgrimages and coom into prime cunnies. No point in jestering and pigeon dancing for toxic westernized whores, letting them suck the life out of you then settle for some used up busted up cunt who will barely give you sex as you age, and mundane one at that.
Daily reminder that she will kiss you child with lips which have been buried inside chad/tyrones taint as she gave them rim jobs and many other depraved sex acts which she will not give it to you as a beta buckaroobucks/

The choice is your, prime Colombian perky ass and juicy puss of different variety with no string attached sex for $100 and hour or slave and jester to used up entitled westernized degen toxic busted cunt...

 

[emeraldglass]

I don't think she's worth all the trouble. She's not even good looking hahahaha. Not that looks matter but if you wanna be a cunt at least make sure you're pretty. But yeah he doesn't listen to me. I know it is disliked in the eyes of God but Pakistanis care more about cultural consequences sadly. He never said he would kill himself but if his reaction was to cry and say over and over to us that he doesn't want a divorce then I dread what he would do if she divorces him especially now that he's way more attached. Keep in mind he reacted that way for a woman he knew 10 months only. Now it's been 24 months. And they are still together. I think he will rope.

If you and your father were going to have a conversation with him, a very firm conversation with all the truth, no holding back. Think of it as a final offensive. If he listens and takes action, good. If he doesn't listen, take your hands back and leave him in his condition. You guys did your best and it's his own problem after that.

 

[emeraldglass]

already did, but was generally curious
i dig pakistani chicks, kasheers and potohoris mainly

Are you jewish? Asking because of the sig.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Hopefully will find another Christian virgin as I did before. They do exist but there is something that is a catch, be it they are batshit or just not all that attractive. But being that those two apply to just about any woman alive nowadays, there is nothing deterring me

 

[slayer69]

Are you jewish? Asking because of the sig.

לא אבל אני יכול לדבר עברית

 

[emeraldglass]

לא אבל אני יכול לדבר עברית

איפה למדת את זה

 

[Gengar]

already did, but was generally curious
i dig pakistani chicks, kasheers and potohoris mainly

Running JBW on them? Where do you meet them? Kasheer is Kashmiris I think and Potoharis are well, me. I personally don't find Pakistani women attractive NGL, I think they're subhuman. You're from the UK aren't you?

 

[slayer69]

איפה למדת את זה

תשאלי את אמא שלך

 

[Gengar]

If you and your father were going to have a conversation with him, a very firm conversation with all the truth, no holding back. Think of it as a final offensive. If he listens and takes action, good. If he doesn't listen, take your hands back and leave him in his condition. You guys did your best and it's his own problem after that.

Already tried it but my father picks his side and wants to salvage the marriage while I tell them both "he should just divorce her."

 

[emeraldglass]

תשאלי את אמא שלך

אני אשאל את שלך, יש לי פגישה איתה מחר.

 

[emeraldglass]

Already tried it but my father picks his side and wants to salvage the marriage while I tell them both "he should just divorce her."

Then you have done your duty and he will have to deal with it himself.