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This should be self evident but to reiterate, if you've been below average in looks your whole life and eventually looksmax to become a chadlite, you'll still never be the same psychologically as a chad who was born that way. The longer it takes for you to ascend, the longer you will endure being invisible and alone.
It's well known in the field of psychology that a child's personality pretty much forms very early (under age 10). I could talk about different theories from people like Erikson, Freud, Jung, etc. but it's self evident that a lot of moments during these preteen years shape who each of us is. These are the years when children learn to socialize, and when the first instances of social rejection or exclusion occur. Thinking back to my own life, as far back as in 2nd grade in elementary school, there was already a clear social heirarchy, with the extroverted, aggressive, athletic boys at the top and receiving all the attention (in the form of friendship and innocent crushes of course) of the girls. The boys at the bottom were the weak, asthmatic, immature and socially awkward weirdos. The fact that some were already noticeably weird means they either had legit autism or they had already experienced social exclusion even earlier. Blackpill before 2nd grade! My point is, if you spent all of your childhood/preteen years at the bottom of the social heirarchy, you'll almost undoubtedly be permanently psychologically damaged. Ascending won't ever make up for the shit that happened in your formative years. If you were short and boneless but ascended thanks to puberty at 16, the new female attention and respect from guys won't magically erase or make up for the deficit you experienced socially as a kid. This will manifest itself in social situations like being awkward at a party or not knowing how to act around or talk to your oneitis (something you should've figured out before high school).
Returning to one of my initial points, the longer it takes to ascend, the more suffering you'll endure, and the more damage you'll receive. So if you ascend in high school, the damage will be relatively minimal as you can adapt and still go through a lot of fun experiences that young people are supposed to go through. This is better than ascending during college, and this in turn is exponentially better than ascending after college, when your prime is behind you and you have no hope to have a normal youth. There's no way to make up for that. It's over. Ascending during adulthood will show you what you missed out on for over a decade in your youth. Not only that, you'll suddenly be faced with post wall women who want to settle down and have kids (especially if youre in your 30s), but how the hell are you supposed to be ready for that when you never were young yourself. No dorm parties, no teen romance with your oneitis when both of you are in your prime, no invites to any events, no group of bros who've got your back. You're not a person. You had no life.
But suddenly a cougar wants to settle with you. Or a milf wants to have an affair with you when her cuck husband is at work all day. Great. That 20k lefort surgery sure paid off.
I guess my takeaway message is that while you looksmax, and after you ascend, you're still gonna be mentally screwed up. You're probably going to have to improve your social skills, because even if you get approached a lot and fucked, you shouldn't have autistic basement dweller tier social skills. This advice goes beyond dating, because guys still won't be friends with you if you can't vibe with people. And you should still try to heal yourself emotionally. Sex and validation wont be enough to fill the gaps in your life. Get help, immerse yourself in hobbies, find new friends, etc. And don't drown in bitterness and cynicism over what you lost. Try to have the best life you can.
And remember...
It's not your fault. It's not your fault that you had no friends, received no female attention, remained the butt of every joke, or relied on your laptop for human interaction. It wasn't your personality - chad Meeks can beat people and still receive adoration and money. It wasnt your style. It wasn't anything you could change.
It's well known in the field of psychology that a child's personality pretty much forms very early (under age 10). I could talk about different theories from people like Erikson, Freud, Jung, etc. but it's self evident that a lot of moments during these preteen years shape who each of us is. These are the years when children learn to socialize, and when the first instances of social rejection or exclusion occur. Thinking back to my own life, as far back as in 2nd grade in elementary school, there was already a clear social heirarchy, with the extroverted, aggressive, athletic boys at the top and receiving all the attention (in the form of friendship and innocent crushes of course) of the girls. The boys at the bottom were the weak, asthmatic, immature and socially awkward weirdos. The fact that some were already noticeably weird means they either had legit autism or they had already experienced social exclusion even earlier. Blackpill before 2nd grade! My point is, if you spent all of your childhood/preteen years at the bottom of the social heirarchy, you'll almost undoubtedly be permanently psychologically damaged. Ascending won't ever make up for the shit that happened in your formative years. If you were short and boneless but ascended thanks to puberty at 16, the new female attention and respect from guys won't magically erase or make up for the deficit you experienced socially as a kid. This will manifest itself in social situations like being awkward at a party or not knowing how to act around or talk to your oneitis (something you should've figured out before high school).
Returning to one of my initial points, the longer it takes to ascend, the more suffering you'll endure, and the more damage you'll receive. So if you ascend in high school, the damage will be relatively minimal as you can adapt and still go through a lot of fun experiences that young people are supposed to go through. This is better than ascending during college, and this in turn is exponentially better than ascending after college, when your prime is behind you and you have no hope to have a normal youth. There's no way to make up for that. It's over. Ascending during adulthood will show you what you missed out on for over a decade in your youth. Not only that, you'll suddenly be faced with post wall women who want to settle down and have kids (especially if youre in your 30s), but how the hell are you supposed to be ready for that when you never were young yourself. No dorm parties, no teen romance with your oneitis when both of you are in your prime, no invites to any events, no group of bros who've got your back. You're not a person. You had no life.
But suddenly a cougar wants to settle with you. Or a milf wants to have an affair with you when her cuck husband is at work all day. Great. That 20k lefort surgery sure paid off.
I guess my takeaway message is that while you looksmax, and after you ascend, you're still gonna be mentally screwed up. You're probably going to have to improve your social skills, because even if you get approached a lot and fucked, you shouldn't have autistic basement dweller tier social skills. This advice goes beyond dating, because guys still won't be friends with you if you can't vibe with people. And you should still try to heal yourself emotionally. Sex and validation wont be enough to fill the gaps in your life. Get help, immerse yourself in hobbies, find new friends, etc. And don't drown in bitterness and cynicism over what you lost. Try to have the best life you can.
And remember...
It's not your fault. It's not your fault that you had no friends, received no female attention, remained the butt of every joke, or relied on your laptop for human interaction. It wasn't your personality - chad Meeks can beat people and still receive adoration and money. It wasnt your style. It wasn't anything you could change.
