
uksucks
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If it's to do with women
Last time I went to a club in the UK, I had a group of 5 girls all tell me to fuck off + looks of disgust when I approached their friend. Also a ton of other rejections in the same night.
But I didn't lose confidence or feel more hopeless than before. Sure it was annoying but no damage to my self esteem.
Why?
Because of basically one night in Hungary when I went to a club there and mogged hard. The first time I kissed a girl and kissed 3 within 15 minutes, the confidence gained from that one period of 15 minutes will carry me for life.
Receiving actual desire for the first time from a decently attractive girl is enough to not ever doubt yourself ever again.
This is just proof that you can't just be confident.
Confidence either comes from competence, experience, or delusion/drugs
Last time I went to a club in the UK, I had a group of 5 girls all tell me to fuck off + looks of disgust when I approached their friend. Also a ton of other rejections in the same night.
But I didn't lose confidence or feel more hopeless than before. Sure it was annoying but no damage to my self esteem.
Why?
Because of basically one night in Hungary when I went to a club there and mogged hard. The first time I kissed a girl and kissed 3 within 15 minutes, the confidence gained from that one period of 15 minutes will carry me for life.
Receiving actual desire for the first time from a decently attractive girl is enough to not ever doubt yourself ever again.
This is just proof that you can't just be confident.
Confidence either comes from competence, experience, or delusion/drugs